BlissfullyMuse Posted April 18, 2005 Share Posted April 18, 2005 Well me and my b/f split up last monday and the reason he gave me is because we dont see each other enough and he misses me. On tuesday his mate phoned him to ask if he still loves me and richard said yes. Last night my friends phoned him to ask the real reason why he split up with me and apparently he has a child, his ex g/f from two years ago tol dhim its his baby and they apparently had a blood test. I was very angry and upset of course so i cut up his clothes and broke his bracelet and threw them away. My mum said to get more revenge i should tell his dad because richard said he wasnt going to tell him. So i phoned his dad and he was as shocked as i was and he said he was going to talk to him, his dad was really nice to be and said that hes sorry for they way richard has been and said take care of yourself and said goodbye. This morning his Dad phoned me to say that he hasnt spoken to him yet but he doesnt belive that richard is the dad and that this girl is telling him a pack of lies, he said that a blood test doesnt prove anything other than if he isnt the father. So he is going to speak to him and his dad is going to phone me back when he has some news. I feel like shit at the moment....i really dont deserve this, i asked richard if he was just with this girl because of the baby and he said he doesnt know. He just hasnt got a clue. Kirsten X Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bart Posted April 18, 2005 Share Posted April 18, 2005 :bigcry: for u kirk hugs Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlissfullyMuse Posted April 18, 2005 Author Share Posted April 18, 2005 Thanks...I feel really sick at the moment, i havent eaten anything and i havent slept. He doesnt even know what he is doing and his dad agrees with me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bart Posted April 18, 2005 Share Posted April 18, 2005 I cant give u much advise as I dont have that much experince in realtionships.... ( I can listen though) and I guess no words are gonna make u feel much better. Be as strong as you can kirk... ***hugs, bear ones*** Your friends will be on here always and be here for you, I guess you know that already.. ! but I just wanted to repeat that fact ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlissfullyMuse Posted April 18, 2005 Author Share Posted April 18, 2005 Thank you Daryl, its much appreciated, i was thinking of posting his mobile number on here lol but i dont know if i should Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bart Posted April 18, 2005 Share Posted April 18, 2005 Dont do that it would not be a good idea... However I could understand u may, wanna kill the guy at the moment... !! Dont do anything silly u may regret !! In order to get revenge or try and hurt him... Please..... I know its gonna be so hard. !! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlissfullyMuse Posted April 18, 2005 Author Share Posted April 18, 2005 Yeah i know, i mean i wish i never told his dad but i suppose he needed to know, in a way i still love him but he should have told me that they were having a blood test because i would have understood. His dad is well nice actually and he said he will try and sort things out for me. Im going to ask him if he could bring richard up here so we can talk properly because just talking over the phone is crap and i just cant really see if he is lying or not Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bart Posted April 18, 2005 Share Posted April 18, 2005 I guess thats a good idea.... !!! speaking on the phone over things like this I guess would be crapier than ever before. If he has called it off with you though !!! and would want to make it up he would have to promise you the earth... you are going to be so vulunrable in the situation your in.. please try and be headstrong in your decisons... its even harder I guess when ur in love with someone... ! Can u get off anywhere... ??? a friend or family memeber to try and clear you mind... for a few days ??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlissfullyMuse Posted April 18, 2005 Author Share Posted April 18, 2005 No not really, His mate might phone him tonight to see whats going on. I mean yeah the distance thing is hard but i was trying to find ways of seeing him, then this happens even if it is his baby i`ll understand and he doesnt have to be with her just because of the baby. It doesnt just take a day to fall out of love with someone so i find it hard to belive that hes lost all feelings for me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reilly Posted April 18, 2005 Share Posted April 18, 2005 Awww Kirst Im seriously shocked here :o I know it was a good idea for you to just remain calm but now this?! Thats terrible. I'd love to tell you to calm down again but you simply cant believe what his dad is saying, blood tests DO prove hes the father, umm I think. I think. :stunned: Hell I really dont know. Not that I can offer much advice but if you wanna talk kirst you know where I am. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bart Posted April 18, 2005 Share Posted April 18, 2005 I know that, belive me....!!! I just hope it all works out... u know him I guess... have some more *** hugs Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlissfullyMuse Posted April 18, 2005 Author Share Posted April 18, 2005 He seems vunerable aswell tho....He belives anything sometimes, he listens to his dad all the time so maybe his dad can knock some sense into him I dunno Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlissfullyMuse Posted April 18, 2005 Author Share Posted April 18, 2005 Yeah i mean his dad said that a blood test just says if their not the father and it just says the blood type of the baby Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlissfullyMuse Posted April 18, 2005 Author Share Posted April 18, 2005 Fucking piss flaps, why me :huh: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jette Posted April 18, 2005 Share Posted April 18, 2005 Thats terrible. I'd love to tell you to calm down again but you simply cant believe what his dad is saying' date=' blood tests DO prove hes the father, umm I think.[/quote'] No that's not true. With a blood test you can only prove that two people aren't related. You can't show whether someone else, with the same blood type as her bf, is the father or not. Only a DNA test will tell. All the best to you, BlissfullyMuse. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Evori Posted April 18, 2005 Share Posted April 18, 2005 :o aww kirsten :stunned: well, i think you should talk with him (no by phone :confused: ) and try to clarify the situation... but if he is the father, he doesn't have to split up the relationship... well, that's my point of view :confused: don't know... a big kiss :kiss: hugs Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlissfullyMuse Posted April 18, 2005 Author Share Posted April 18, 2005 Thats terrible. I'd love to tell you to calm down again but you simply cant believe what his dad is saying' date=' blood tests DO prove hes the father, umm I think.[/quote'] No that's not true. With a blood test you can only prove that two people aren't related. You can't show whether someone else, with the same blood type as her bf, is the father or not. Only a DNA test will tell. All the best to you, BlissfullyMuse. Thank you hun! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlissfullyMuse Posted April 18, 2005 Author Share Posted April 18, 2005 :o aww kirsten :stunned: well, i think you should talk with him (no by phone :confused: ) and try to clarify the situation... but if he is the father, he doesn't have to split up the relationship... well, that's my point of view :confused: don't know... a big kiss :kiss: hugs Yeah i know, his mate is going to phone him tonight and hes going to tell him all of that. I think its a load of shit anyways Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-JaK- Posted April 18, 2005 Share Posted April 18, 2005 I'm rubbish at relationships so I really don't know what to say :cry: But if you want anyone to talk to Kirst i'm here ok *hugs* :/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leaver Posted April 18, 2005 Share Posted April 18, 2005 this is my reaction ..then :stunned: blood tests do no prove he could be the father DNA test does i'm with you kirk ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlissfullyMuse Posted April 18, 2005 Author Share Posted April 18, 2005 Hehe thank you people! Thanks for all your support and thanks for the offer to chat Jak :kiss: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fifi Posted April 18, 2005 Share Posted April 18, 2005 MY GOD!! >>> :stunned: <<<me right now! I really can't imagine Richard as a dad, well not that I know him really well, but judging from when I was at yours! :stunned: It may all be a bunch of waffle though. I think he should take a dna test :/ But listen chick, if you need to talk I'm only a phone call away :) And if he needs his arse whipped into gear, I'll come over on a combine harvester! :( Keep your head up hun :kiss: :cry: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reilly Posted April 18, 2005 Share Posted April 18, 2005 Sorry for leaving so hurredly Kirst, I hope your feeling a bit better. :/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlissfullyMuse Posted April 19, 2005 Author Share Posted April 19, 2005 Hey im just quickly coming on here Thanx Fiona i know he doesnt look the type does he lol All i can say is his loss Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fifi Posted April 19, 2005 Share Posted April 19, 2005 Yeah it's definitely his loss!! :o Does Gemma know? :/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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