Don't offense, Léa, but I'd prefer that doctor you talk about...

which ones? :stunned: :sneaky:

You now who... :wink3:

Dr romano :stunned: :idea2:

Yeeeeeeeeeah, but just with one arm, ok? :dozey:

nah i was thinking of someone in my uni :idea2:

I was thinking in another one... :sneaky:

i know i know :idea2:

*waits the doctor to examinate her*

Should I wear a glove?

ohhhhh :stunned:

yeah it does feel different' date=' well..for me it feels empty..probably because a lot of the people i talk to on here are barely on anymore and that makes me sad[/quote']

 

I know what you mean - it's because the board is soo big now that it feels empty.... Not as personal... If you know what i mean!

whoaaaaaa Hayley...i love that Cranberries song! :-) it's my favorite by that band! :cool:

 

 

and yeah...it feels empty 'cuz prolly a lot of folks that used to come just kinda gave up or started some other routine while the board was down for a week....i dunno :confused:

 

i've had this experience before...with a chatroom. the place shutdown for a few days and that just led to the whole group breaking up and people going their separate ways....i hate it when that happens! :(

My favourite Cranberries song too!!

i'm sooo annoyed that I left my "stars" album at home :( grrrr

 

About the board.... I guess it just symbolises how life changes and people move on! :)

Give it time guys... people will return.

people do move on...but you know, i feel like i've invested emotionally, and my time, at some web sites taht i frequent...its like a part of my life, my memory, part of who i am....

 

dunno about others, but i'm fairly open to people's ideas molding my own opinion of things...so i get close to folks over time.

 

then if the site shuts down and people go off as if it didn't mean anything...that just puts me off! :confused: :/

 

 

did that make sense?!

anyhow...that's how i look at it.

Yeah, makes sense... and I agree.

 

I don't think thats what happened though...

 

maybe w/ richard, but he started getting 'weird' before the move.

people do move on...but you know, i feel like i've invested emotionally, and my time, at some web sites taht i frequent...its like a part of my life, my memory, part of who i am....

 

dunno about others, but i'm fairly open to people's ideas molding my own opinion of things...so i get close to folks over time.

 

then if the site shuts down and people go off as if it didn't mean anything...that just puts me off! :confused: :/

 

 

did that make sense?!

anyhow...that's how i look at it.

 

That's exactly how I feel too, but I wasn't able to find the right words.

 

(((( Jim ))))

awww Noni! :embarrased:

yeah...i've noticed you also feel like that! :-)

((((((((((((Noni))))))))))))))

Sometimes I think it's not good to be emotionally united to some people because when you lose it you feel bad...

It has happened sometimes to me in real life. And most of the time I think it's my fault... :(

omg noni...u and i think and feel similarly on this....i beat myself down for things if they don't work out between me and someone.

 

but u know....u always have to give something a try if you like it...you can't always be 'independent' of others 'cuz human beings are social creatures...we always need/look for others appreciating us for who we are! :-)

Sometimes I tell to myself to be more independent, but I can't. I always depend of other people.

But when I see that the relationship is a bit calm or colder I start to think that this person is moving over from me. And I start to think about the reason and finally I decide it's my fault.

Do you think this is related with insecurity?

THEY DON'T LOVE US ANYMOREEEEEE! :cry:

That's what they lose!!! Eeeeeh, Julia!!! How are you?

Sometimes I tell to myself to be more independent, but I can't. I always depend of other people.

But when I see that the relationship is a bit calm or colder I start to think that this person is moving over from me. And I start to think about the reason and finally I decide it's my fault.

Do you think this is related with insecurity?

 

 

could be...i dunno....why? 'cuz remember...i feel pretty much the same way! i feel if someone doesn't like me then it's probably my fault...my mistake at saying some things in a wrong way or not approaching the girl in a proper manner or not having the common interests or ....it goes on...i keep thinking about it...

 

:embarrased: :rolleyes: