hehe thanks:)

 

I've just had another thought: Maybe he just wants me to quit my job, because yesterday there was another guy who applied for a job there.

 

but uhm no...

he could be a substitute for me, because without a substitute he would have a real problem. Or let's say: My colleagues would have a real problem!

seriously, 73?!

i guess people get senile at that age ...

 

however, i can only repeat what other people said before me.

but if he had said that to me, i probably would have kept it to myself because i am so insecure about my weight. (i'm not fat either... i just worry about my weight all the time). and i probably would've gone straight to the gym and signed a memberhsip form. see, that's what would have happened if he said that to a girl insecure like me (or the girl before you). people like him make girls want to look like models from the magazines. he must be a very lonely, very bitter person.

 

he's a total asshole. i cannot even imagine somebody saying this to another human being and being serious about it! what a jerk.

i honestly don't know what's the most reasonable thing to do. i'd probably continue, but you've only just started your apprenticeship and he's already turned out to be a dickhead.. :(

I am also really insecure about my weight. That's the problem. I've accepted myself maybe 4 months ago....before that I thought about my weight everyday....it was horrible...I was so happy that I finally could accept myself...and now this. It put me a step back. and although I don't want it, now I think a lot about what I eat, etc...

 

I don't know if this is the right thing....ok I always wanted to loose some kilos, but if I do that now he will think I do this because of him and this is what I definitely do not want!

 

I felt a bit strange at work today....like I am not supposed and not allowed to work there, because of my appearance...it was a strange feeling...my work mate brought some cake...I only ate one small piece with apples...she wanted me to eat more because she had so many pieces left...but I didn't do that....I ate grapes instead...:worried:

I am also really insecure about my weight. That's the problem. I've accepted myself maybe 4 months ago....before that I thought about my weight everyday....it was horrible...I was so happy that I finally could accept myself...and now this. It put me a step back. and although I don't want it, now I think a lot about what I eat, etc...

 

I don't know if this is the right thing....ok I always wanted to loose some kilos, but if I do that now he will think I do this because of him and this is what I definitely do not want!

 

I felt a bit strange at work today....like I am not supposed and not allowed to work there, because of my appearance...it was a strange feeling...my work mate brought some cake...I only ate one small piece with apples...she wanted me to eat more because she had so many pieces left...but I didn't do that....I ate grapes instead...:worried:

but don't change anything about your eating habits unless it's you who want to lose weight.

don't do it for that jerk.

why is he still working anyway at the ripe age of 73?!

He doesn't want to stop working, because he thinks he is so young, but wise ahhhhh

I am so helpless. So so helpless.

 

I don't know what to do.

Whatever I'll do, I'll always be the loser. I could quit that job, yes. But this would be so bad for my future. Other bosses will see that I stopped studying at university and an apprenticeship...I will have bad chances when I apply for other jobs.

 

So, I have to live it. with discrimination....it shows how unfair this world is and that you can't really do anything against it.

 

I wish I was at another place now. somewhere far far away. But I am here, alone....thinking about this shit. Calling people, because I there is nobody by my side who can console me and hug me, etc...

 

it's driving me mad....nobody can imagine how much this is killing me...

 

 

FUCK

 

I talked about it with my work mates today....and one told me that my boss talked to her one week after I started working there, because I am actually too fat for his company...she said that this isn't true and that I am a very very good work mate...he is not interested in that...he's only interested in looks...

 

I hate this man....I hate this man so much, that I don't even have feelings towards him anymore

I wish I could help you :hug:

But I also know how difficult it is to find a good job.

Even my boss is an asshole and harassed us but I am pleased to convey a job to have.

I hope you will strike the right decision for you.

Do you have to go to college one day a week during your apprenticeship? If so your college should know, who you can contact to get legal advice and they might even be able to help you to find a new job.

nope I don't go to college, because there is no special class for my apprenticeship....I talked to my mum again and I should just forget this fucker....it is really hard...but it is the best solution I guess...my colleagues are all on my side....one good thing...it will only be bad for my future if I quit now...

this is one of the cases that make it on tv.

i know my thought is not very productive now, but ring up someone of the likes of günther jauch to help you. heh.

 

what an awful try to lift your mood now, but what can you do?

 

you could either develop an ED because of that idiot or just stay the person you are without worrying about your weight (because you don't have to!).

i know it's just repeating all the statements in the thread, but i guess you just have to be patient and see how things work out in the future.

This is what my mum told me, too...I should just stay the way I am and forget this idiot....and after the apprenticeship I can say fuck you and search for another job or go to university again...

how much longer do you have to stay there to finish your apprenticeship?

2,5 years

2,5 years???? wooooow, that's a long time. Aw man, that sucks.. i thought it would be like 6 months or so.. :\ Hope you'll make it!

so you're currently not going to uni?

why is that?

haha that'd be great...but I've just started...:\

 

either it will be hell or it will be not as bad as I think...and I can forget it and he will see that it is not his business...

so you're currently not going to uni?

why is that?

 

I quit uni in september, because it was not the right thing for me..it was quite a coinicidence that I found this apprenticehsip so fastly...;)

73? He is 73 and is still working? Is he even allowed to be working? Are you sure he didn't just said it like an advice like all elderly people do? I wouldn't quit but I wouldn't do anything about it either. I wouldn't even cry that a 73 yr old man does not find my behind attractice. Why would I want a 73 yr old man to think if my behind is attractive or not? That is just disgusting! You shouldn't cry or feel bad about it either Julia. I thought the dude was younger..but apparently he is losing it which he probably won't get any charges or much of a punishment for it. Record everything and have winesses..and report him.

haha that'd be great...but I've just started...:\

 

either it will be hell or it will be not as bad as I think...and I can forget it and he will see that it is not his business...

 

Have you already tried to call the IHK (chamber of commerce) since this dirty old man told you to lose some weight? Perhaps they can calculate your position and may give you some advices how to deal with it. :)

No, I haven't done it yet....I am glad I was able to forget this shit as much as I could the last 2 days....I'm so scared of saturday when this man will come to the shop again...:uhoh:

 

it's funny that obviously all the people who work for this company (we have 3 shops in 3 different towns) seem to know about it...

No, I haven't done it yet....I am glad I was able to forget this shit as much as I could the last 2 days....I'm so scared of saturday when this man will come to the shop again...:uhoh:

 

it's funny that obviously all the people who work for this company (we have 3 shops in 3 different towns) seem to know about it...

 

I wonder why you have to work on Saturdays as well...

 

But why are you scared? Even if you take his shit seriously you won't be able to lose a lot of weight during just a single week.

 

I think it's rather terrifying than funny that all your people seem to know about it. If I were you I'd try to contact the IHK. But well it's up to you. :)

yeah I know I shouldn't worry about saturday, because losing so much weight in one week is impossible...but I don't want to see this man again...I know what he thinks about me...I know I shouldn't give a damn, but it is really hard...I mean, how many tears have I cried the last days just because of this wanker?

 

well, it's funny on the one hand and terrifying on the other hand...funny because now everybody could see again what an asshole he is...and it feels good to know to have some more people on my side...terrifying on the other hand, because I don't know if they really think like that...

Well I can't see how they wouldn't be on your side on this. Only problem is he's their boss so few people would openly criticise him.