Yeeeeah, you're not feeling so virtually alone... :lol: :lol:

** Richard starts to cry **

 

it's ok Richard..

 

(pat's him on the back)

 

you must succumb to the fact that maybe one day you could write a bestselling book and make millions of dollars on your tv show...

 

all because of your deep insights..

 

 

:D

 

 

i think anybody who has had anybody ever bother them about not having a girlfriend/boyfriend (wife/husband) should just ignore them. there are so many divorces nowadays, i don't know why everybody is so rushed!!

mycdplayerisbroke wrote:

haha insult

im not trying to start crap with you man

geez lighten up take the condom out of your ass or something

and thats why i dont have a what?

pma? you dont even know what that means

 

 

a girlfriend, you idiot.

 

 

hhahaha no pma does not mean girlfriend.... stupid ass mother fucker

lmao sorry i called u that its in a song im hearing right now ha

yes' date=' i wish [i']i[/i] had a girlfriend also :kiss:

 

hahahaha! because you're a boy!

 

i wanna bf. i want that sex machine at school.

hahaha

are you serious?

hmm? serious to what? that shes a boy. yes! that i want the sex machine at my school. yes! and that i want a bf. yes! hahha

haha sex machine ahh good stuff

Seeeeeeeex Machiiiiine

who is a sex machine?

i am ;)

i know i know :D

Heh, I wish! :D

me too :D

But you are aren't you? I'm not, I only wish I was though! :D

but you are dear!

I'm a virgin so I'm clearly not... :confused:

a masturbating machine then :sneaky:

heeeeey, thats my businesss!!!! and your's! :D

but no one else's!!!! ;)

mines?

yeah, sure, if you wish. ;)

masturbate machine....

*arg:dead:*

:o

I’m 22 & have been single for 3 years, I feel ya! I’ve only had one serious girlfriend, and it lasted just over a year. From that relationship and afterwards, watching my parents divorce, seeing my brother get married, and watching my friends experiment, I’ve taken an important message/lesson that I carry with me whenever I’m feeling gloom about being lonely.

 

Everyone in the world needs pick-me-ups. Let’s call this “a need for energy”. Most people feel they can get this energy only from other people; parents, friends, enemies, etc. This is the reason we live like we do now, everyone’s reaching out for it, or stealing it from others. A bully may steal energy from you by intimidating you. Someone else may put down your ideas, grabbing energy by validating their own views in the process. Unconsciously we’re all part of a control drama of some sort to get this energy.

 

When single, a lot of people fall into one of these, & feel they can only get that “missing energy” from a partner; but this couldn’t be further from the truth. In my opinion one must be a “complete circle” on his/her own before they dive into a relationship. Everyone’s got problems, but if you’re not as complete as possible, purely dependant on the energy we all hold within, than the relationship will eventually almost always collapse in a tug-a-war for it.

 

If you think about it logically, it makes perfect sense. If person 1 has problems, and person 2 has problems, and both people feel the other should be there to ease these problems. There will be major disappointment, because only you can slay your own demons. By putting the responsibility on someone else you’re just slowing down your development as an individual & as a couple. This is because now person 1’s problems are now person 2’s, and vise versa. These are the issues that plague relationships from the beginning, & while relationships can get past them, most of the time they’re just suppressed a while, but eventually they come apparent & do destroy the couple.

 

The perfect relationship in my eyes would include two complete circles, meaning they don’t need the other in order to feel complete & stable. Then the two people wouldn’t have to deal with any struggle for energy & could concentrate on more important, productive things – Like loving each other unconditionally & moving forward as a pair.

 

I'm not saying I'm a complete circle, or that I'm not lonely… but taking these things into consideration helps me put my situation into a better perspective.

 

This is as good as I’m able to sum up my feelings on the subject. It makes sense in my head, but on paper it’s hard to explain; let’s see if anyone picks up on this ^.^