^ me neither, of course.

 

hahaha, sometimes i think my standards are too high, but then again it's not about the sake of having a boyfriend. it's about love and true feelings and i don't care what society thinks. i'm quite old-fashioned. :laugh3:

although i think my mum's getting a bit worried about me because i've never brought anybody home. :rolleyes:

I think you can only really be in love when love is requitted...otherwise it's not worth it I guess....:(

^ me neither, of course.

 

hahaha, sometimes i think my standards are too high, but then again it's not about the sake of having a boyfriend. it's about love and true feelings and i don't care what society thinks. i'm quite old-fashioned. :laugh3:

although i think my mum's getting a bit worried about me because i've never brought anybody home. :rolleyes:

 

ahhh I'm glad I'm not the only one in this world...haha...because I'm actually worried about myself...

me too! :dozey:

 

i know what and who i want. it's just that i haven't found my significant other yet. :smiley:

and there's plenty of time left... i hope i won't be saying this when i'm 45, still a virgin and living with 23 cats.

that would be really lame :P

and having high standards is not bad...

me too! :dozey:

 

i know what and who i want. it's just that i haven't found my significant other yet. :smiley:

and there's plenty of time left... i hope i won't be saying this when i'm 45, still a virgin and living with 23 cats.

why that?

i mean why people say that old virgin woman live with dozen of cats?

i don't get it. :confused:

If you love me, won't you let me know?

why that?

i mean why people say that old virgin woman live with dozen of cats?

i don't get it. :confused:

 

it's just that common stereotype.

didn't mean to offend any girl who has a cat. sorry. :nice:

 

i don't feel offended, no need to be sorry.... and i know is just a stereotype, so can somebody explain me why is this one? :thinking:

and btw i agree with your opinion grace ;)

although i think my mum's getting a bit worried about me because i've never brought anybody home. :rolleyes:

 

Haha, yuuup. Same here.

I just don't like the pressure of society...I sooooo do not dare to tell my BEST-FRIEND that I never had a boy-friend in my life...because she is one of those who started with 14...and almost can't believe it when she hears a girl or a boy in my age has never had a boy/girl-friend before...it's sad...I'm so scared that she'll find out...and when she'll ask me directly I will lie to her...oh God...

and i know is just a stereotype' date=' so can somebody explain me why is this one? :thinking:[/quote']

no idea.

 

i guess it's because old maids just stay at home all day spending their day alone. and they probably have cats to accompany them? absolutely no idea, but cats, unlike dogs, don't need to be walked outside.

mhhh, why do you feel that way, julia?

i mean... i think it's perfectly alright to start dating when you're older. that doesn't mean anything at all. just that you want to make sure you're with someone who's perfect for you. and i'm sure your friend will understand. even though she started having relationships at the "ripe" age of 14, she probably will look back now and think how childish everything was.

 

a lot of my girl friends have boyfriends and they still accept me the way i am. i guess some girls from school would roll their eyes if they found out about this, but they're not my friends. so what.

I just don't like the pressure of society...I sooooo do not dare to tell my BEST-FRIEND that I never had a boy-friend in my life...because she is one of those who started with 14...and almost can't believe it when she hears a girl or a boy in my age has never had a boy/girl-friend before...it's sad...I'm so scared that she'll find out...and when she'll ask me directly I will lie to her...oh God...

same here :rolleyes: and the first year she tried all our friends date her boyfriend friends :rolleyes: how weird is that.

she kept trying to find me a boyfriend each year at high school, and it only ruined the possible chances i might have have with some of them. :dozey: luckily she has stopped doing that.

 

no idea.

 

i guess it's because old maids just stay at home all day spending their day alone. and they probably have cats to accompany them? absolutely no idea, but cats, unlike dogs, don't need to be walked outside.

may be is that, but people have so old stereotypes, an old or mature women can do whatever she wants, going out or not going it go to cultural events, go travel or anything she wants, woman today don't need men that much.

 

btw when asked about that once in class i had a bit of a fight with my mates for that, i said i don't plan to have a boyfriend and get married in the near future, adn they looked at me like :o one of them said.. then you'll be home alone (well the said stereotype), and i was like :dozey:

 

:whatever:

 

 

 

that said i hope i find the one for me one day :nice: and if not i'll be happy doing other things too :)

i was having a conversation with one of my friends at a recent bbq.

we were just sitting around and we were talking about how we'd all end up and stuff and that's when i first realised that i do not want a boyfriend at the moment.

i just don't think i am ready for one, since i am someone who is more into steady relationships. relationships that are serious.

and i am not ready for anything serious.

 

and i think it's okay for a woman to decide whether she wants to date guys or not. it doesn't even have anything to do with that whole "career or love" kind of thing.

mhhh, why do you feel that way, julia?

i mean... i think it's perfectly alright to start dating when you're older. that doesn't mean anything at all. just that you want to make sure you're with someone who's perfect for you. and i'm sure your friend will understand. even though she started having relationships at the "ripe" age of 14, she probably will look back now and think how childish everything was.

 

a lot of my girl friends have boyfriends and they still accept me the way i am. i guess some girls from school would roll their eyes if they found out about this, but they're not my friends. so what.

 

I know that she will still accept me afterwards....but one of her favourite hobbies is to talk about others and their lives esp. their love lives...two of our friends are together now and they both never had a boyfriend before...my other friends and esp her couldn't believe that. I think it's so unusual for her, because she started at the age of 14 (like I said before...)...when she breaks up with a boyfriend she can't even stay alone for some weeks...she always needs someone...sometimes I think she can't understand it when I feel depressed, because I feel so freaking lonely, but I don't tell her that it's because I feel lonely...because she would find out about everything and I'm sure she would talk about it with some other friends who I definitely do not trust...and they'll laugh about me behind my back...they'll still accept me, but they talk a lot behind people's backs...that's why I don't really feel well currently, becuase there is nobody who I can really trust..(ahh this belongs to my other thread..)...ok this is so freaking deluded...:uhoh:

this is love...

 

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that's an awkward situation, julia.

i guess i'd confront her about it the next time she says something cruel about late bloomers and that she must be quite a sad person if she can't be on her own for more than a week.

i mean... quantity doesn't equal quality. she should think about that.

Ryan Adams has the right idea - Love is Hell.

 

right!!!!

that's an awkward situation, julia.

i guess i'd confront her about it the next time she says something cruel about late bloomers and that she must be quite a sad person if she can't be on her own for more than a week.

i mean... quantity doesn't equal quality. she should think about that.

 

oooh if I tell her this she will take it personally immediately and she'll get angry at me and we'll have a biiiiig argument...I'm 100% sure about that...she got seriously disappointed with her two last boyfriends...I think that happened because she trusted them too fastly...and I was the one who had to help her out...

i guess i am pretty naive.

i believe there's this one perfect person out there for each of us and we're challenged to find them. :laugh3:

and that at some point in everyone's life, you get to meet them.

 

You're not naive! That's exactly how I feel. There's one perfect person out there for all of us.

just a random question related with love and relationships....

 

would you let your partner to be completely in your life (meet your friends, family, your colleagues at work, talk with them about your work often or even involve them in work...) or not? ....

 

i guess general answer will be Depends, but i'm curious what you all think about.

:)

just a random question related with love and relationships....

 

would you let your partner to be completely in your life (meet your friends, family, your colleagues at work, talk with them about your work often or even involve them in work...) or not? ....

 

i guess general answer will be Depends, but i'm curious what you all think about.

:)

 

if you were very serious about this partner, then probably yes.

would you let your partner to be completely in your life (meet your friends' date=' family, your colleagues at work, talk with them about your work often or even involve them in work...) [/size']or not? ....

definitely!

i mean if it's a serious relationship, then yes! all the way.

it would bother me if it wasn't like that. i want me significant other to get a long very well with my family and friends an vice versa. but what do you mean by "involve them in work"?

i meant like talk about work when your work is not good... i mean when you had a crapy day. :thinking:

or if you happen to be the same, would you have some project with them at work or you would avoid that?

at times i think about that.. and i sure don't know what i'll do... but i'd like to have some space for just us, and don't talk about work that much, but at other times i'd like to involve him in it, as asking him for advice and all that.

(and btw i have no boyfriend but i mean those are just thoughts i have in mind from time to time).

ops long post.