Oh and I find it kind of exaggerated if I another friend is with her and her boyfriend and me and she is sitting there and just crying,....well I don't know....there are always people who are there for her and there is nobody there for me...maybe I am jealous haha

How long has she been talking about quitting?

Maybe it's just a phase and she needs you to tell her to not quit again and again ... hmm. And personally I think it's a shame that she has makes you feel guilty for not being there for her 24/7 when she has other friends and her boyfriend and when she knows that you're under a lot of stress. But the thing is that she's acting irrational and has a little crisis, so she probably won't see your side until this is over ...

haha well I've just talked to her on the phone and she didn't sound as sad as she did some hours ago.....:freak:

She calmed down. :P

why would you feel guilty? she didn't care for you when you needed her..

i mean if she apologized because she actually relized her mistake of not caring then ok

 

 

i would say talk to her about it but i know it's easier said than done

maybe if she hears from you how you feel she might understand

 

 

love you julia :hug:

why would you feel guilty? she didn't care for you when you needed her..

 

If you care about a friend, it shouldn't matter how they acted or in this situation, didn't act towards you in the past.

 

Jules if you're really too busy to help, and it's very important for you to focus on yourself right now, it's completely understandable and that's what you should do. You should try not to feel guilty, I guess it's a feeling you can't help. Just make as much time as you can to contact her and talk to her if she wants that. But how she acted towards you shouldn't really have anything to do with how guilty you feel, just know for yourself that you'd be there for her if you could, even if she doesn't know it.

yes but if your friend hurt your feeling is good that you let them know

talking about it prevents it from happening again