OK, who's Philip Scofield?

April 4, 2013 - submitted by Caro, Argentina[/color][/b]

 

Q. Dearest Oracle, I was watching videos in French to practice a little bit and all of a sudden I found

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The piano sounds just like the acoustic version of Lost by Coldplay. Is it simply sheer coincidence, have they asked Coldplay for permission, or what happened...?

 

 

The Oracle replies:

 

It IS Lost? - the acoustic version of Lost!

You need to clear a sample before using it. That means La Fouine will have needed permission to sample Lost? in this song, Papa. Not necessarily from the band but their label/publisher. La Fouine will also have had paid a royalty to Coldplay for its use.

WHO THE FUCK ALLOWED THIS TO HAPPEN ?! :angry:

 

As if he wasn't embarrassing France enough with his career and his scandals :|

OK, who's Philip Scofield?

 

He's a popular TV presenter here in the UK :)

April 5, 2013 - submitted by The Oracle, United Kingdom

 

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I have a little problem. You know that mixing friendship with love it's always a mess. And of course, I got into one of those. But it's not the typical story of best friends who fall in love. We are friends, best friends actually, and I love him. How couldn't I? Is the best friend I ever have. And then it is this part, this physical attraction between us, which is unbearable. We can't help it, we always end up kissing each other. But it doesn't exist a romantic part, not for me al least. I don't want to be his girlfriend, because I'm happy with our relationship just like it is.

But he is different, he is starting to get jealous every time he sees me with another boy and I am not willing to be controlled. Lets say I'm a free spirit. I have no jealousy or envy in mi heart, for me he can do whatever he want with whoever he desires. But I don't wanna hurt his feelings.

I said to him the kissing part it's over, that we can't continue if he is jealous, because our friendship it's going to go always in the first place. I did the right thing? It doesn't feel that way, I miss him.

Please tell me if I am crazy, if it is worth it to give up to my freedom just for him.

You have to understand I'm a bit scared, I have awful experiences in the past.

Anyway, thanks for listen. Love.

Valentina, Argentina.

 

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The Oracle

 

 

The Oracle replies:

 

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April 5, 2013 - submitted by Analisa, United States of America

 

Q. TEAM ORACLE QUESTION #114

I am a 21 year-old woman who has been in a committed relationship for 3 years. About 6 months ago, I met another person who I now think I am completely in love with. We just get along in ways that make me feel more complete and more in love and I think about him every day. However, I still have the person I am with. I have never cheated, and I would never plan to. I also have never hinted to this new person in my life that I have feelings for him. He has met my current boyfriend a few times and they both got along just fine. I'm not sure what I should do. If I'm dissatisfied in the relationship I'm in should I just end it and start a new one? Or am I just infatuated and I don't really know what I want? I just don't want to ruin the relationship I have with both of them and I don't want to hurt the person I am currently with because he has done nothing more than love me.

 

 

The Oracle replies:

 

Of course you don't want to hurt your boyfriend or ruins either relationship but it's been 6 months so it looks like it's make or break time.

I think you may be in your comfort zone with your current boyfriend and maybe things aren't as exciting as they used to be. Feelings have been ignited by a new guy who has piqued your interest and your head is confused.

Think back to 3 years ago and recall your feelings when you first met your fella. Similar feelings?

It's possible to have feelings for both but at 6 months on, still having those feelings, it's hardly surprising you're conflicted. You can love someone yet not be in love with them - perhaps that's the change in your relationship.

Whether we click with someone or fall head over heels in love, there's every chance we may continue through life meeting new people who make us feel that heady rush or buzz of excitement.

When I am in love, I am pretty blinkered. I don't notice anyone else. In fact, there have been times where I have been single and started a new relationship with someone who I have previously met but have no recollection of it. What I'm trying to say is maybe the fact your head and heart have been turned at all speaks volumes.

That said, when I was 21 the exact same thing happened to me that you describe. After 3 and a half years I found myself drawn to someone other than my partner. I was torn. I didn't want to hurt anyone but the pull was strong. Looking back I don't think my love was enough and I was too young to commit. I had become complacent and felt I was only in the relationship out of habit. Like you, I received nothing but love so it was hard to contemplate leaving. I can really empathize. I foolishly stayed for longer than I should have.

The most telling thing you said is "If I'm dissatisfied in the relationship I'm in should I just end it and start a new one?"

From that I take it you ARE dissatisfied. However, rebound relationships aren't always a great idea. If you want to give yourself the best chance of working out what you want, be on your own.

Try to imagine your future without either of them in it. There's no guarantee either of these relationships will work. I do truly believe that if you know deep down that your heart is not in your current relationship, don't drag it out - that's not fair on him. Life is too short to stay with someone out of guilt or a sense of duty.

Over to you.

 

Poor Analisa- There are several answers to your query especially depending on belief's, personal history with the current guy and many other factors-it all affects your outlook and the outlook of others who may offer you advise on how to handle this. I see it as you have two issues and I think you must separate the two in order to find an answer. First, without thinking of the new guy, ask yourself if you are happy with your current boyfriend. Then based on the answer you find, you need to figure out why you are attracted to the new guy? Is it infatuation or is he surely more of what you want in a guy? At 21, three years IS a long time to be with someone, however, in the grand scheme of life, 21 is a young age, your experience level is still growing and you may not have enough road behind you to know that three years isn't that long at all. So don't let that time together catch you up. Along the way we all learn from each relationship hopefully putting those lessons to use on the next go around. Best of Luck and light to you on your decision! Ben.

 

The first thing you need to do is clear your mind. I know you already know the answer, but it might be difficult to find it when you are confused. I believe that you should think about what you want. Maybe you don't love the person you are with anymore or just not like before. Maybe this person you just met is just a crush. Well, I can't know. It's your feelings you're dealing with. Whatever you choose remember that your decision doesn't need to make everyone happy, just you. You should worry about the ones you care about, but at the end, it's yourself who is more important.

Wish you the best,

Lyssete - Peru.

 

I think you should be honest with your boyfriend. Being in a relationship for that long, you should respect him enough to not want to hurt him. If you think about it, pretending to be in love with him while your in love with someone else is a bit pointless, unless you're striving to hurt him (which it doesn't seem like). I think the biggest question you have to ask yourself is if you actually love him or not. Even if you don't start a relationship with the other guy you have feelings for, if you don't love your current boyfriend, you should end it. That's how I feel about it, anyway. Good luck. Love, Darem.

 

It could be a sign, your strong feeling for the person, a sign that in your current relationship something is missing or going gradually wrong. Though he loves you there still will be something you both have to work on or to improve.

Maybe this person is the one for you and you for him, but at the moment it’s only a wild guess, you don’t know his reaction. No matter if you gave him a hint, if you don’t have the impression he could be interested, this looks quite one sided.

Probably you will have to decide and this could hurt your boyfriend - or yourself, when you go on to hide your feelings. What is it that could keep you together for a live? This question will be important for your decision. Sure we don’t know it before we live it.

Avoid to leave the one just because of another, it would not feel fair for your partner, neither the lost one nor the one you have won. Better you first decide for your own way. True, this could be a break, that can be a right decision after only a few months or many years, but it doesn’t need to be the only consequence.

However, one day you might be glad that this kind of love gave you motivation for a change - is it a rearrangement of your current relationship or you might have found something completely else then. Decide with your heart! L.Q.

 

It sounds like your boyfriend cares more for you than you do for him. Do the right thing - if you love him, set him free. Trish.

 

21 is still young to commit and as you've been together 3 years already, you were only a teenager at the time you got together with lots of growing up to do. If he's your first love, I know how hard it is to break away but it may be time to do exactly that. T.

 

It sounds like you've got a crush - on someone new. It won't always be new. What if you leave and then he's not new anymore and someone else new comes along?

If you stay, only stay if you love him and think it will make you happy. If you think you'll be happier with the other guy - leave and do it sooner rather than later. Rich.

 

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April 8, 2013 - submitted by Alfredo, Argentina

 

Q. Hi Oracle!

A few days ago I heard a rumour that said that Chris Martin suffers tinnitus, a disease that causes the person that has it hear noises, like hum or hisses.

Is is true or is it just a rumour?

I'm eagerly waiting for you to answer this question.

Thank you for your time.

Bye!

 

 

The Oracle replies:

 

It's not a rumour, Chris does suffer with tinnitus. It's not a disease though, it's usually as a result of being subjected to loud music.

There are varying degrees - I get it frequently but I don't suffer and it passes quickly. Some cases are so severe that the sensation is constant.

Chris spoke out to raise awareness for this very common condition.

April 8, 2013 - submitted by Loreto, Chile

 

Q. Who is the female backup singer in Up with the Birds (1:01 min)?

 

 

The Oracle replies:

 

The very talented, very beautiful Juanita Stein of Howling Bells provided the backing vocals on Up With The Birds..

April 9, 2013 - submitted by James, United States of America

 

Q. I heard that Mylo Xyloto was planned to be a movie kind of like The Wall was. Then I remembered this when Phil Harvey tweeted about Xylobrytes being some sort of evil minions or something. Can you verify whether this is true or not? If it is true why did they never make a movie? That would've been great to watch.

 

 

The Oracle replies:

 

Phil actually called them "critters" in his tweet but they're alien type beings. I've only got Issue 1 (of 6) as yet, so haven't encountered them myself.

I can confirm that a film was very much in discussion and it was such a mammoth undertaking. A reverse decision was made taking many factors into account - one being the impending album which of course took precedence.

The film was intended to have been animated - that's a similarity to The Wall though that wasn't 100% animation.

April 9, 2013 - submitted by Tobias, Sweden

 

Q. Hello Oracle, I read about Coldplay's show at the Barclays Center on New Years with Jay-Z. I saw that it was hinted that this show would become an annual thing, is there any truth to that? What are the chances of seeing Coldplay at the Barclays Center to ring in the 2014 new year?

 

 

The Oracle replies:

 

I think that appertains to the fact that Coldplay have played a New Year's Eve show the past 3 years and two of those were with Jay Z. The first was 2010 in Las Vegas and the year after the band played Abu Dhabi.

April 10, 2013 - submitted by Hasnaa, Morocco

 

Q. Hello dear Oracle,

What do you think of this? Can we know what they think of that now?

From the first time I've seen it, I said whatever the signed thing may be... from Coldplay it would be precious.

Thank you dear Oracle, wish you all the best :)

 

 

The Oracle replies:

 

That's just Jonny having a laugh but it is a siNGing toothbrush not a siGNed one.

April 10, 2013 - submitted by Nicolas, Colombia

 

Q. Hey Oracle, I was watching a video of Clocks in YouTube and I found

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At the beginning of the song it is very similar to Clocks I couldn't believe it. Coldplay give permission to that? Please answer me.

 

 

The Oracle replies:

 

No, because as you say it's similar but it isn't the same. That's a very different definition.

Music can be inspired or influenced by other music and sometimes it can deliberately or co-incidentally resemble another piece. Unless it is using a direct part, there is no need to seek permission. In this instance the piano riff has similarities to Clocks but it's not a direct copy.

April 10, 2013 - submitted by Kate, United Kingdom

 

Q. I've heard that Guy makes all the clothes for each of the different eras? Is this down to his expert modelling skills?

 

 

The Oracle replies:

 

Oooh I don't know where you heard that but it's not true. Guy doesn't "make" their stage clothes.

The band are all involved in the look of the attire they wear to represent the album/tour. They choose styles, colours, designs - including doodling their own ideas for badges, appliques and any other additional bespoke items.

They have designers and wardrobe experts who will collate the ideas, source the material / garments and customize them with the band's individual requests.

They do sometimes have custom made garb too. Stella McCartney collaborated with the band for Viva's costumes.

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Oooh I don't know where you heard that but it's not true. Guy doesn't "make" their stage clothes.

The band are all involved in the look of the attire they wear to represent the album/tour. They choose styles, colours, designs - including doodling their own ideas for badges, appliques and any other additional bespoke items.

They have designers and wardrobe experts who will collate the ideas, source the material / garments and customize them with the band's individual requests.

They do sometimes have custom made garb too. Stella McCartney collaborated with the band for Viva's costumes.

hmmmm I think Chris said in interview that Guy made their Viva shirts or something

 

and waaaaaaat Stella McCartney omgggg :awesome::awesome::awesome:

I know they're friends or something but omg they actually collaborated how kewl is that :awesome:

hmmmm I think Chris said in interview that Guy made their Viva shirts or something

 

i do recall something like that but 1. i think he meant more like personalizing them a bit more by adding the patches/paint (though i think they all contributed to that, which leads me to my next point) and 2. CHRIS said it, so. :P

i do recall something like that but 1. i think he meant more like personalizing them a bit more by adding the patches/paint (though i think they all contributed to that, which leads me to my next point) and 2. CHRIS said it, so. :P

 

Point number 2 is really all anyone needs to say!:lol:

i do recall something like that but 1. i think he meant more like personalizing them a bit more by adding the patches/paint (though i think they all contributed to that, which leads me to my next point) and 2. CHRIS said it, so. :P

Oh, yeah, definitely. I meant that Chris keeps saying half-truth and ugh :whip:

April 11, 2013 - submitted by Berend, Netherlands

 

Q. what happens with the footage of the concert. I can't find official footage of the concert in the Netherlands.

 

I mean the footage on the big screens:)

 

 

The Oracle replies:

 

The footage on the big screens is shot purely for that purpose - to be seen by the audience at the time. It's not recorded for any other purpose and therefore not officially available. I'm sure there will be plenty of fan recorded videos on YouTube for example.

April 11, 2013 - submitted by Valeria, Mexico

 

Q. Hello Oracle! I just want to know if Chris or any of the members of the band are vegetarians.

Thank you

 

 

The Oracle replies:

 

It's a popular misconception but all of the band members are carnivores. They eat a healthy diet but are not vegetarians.

April 11, 2013 - submitted by Janie, United Kingdom

 

Q. Hi Oracle! I know that all four members went to UCL and the band was formed while they were studying there, so it must be a pretty special place for the band. So are Coldplay planning on doing any concerts at UCL? Would they be willing to do one at all?

 

Looking forward to hearing your reply!

 

 

The Oracle replies:

 

They have played UCL but not for nostalgic reasons; it was part of a tour they did with Terris back in 2000. Friday 7th April to be precise.

April 12, 2013 - submitted by The Oracle, United Kingdom

 

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ANYONE can join in so, if you'd like to, please email your response to the following heartbreaking question, in no more than 250 words, to [email protected] before midnight Thursday 18th April.

 

I feel so confused. What is the real reason we are here earth? I thought it was for us to be happy, but what happens to us afterwards? Where do we go? I wish I knew. My lover, my baby, my one and only, passed away last month in a car accident. He was only 20 years, and so full of life. The most amazing person I've ever known. Where did he go? Is he ok? Will I see him someday?

Sorry for all the questions.

Thank you Coldplay for teaching me lessons and helping me understand myself.

I just hope I get to see him again.

Manolo my love - you belong to me, not swallowed in the sea. Claudia, Puerto Rico.

 

Look forward to seeing your replies.

The Oracle

 

 

The Oracle replies:

 

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April 12, 2013 - submitted by Valentina, Argentina

 

Q. TEAM ORACLE QUESTION #115

I have a little problem. You know that mixing friendship with love it's always a mess. And of course, I got into one of those. But it's not the typical story of best friends who fall in love. We are friends, best friends actually, and I love him. How couldn't I? Is the best friend I ever have. And then it is this part, this physical attraction between us, which is unbearable. We can't help it, we always end up kissing each other. But it doesn't exist a romantic part, not for me at least. I don't want to be his girlfriend, because I'm happy with our relationship just like it is.

But he is different, he is starting to get jealous every time he sees me with another boy and I am not willing to be controlled. Lets say I'm a free spirit. I have no jealousy or envy in my heart, for me he can do whatever he want with whoever he desires. But I don't wanna hurt his feelings.

I said to him the kissing part it's over, that we can't continue if he is jealous, because our friendship it's going to go always in the first place. I did the right thing? It doesn't feel that way, I miss him.

Please tell me if I am crazy, if it is worth it to give up to my freedom just for him.

You have to understand I'm a bit scared, I have awful experiences in the past.

Anyway, thanks for listen. Love.

 

 

The Oracle replies:

 

Ooh Valentina, I can't help think you are kidding yourself. That means I think you are trying to convince yourself that you don't have feelings other than friendship for this guy. I actually think you do. He obviously has feelings for you so it's very tricky. It was a good decision to stop the kissing but let's see how long that lasts for shall we ;-)

If the attraction is unbearable yet you have no romantic feelings for him, there's clearly lust & love going on here. I think you're fighting against your feelings. You say he's jealous and you're not but has that ever been tested I wonder. If he got a girlfriend tomorrow, can you honestly say it would not bother you AT ALL?

You can be in a relationship and still have your freedom you know. I don't know why you think it has to clip your wings. If he's the best friend you could ever wish for, maybe he'll be a great boyfriend. I don't think he wants to control you but obviously the poor lad is confused. Anyone would be if there's been kissing and now you're telling him there'll be no more.

It's good you don't want to hurt his feelings but likewise, don't think he's out to intentionally hurt you just because you've had bad experiences in the past. Love is a risk but maybe he's someone worth taking it with.

As a last note, my friend invited her male best friend to her wedding - he also happens to be her ex- boyfriend and first love. Don't automatically assume that a friendship will be ruined if you become a couple.

Over to you.

 

Curiously I could say that I was feeling in the same situation as you, falling in love with your best friend, but, I mean it's ok!, You're not crazy and what you feel for him is something beautiful, but sometimes you have to think with the head and not the heart.

I understand you are scared but you don't have to be alone. You had taken the decision not to be his girlfriend, but he also has to accept the fact that even if he gets jealous or tries to kiss you one more time, make for him clear you don't want to tear apart that awesome relationship, and also that he accepts that you're free to choose with you want to spend your time.

Think just about it when your head is clean, and if you're still looking for answers, just close your eyes, take a deep breath, and see inside yourself, that's were you will find it. Un abrazo amiga Vale, Cata de Mexico.

 

You are not crazy at all, I assume you are misunderstood by your friend. You love him as a friend and obviously not for that what he wanted to be for you. You had bad experiences and it’s understandable you are not ready for a relationship, maybe the wrong time or the wrong person. For being friends his jealousy is inappropriate. In your situation you did the right thing to set a limit to him and he should accept this.

But then he probably did not have the same experience as you and he seems to expect more than friendship. Some people can’t stand it being “just” friends with someone they are in love with, they even prefer to loose the contact. Though I think they underrate the importance of real friendship, you can’t help them. Explain to him your situation, that you would want to keep this friendship, but he should not wait for a change of your attitude. Then consider about this yourself too, imagine how it would feel for you if he has found someone else one day, would you regret it? Love. L.Q.

 

Honestly, I believe you should take your friendship to the next level. If you're that good friends that he is getting jealous seeing you with another guy, it's obvious that he wants more. And if you do honestly love him, you will want what's best for him. Your relationship doesn't have to be serious at the beginning, you can just test it out and if it doesn't feel right, then a talk to him would be the best advice. Hope I've come to some help, and good luck! Kate, UK.

 

What you described you that you share with this guy sounds beautiful. Few people are lucky enough to experience something like this. You are attracted to him too. Give the relationship a try but set boundaries with him. You don't want to be controlled in any way. If he agrees to it, ok or else you will remain friends only. It's up to you but fighting feelings you have for someone is no fun! Listen to your heart. Good luck and take care sweetie. Love, Sandy.

 

Go for it Valentina! Take a risk... Life is short and love is hard to find.

 

You have done the right thing and don't feel bad about it friends always have their ups and downs but at the end of the day if he is a true best friend then you will be best friends again but fighting back stronger before you know it. Just give him some time to think things through, then try going to his door and sort things out then before you know it you will be best buddies again. If not then he has lost a great friend hope my advice helps. Sare.

 

I'll tell you the hard truth: You don't be silly and forget it. Just think, if you tell him to be friends again this will not be like before. If you tell him to be in love, it will be disastrous because you do not feel comfortable with that idea. You shouldn't always expect good things in life; learn that you can't always get what you want. You are young, friends come and go, hypocritical or not, they will. I recommend you go on with your life and be happy being who you are. Who really loves you accepts you as you are, don't ever change for anyone. Harold.

 

I really know where you're coming from. Commitment to one person means intimacy that you're having with that person only. This can be quite scary especially if you've had bad experiences. I do think sometimes we have to close up, just as a defense mechanism, when we are hurting. We all need that sometimes, but you don't want it to get in the way of your future happiness. You could be happy without a relationship with him, I just mean if your fear of getting hurt is stopping you from commitment and it's what you want. Now, if you're only considering this because you feel pressured or he's making you choose between an intimate relationship or your friendship, I must advise against it. You don't owe him anything, you did well in telling him you did not want a relationship. However I do think he has a right to stay away if he doesn't want to get hurt. If you'd be together with him only because you missed him as a friend, though, it might be messy too. Just make sure that if you go into a relationship with him, you're doing it for the right reasons. Hope this helps. Take care. Love, Darem.

 

I think u should ask about his feelings and how long he had these feelings. A man should never have total control in a relationship*. Kecia.

 

(* Neither should a woman! - Oracle.)

 

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I feel so confused. What is the real reason we are here earth? I thought it was for us to be happy, but what happens to us afterwards? Where do we go? I wish I knew. My lover, my baby, my one and only, passed away last month in a car accident. He was only 20 years, and so full of life. The most amazing person I've ever known. Where did he go? Is he ok? Will I see him someday?

Sorry for all the questions.

Thank you Coldplay for teaching me lessons and helping me understand myself.

I just hope I get to see him again.

Manolo my love - you belong to me, not swallowed in the sea. Claudia, Puerto Rico.

 

:cry:

aaawwwjhdhgsddk that is so sad :bigcry:

April 15, 2013 - submitted by Jesse K, United States of America

 

Q. Hello Oracle,

You recently answered a question about whether or not Chris or any of the band are vegetarians. I am curious about the segment of 5:29 to 5:45 in

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You said that the vegetarian claim is a "common misconception," and I of course believe that you know that for a fact, I'm just curious why Chris wouldn't have set the record straight in this situation? Has he/they only just recently become carnivores? Thanks Oracle!

 

 

The Oracle replies:

 

"We're not so much a big meat band" isn't saying they don't eat meat.

You have to remember that the band have no religious or moral reasons for abstaining. What they eat is to keep fit & healthy so they may one or all go through periods of time where they do or don't eat meat.

I don't think Chris saw it as a serious question (Cold cut/Coldplay... neither do I) and that's probably why he didn't feel the need to elaborate further.

April 15, 2013 - submitted by Elizabeth, United States of America

 

Q. Hey Oracle,

Today, for the probably the 50th time, I watched Live 2012, which is my favorite movie of all time. In the credits at the end of the movie, under "Montreal Film Crew" "Camera Operators" one of the names listed was "Will Champion" - Is that a coincidence or was Will apart of the filming?! Please let me know!

Your #1 Coldplayer,

Elizabeth :)

 

 

The Oracle replies:

 

Yes he was! When the guys perform the Stage C segment of the show, Will is recording on a hand-held camera before he joins the rest of the band - that's why he has a filming credit.