yeah I know I shouldn't worry about saturday, because losing so much weight in one week is impossible...but I don't want to see this man again...I know what he thinks about me...I know I shouldn't give a damn, but it is really hard...I mean, how many tears have I cried the last days just because of this wanker?

 

well, it's funny on the one hand and terrifying on the other hand...funny because now everybody could see again what an asshole he is...and it feels good to know to have some more people on my side...terrifying on the other hand, because I don't know if they really think like that...

 

Hmmm but if you've cried a lot during the last days don't you have the desire for retaliation now? I mean he hurt you a lot so it's time to defend yourself IMO. Perhaps you might talk to him on Saturday?

I don't really know how I should talk to him....I'm so scared...I just want to get out of his way as much as I can...

you should talk to the IHK!

 

otherwise it's like telling him he's right.

:bigcry:

 

take me far away, far away...

OK....I thought I could get over this, but obviously I can't....he must have traumatized me...after this day he told me this I suddenly made it to loose 5 kilos or something like that...I am scared to go to work every saturday (that's the day when he is in the shop...) and tonight there is this summer feast of our company...I am so not bothered to go there...I haven't really eaten anything today, because I'm so scared of going there...this may sound absolutely deluded but it's true...I shouldn*t give a damn about a 73 old wanker who obviously wanks to 21 years old supermodels...but deep in my mind I do, because I know he is the owner of this company and he actually doesn't want to have me there no matter if I do a good job or not...I'm so scared he will say something to me this evening...last week at work he said something to this again...I'd love to quit all this, but I can't...people will probably call me crazy, but you can't imagine how much I get into this thing every friday, because I know this idiot will be in the shop on saturday....FUCK!

Quit.

 

I'm serious.

I don't really see the point why he told me this. Because he cares about my health?No. Like I said before, I am not that fat that it could influence my health. He obviously only wants mega thin chicks working in his shop. So maybe he will pick on me as long as I work there (another 2,5 years) if I don't do anything about my weight, because I said to him yesterday that I'm gonna do what he told me (I'm such an idiot for doing this I know...I should have told him something else instead of sitting in front of him crying and telling him he is right and all that stuff, this only shows how much psycho terror this is!). I'm actually scared of going to work on saturday when he comes to the shop again. I will always have the feeling that he is looking at me and thinks how disgusting I am with my big butt and all that stuff. Yesterday I even didn't dare to take a piece of my orange juice, because I was scared he could see it and think "ahhhh so many calories she is drinking there"....although I say he is a wanker and I should forget it I think about it when I eat something

 

THIS. It hasn't changed:bigcry:

and it's been 5 months ago...

Quit.

 

I'm serious.

 

Ha. I would if it was that easy.

Your boss seems like a pathetic wanker. :uhoh:

He definitely is. There is one person I hate in this world and this is my boss.

You should sue that wanker.

He is 73 years old and he thinks he still is THE sex god...:sick:

WTF? :sick:

he told my work mates once when he was drunk at a company feast that he has to repair his bed every sunday morning because he is so wild..:bigcry:

What a fucking cunt.

sue

Now I have to go there...I do not want to..:bigcry:

but dont go!

My job. To say it in other words: My boss.

 

as some of you might know I started this apprenticeship in this music shop 3 months ago. Everything was fine until yesterday. My boss asked me for a talk between 4 eyes. He said that after 3 months there is always this decision, if I want to continue working there and if they want me to stay there. I said that I wanted to continue my apprenticeship. He said ok and told me that there is one thing he definitely doesn't like about me: My big butt!

 

I can tell you I don't have a model butt. That's for sure. I have some kilos too much, maybe 8 or 9, but that's it!

 

I'm not a walrus or a whale or whatever.....

 

I'm just A WOMAN!

 

He said that it's bad for my health and blablabla....he talked to me as if I was a woman whose weight is 150 kilos. He even asked me what my weight is and told me how many kilos I have to loose to have a chance to continue working there after my apprenticeship.

 

Now, I don't know what to do. Actually I don't want to continue working there as if nothing happened, because I know that he will ask me every now and then if I already lost weight and how much.

 

He's such an asshole. I wish I could tell you all the things he told me, but that would be too much.

 

Damn it's a music shop not a gym or a table dance bar.

 

I hate hate hate this man. I know he doesn't really care about my health. I mean, why should he? It's not that I'm mega faaaat....he just doesn't like women who have some kilos too much. Maybe he thinks that his customers think they don't want to come to the shop anymore, because there works this mega fat woman.

 

So, he finished the conversation and I asked him what he likes about my work and what I could do better. He told me. He wouldn't have done this if I didn't asked him.

 

I don't know what to do...

 

it's so unreal.......

 

 

such an unbelievable wanker.!

 

Oh I forgot: He also said that if he had seen this on the day he saw me for the first time he would have found enough arguments to tell me that I can't start working there. But he didn't. He just looked into my eyes!FUCKER

 

FTW! If I could see this guy! AH! I've been in a lot of fights, and that would have been one of them! You can turn him in for sexual harrassment..... right? I think I would if it was me.... I had some man stalk me one time, and I turned him in..... That wasn't easy..... But if he has a boss, tell him. If not, you could really sue, but I'm sure you don't want to.

 

P.S.

I love your butt! :blush:

 

I AM THE WALRUS!

 

 

:hug::hug::hug::hug::hug:

 

 

 

Yes, you are a moderator.

 

seriously, if I knew, I would have grabbed him and thrown him against the wall if I could (I'm not that big... but I would try :P) I am mean today!

Sue him.

Sue him.

 

sue his ass, so it gets really small for him :wacky: he will be assless forevermore :blush:

He is 73 years old and he thinks he still is THE sex god...:sick:

 

oh, he is rich :evil: ? he must collect a lot of porn. that is why he thinks he is loved :blush: he pays for love :wacko:

so...... would I beat up an old guy? yes hahaha I wouldn't break his bones, though