Telling her how hot she is is NOT the way to her heart, enlightened one

Ok from 0 to 10, 0 being fucking awful and 10 being the best conversation ever...

 

I'll give it a 6.5

 

She hung up early but she did say some good things about me. I did go way to much into how hot she is and telling her straight up...

 

I don't know....

 

Such as life....

 

I need another glass of wine

 

Did you say the word "hot"?

Well you're American you will only need 2 glasses to be drunk:P

Did you say the word "hot"?

 

yeah :\ why?

 

 

Telling her how hot she is is NOT the way to her heart, enlightened one

 

Well I mean....it's a long story, our relationship. I used the word "attractive" as well as "hot"...

 

Shit did I fuck up completely girls?

I suck with women, but even I know saying hot is not a good idea.

Neither is grabbing her ass and asking "when are we going to fuck". I can't tell you how many times I've been slapped.

She asked me if I still liked her and I said I still think your hot but we're sort of two different people..

 

 

Shit looking back I was very "uhhhhhhhhh" and "I uhhhhhhh"

 

Girls is it possible to completely fuck up a conversation like this and still....you know

 

 

 

 

 

 

I'm such a fucking idiot.

Lol.

"Do you still like me?" That doesn't even sound like a serious relationship.

Alexa!

I've never understood why some guys get so uncomfortable and unable to have a normal conversation with girls, were just people like you, talk normally and be yourself:)

yeah :\ why?

 

 

 

 

Well I mean....it's a long story, our relationship. I used the word "attractive" as well as "hot"...

 

Shit did I fuck up completely girls?

 

whilst i'm not a girl i shall add my opinion before i sleep

the word hot seems a little too focused around sex. if you had called her beautiful it may have meant more to her, or perhaps discussed her personality more instead of just talking about her physical appearance.

 

but you have not messed up necessarily. like you said it went quite well. i don't know your tolerance levels when it comes to alcohol but it may have seemed more like a booty call if she was aware you had had a drink, no matter how much. but on the other hand she might have found it cute. in fairness you have only been honest so there is nothing to worry about. you haven't been inappropriate, just told the truth. if she doesn't feel the same what's the worst that could happen? try not to worry about it.

Alexa!

 

Nick!

Lol.

"Do you still like me?" That doesn't even sound like a serious relationship.

 

It's not serious at all..

She asked me if I still liked her and I said I still think your hot but we're sort of two different people..

 

 

Shit looking back I was very "uhhhhhhhhh" and "I uhhhhhhh"

 

Girls is it possible to completely fuck up a conversation like this and still....you know

 

 

 

 

 

 

I'm such a fucking idiot.

For how long have you guys known each other?

For how long have you guys known each other?

 

About a year we've been friends.

yeah :\ why?

 

 

 

 

Well I mean....it's a long story, our relationship. I used the word "attractive" as well as "hot"...

 

Shit did I fuck up completely girls?

 

Oh dear.

 

Well let's sort this out. Do you care about her beyond the level where you think she's hot? Are you fuck buddies/whatever, or are one of you looking for something more?

 

Because if one of you are, then DO NOT just say she's hot. Say she's beautiful, maybe. But make it clear (if it's the case) that you care for her beyond that.

 

edit: Oh wait I just read more posts, are you like trying to break up with her or wat?

im decent with girls

i just dont rush into things

infact i move very slow at times

LOL, men are clueless.

Yeah but women are confusing when they're sober.

Yeah..

the only things that really turn me off when it comes to girls are bitchy ones and smokers

Oh dear.

 

Well let's sort this out. Do you care about her beyond the level where you think she's hot? Are you fuck buddies/whatever, or are one of you looking for something more?

 

Because if one of you are, then DO NOT just say she's hot. Say she's beautiful, maybe. But make it clear (if it's the case) that you care for her beyond that.

 

edit: Oh wait I just read more posts, are you like trying to break up with her or wat?

 

I'm apologizing for being an asshole when I'm not really like that and at the same time calling her really attractive..

 

I don't know what I want :\

the only things that really turn me off when it comes to girls are bitchy ones and smokers

 

Or the ones that don't put out, that's just rude.

You need to figure out what you want before feeling like crap about telling her she's hot :/

You need to figure out what you want before feeling like crap about telling her she's hot :/

 

Regardless I don't want to come across as the type of guy I just did.

 

I don't know, I'm an idiot. Let me go write a song about being an idiot.

Regardless I don't want to come across as the type of guy I just did.

 

I don't know, I'm an idiot. Let me go write a song about being an idiot.

 

You're not an idiot :/..