*sigh*

my whole family had a fight recently. me and my twin sister mindy weren't there at the time but it was bad. we needed to get picked up from the subway and i called and my dads like "the police are here".

 

apparently my sister did something to my mom (my mom is like, crazy and thinks anything is abuse or assault or SOMETHING). i think she actually just kicked her door down or something. so then my dad sided with my sister and my mom was so angry with him and they started yelling (my friends brother had picked us up by this point and the police were just sitting in their cars outside) and my dad was talking about getting these papers sent to him and he already got them drawn up by a lawer and my mom doesnt belive him, or shes just too scared to admit it.

 

so then later after everything's cooled down my brother comes in and says "amanda, if you had a choice who would you live with?" and im like "I think you know the answer to that". because it would be my dad, hes so much more resonable then my mom. so hes like "just making sure"

 

and he said that since my mom is stubbron and would want the house (not like she would be able to pay for it on her own) so we would have to move to where the houses were cheaper and stuff. and i was so sad, i mean, i've lived in this house my entire life and i'm so attached to my friends and everything.

 

bah, it would be so much easier if my mom just moved out and got her own appartment or something. she's one person, we're 5....what does she need the house for?

 

sorry all that, needed to get it out.

:/ That sounds pretty horrible Mandy :/

I really hope everything works out for the best with you all :)

sorry to hear that :/

Whoa. sorry to all that (even though I don't know you), but I hope it gets better. I also dealt with my parents getting divorced when I was pretty young.

I am sorry to hear that all of this is happening to you...unfortunately the easiest way isn't always the way it works out....I wish you the best of the situation and I just hope that you will continue being the sweet person that you seem to be!

 

Cheer Up! :P

Amanda. I'm really really sorry to hear that.

 

My parents split up recently so I guess I'm in the same boat you're in. My dad actually moved to Pittsburgh for work, but I guess it affected their marriage (which was broken waaay before he moved out) and they made it official. I guess the whole housing thing isn't really an issue for me b/c I live away from home, but during the holidays my dad stayed with my uncle. It was really strange.

 

My mom is also crazy. She's emotionally unstable and is seeing a therapist after a particular incident happened. It was bad.

 

But anyhoo, hopefully everything will settle down and your entire family can make a decision that's best for all of you. Good luck. :)

Sorry about what's happening Amanda. My parents just split up in April and it's never an easy thing to go through. It does get easier every day but it takes a while to really come to terms with it. You're lucky that you have a sister and brother who can help you through it too.

I hope everything works out hun. :kiss:

*hugs*

 

 

nothing can be worse than having to deal with your parents splitting. I was 'fortunate' (if you can even call it that) enough that when my parents split I was only 3.. so I guess growing up I was kinda use to not having my mom around. But growing up.. I realized things.. and well.. I guess what I'm saying is.. its hard.. but you will learn things about yourself in the process. Good luck and know that you'e not the only one. :embarrased:

im really sorry to hear that :(

sorry to hear thay mandy

 

hope things work out :(

thanks everyone, it really means something to me :)

yeah well they've been going on about divorce for years now, ever since i've been little they've been fighting.

but seriously, thanks for all the well wishes and advice.

50% of marriages don't work out. Kinda sad when you think about it. :confused: :/

yeah, it's a sad thing. It's even sadder when parents are married for more than 2 decades. It's so strange.

blah my parents were married in September 1988, and then they divorced in 1998......so a decade they were married.

My parents were married in 1977.

I'm really sorry to hear about what happened. I lost my mom last spring and my family hasn't been the same ever since. It'll be hard at first, but as time goes on, it'll get easy.

Eagle131, i'm sorry to hear about your mother. That's terrible.

Yeah, sorry to hear that. That's gotta be horrible.

Mandy: I'm sorry to hear that. Hopefully your folks can work things out.

 

and Eagle131, I'm so sorry and my sympathies. That must be unbelievably painful to go through. I couldn't imagine losing either of my parents...

you're really not alone with that prob Mandy...

*Bump*

 

Lets talk about our parents!

mine splited up when i was 5

*Bump*

 

Lets talk about our parents!

 

it was a worthful bump :cool: if you don't discuss it wtf for you bump it? :thinking:

I was 6..