Stalkers are everywhere, free healthcare sadly not.

 

 

Long post coming up! I read the letter :}

 

This economist blah is absolute bullshit. I don’t even have to point out why, right?

I am bothered with him again elaborating about how much he’s in love with you and how ‘sincere’ he is. Urgh, as if, if you would finally understand this, you’d fall for him as well. Well economist, love doesn’t work that way. But then he even says he’s not asking for your feelings back. Sure. ¬¬ He might not be asking for it, but he surely wishes for it!

 

Maybe you should tell him that you do not wish to be good friends with him, not even friends at all. Also you do not wish to spend any time with him together in the next couple of months. It just sucks that you two have the same friends in common and therefore you’ll spend time in the same room and with the same people, but this is NOT the same as spending time together. Tell him that you wish you had as little as possible to do with him. Also tell him you don’t want any help whatsoever of him because you don’t want to have anything to do with him. Also knowing that he will always by your side isn’t comforting you but rather bothering you. It would be better if he didn’t give a f*ck about you than him still stuck in creepy limerence.

And I really advice you to ignore him as much as possible or really say this stuff straight in his face because just telling him you don’t feel the same way doesn’t seem to help. Maybe it sounds too harsh for you but this is what the guy needs and you will probably feel a big relief afterwards (I know I did everytime I had to shrug creepy people off). If this makes him think that you’re a bitch while you’re not, GOOD, this is exactly helping the case. How the hell would you fit into his view of the dream girl if you suddenly turn a total bitch? Don’t worry about friends hearing this from him. They should understand and they won’t blame you for being a bitch towards him, at least they shouldn’t if they also see what kind of creep he is (and I’m sure this one common friend you mentioned knows because she is telling you about how much he talks about you).

Writing the bitchy/rude things in a reply letter I wouldn’t advice you, because this can be used against you. If it’s just words then people can always question the truth in what he claims and you can deny it if you need to (although I must admit that this is not nice in general). You don’t want a letter like that to get viral.

I just can’t imagine how to ‘survive’ this for months on. Months can look like a lifetime. I don’t know how much this guy’s behaviour bothers you, but I know when I had a similar case at work I made work of it after a few months because I just couldn’t bare it anymore. By then I wished I had it done earlier. I was very rude at the person saying I didn’t want to have anything to do with him and that he made me feel very uncomfortable, even his stupid stares alone. I didn’t want him to talk to me EVER again and I didn’t want any e-mails of him (he had developed the weird habit of forwarding stupid emails to me and sending me ripped CD’s that I didn’t even say I liked and I even had told him before that he should stop doing that shit). It worked, he left me alone even though he talked about it with his boss who is a colleague of mine. And you know what the boss did? He came to me laughing out loud saying he felt so sorry for me and then he fired the creepy guy! [/happy ending]

 

Thank God he leaves by the end of the next term!

Today at lunch my friend told me that James (my stalker) was dangerous and that he is afraid of him and I should be too. :uhoh:

 

There was supposedly an incident (I wasn't there apparently) where James stood up and screamed something in the cafeteria and now "everyone knows that he is a Nazi". This is news to me, but then James came over so I have to wait and ask this other friend what happened.

 

Also James told me today that he is buying me a gift for Remembrance Day. I was like "ummm we don't really buy gifts for that...it's not exactly a holiday". But he is anyway. I'm scared to see what it will be.

Tell the school...like now :wreck:

dude find out what your friend has to say ASAP.

"everyone knows that he is a Nazi". .

 

:uhoh:

 

You need to find out what he actually said and whether he was kidding or not :anxious:

I know! My other friend and I asked him and he said "yeah, I really don't even want to repeat what he said". So it must have been bad.

 

Oh, and today James told me I was "a very special girl". :uhoh:

:uhoh:

 

You need to find out what he actually said and whether he was kidding or not :anxious:

 

He's not the type to kid. He has some really strange ideas and opinions, so I wouldn't be surprised if this was one of them. :\

Dude....if he has like explosives or something :uhoh:

 

I pray he isnt those: IF I CANT HAVE YOU , NOBODY CAN! type guys :wreck:

Also James told me today that he is buying me a gift for Remembrance Day. I was like "ummm we don't really buy gifts for that...it's not exactly a holiday". But he is anyway. I'm scared to see what it will be.

 

 

And a card.

 

:lol:

 

And a card.

 

 

:laugh3:

 

 

:uhoh:

 

Oh my god. It gets worse. My friend just told me what he is planning to buy me as a Christmas gift.

 

A car. He is planning to fucking buy me a car.

oh god

I am a bit glad that he is a transfer student and not a 'Pegger haha.

Haha I know! Honestly, what am I going to do if he actually buys me one? I can't accept that, especially from someone who is clearly doing it so that I will love him back. Which is NEVER going to happen, so then I would be just using him.

I wouldn't even accept the little gift he wants to give you for Remembrance Day. You really have to make him know that you feel uncomfortable by all these shit things he does. He shouldn't buy you anything. DON'T ACCEPT ANYTHING.

 

And also you surely don't want him to come with bigger and bigger things, so already stop this at the start. He cannot come up with a car if you already decline the Remembrance Day gift.

:blank: omg....

so then I would be just using him.

Exactly :sneaky: :evilgrin:

 

 

 

 

No, jokes aside, I didn't read the whole thread, but can't you just say to him that you want nothing to do with him, no matter how much he will bombard you with presents and stuff? Just tell him that he's shallow and unintelligent for thinking that giving you presents make you love him :dozey:

 

What a tosser LOL.

^ OMG YOUR AVATAR JUST BLINKED! :uhoh: !

I am a bit glad that he is a transfer student and not a 'Pegger haha.

 

Pegging wut :uhoh:

 

 

 

 

Also fuck that don't let him buy you a car :wreck:

but it also kinda sounds like your friends are joking and winding you up now :lol:

 

you seem to be getting a lot of second hand info from them rather than hearing it yourself :P

^ Winnipeg, haha.

 

It sounds like it's all second-hand info, but it just sounds that way because I am not using names (since you guys won't know who they are anyway :P). The friend who is telling me most of this is James' friend. He is planning on buying her a small gift too, but not a car lol.

 

I told him not to get me a Remembrance Day gift because, not only do I not want it, but it's extremely disrespectful to give gifts on Remembrance Day! But he just said "Oh, well it's more of a "thanks for being a good neighbour and good friend" gift". He just doesn't take no for an answer!

Remembrance Day is now Remembrance Day/Thanks For Being A Good Neighbour And Good Friend Day.

 

I think its getting to the stage where you need to be a huge bitch about it, eg if he buys you a car run him over with it.

Yeah, or tell him that you have a gift wish for him

 

namely for him TO DIIIIEEEEE RIGHT NOW

Hahaha can you imagine if he made a thread like this on some other forum, except they're all goading him on :lol:

 

 

"Buy her a car :surprised: She'll love you for it :surprised: also, tell her you're a nazi :surprised: she won't be expecting that"

:lol: Write love letters, chicks love poets XD