Holy moly...I think I've never cared about ths thing as much as I've been doing for the last days or weeks.

 

Like one year ago I rather cared about having enough money to live (I was a student back then and I didn't have money at all....I mean the situation was really bad) than finding someone who I can love and who loves me back.

 

But now I earn money so I don't have this problem anymore. Only when I want to buy thousands of clothes or something like that haah...

 

so the thing that is missing is the one who waits for me when I get home from work. Who writes me sweet messages, etc, etc, etc....:bigcry:

 

I got so used to being lonely which actually reall sucks....I could be so happy, but I am not...eventhough I have enough money to live...:mean:

 

 

I think the fact that I've been lonely my whole life is the reason why I am never really happy and never satisfied with what I have...

Go out looking, don't sit and wait.

but I find it so hard:bigcry:

but I find it so hard:bigcry:

 

we talked about that did not we? you are so true

did we?:uhoh:

 

well ok....we people talk a lot about this topic on this forum haha..-.

Awww Julia...I'm sorry that you feel sad. I can't really identify with you, but "just be patient and don't worry." The time will come, you are still young!! Enjoy all that you have and appreciate for what it is. Love the good company that you DO have. If you want to open up yourself to new guys, go out there and meet new people! Don't go out with the intention of finding a man, that will happen on its own. Just be social and open. :nice:

hehe well I never go out with this intention,because I know it is ridiculous and I hate those girls who do that,...well...I go out...I meet new people....I am open and social.

 

Period.

 

I am just too picky. I guess....so it's my own fault...oh my how many times did we talk about this?

 

I only want to know: Am I the only one who feels like that? I mean who is never satisfied, because of always feeling lonely.

hehe well I never go out with this intention,because I know it is ridiculous and I hate those girls who do that,...well...I go out...I meet new people....I am open and social.

 

Period.

 

I am just too picky. I guess....so it's my own fault...oh my how many times did we talk about this?

 

I only want to know: Am I the only one who feels like that? I mean who is never satisfied, because of always feeling lonely.

 

If you feel that you are too picky, then stop that lol. Give people the benefit of the doubt, give people a chance, etc. Look at things from a different perspective. Don't get wound up over "imperfections" and like them for what's good.

 

I'm sure you are not the only person. It's a common feeling.

You are right. I already said that to myself, too....but it's been a long time since I met somone interesting...

If there is someone write good thing for them.. ! its a nice thing to do..

oooh I'd love to....but the way I write things to single guys is usually mate like, so how shall they know I could be interested in them?

 

Actually I know all the mistakes I make when it comes to this, but I am too shy (or something similar haha) and not confident enough to change it...

Actually I know all the mistakes I make when it comes to this, but I am too shy (or something similar haha) and not confident enough to change it...

 

I know how you feel, I'm exactly the same way but never say you can't change it. Give it time and keep working at it and you'll get better. I used to be the shyest person alive, but the last few years I've been working at it and I'm doing a lot better. Confidence is the key.

 

I'm learning not to be negative about it and move forward.

hehe yeah I used to be exactly like that....and I also made a big step forward in the last few years....I learned to see what my good sides are and I also learned that there are actually many good sides about me...the current problem is just that I don't me anyone who is interesting (in my eyes...) and that there is still some basic shyness left...-

I know how you feel, I'm exactly the same way but never say you can't change it. Give it time and keep working at it and you'll get better. I used to be the shyest person alive, but the last few years I've been working at it and I'm doing a lot better. Confidence is the key.

 

I'm learning not to be negative about it and move forward.

 

Yes slowly but surley this is starting to work for me.

I can be very bad. I have met someone over the past few months, who has made me better like this...

I can be very bad. I have met someone over the past few months, who has made me better like this...

 

lucky you =)

Now I know how I feel: useless.

 

well, I feel that my life is useless sometimes.

Now I know how I feel: useless.

 

well, I feel that my life is useless sometimes.

 

everybody feels same sometimes you should say nevermind!

Now I know how I feel: useless.

 

well, I feel that my life is useless sometimes.

 

Don't feel useless, hon! You are not useless as all. So what if you didn't find the guy yet? You said that you are open and social, so he'll come in time. Be confident and stay true to yourself.

All you ever wanted was love,

But you never looked hard enough,

It's never gonna give itself up

All you ever wanted was love,

But you never looked hard enough,

It's never gonna give itself up

 

truee :cry:

All you ever wanted was love,

But you never looked hard enough,

It's never gonna give itself up

 

Truer words have never been spoken. I know with me I give up before I should.

we should say nevermind

hehe yeah I used to be exactly like that....and I also made a big step forward in the last few years....I learned to see what my good sides are and I also learned that there are actually many good sides about me...the current problem is just that I don't me anyone who is interesting (in my eyes...) and that there is still some basic shyness left...-

 

Me too! I have that basic shyness too....I feel like if I get myself into something then I will have to stay in it....Plus I don't want to get involved with someone and there be a seperation.... Just hang in there and have a go at it!

I think the fact that I've been lonely my whole life is the reason why I am never really happy and never satisfied with what I have...

 

I am only going to post a song... hope it helps you! (plus the video is fun to watch!)

 

http://vodpod.com/watch/110069-bjork-i-miss-you

 

It quite happened to me... I wasn't expecting anything at all when it just came. So I'd advice you not to worry much for it. :D It will come in the right time I guess.

The Beatles > This thread.