January 13, 200620 yr Well................I'm wondering why people who have big problems are alway happy and make jokes and laugh a lot......and in their soul they are sooooo sad................
January 13, 200620 yr Author You don't have to answer maybe this thread is stupid......but you don't know how sad I am..........I had to do this!
January 13, 200620 yr I know what you mean, Julia. A lot of the most confident, out-going people have problems that they hide......
January 13, 200620 yr Well................I'm wondering why people who have big problems are alway happy and make jokes and laugh a lot......and in their soul they are sooooo sad................ because it makes things better to joke around...
January 13, 200620 yr maybe it's their way to defense themselves. they just don't wanna show that they are sad ... they wanna be a strong person ... :rolleyes:
January 13, 200620 yr Author My problem is that I even can't talk about everything with my best friends because I always think they wouldn't be interested............not my main problem but a problem which follows....
January 13, 200620 yr I know what you mean here, and sometimes I'm one of those people. I wont tell anyone my problems unless they ask, and I dont let people get close enough to even know to ask. I feel frustrations and insecurity a lot of the time, and it's very hard for someone to find out about this (The last time my friend kept trying to get to the bottom of my problems I kept making stupid jokes to get away from the situation with her). I'm quite happy lately, so I dont have anything to hold in. But in future I should learn to express more.
January 13, 200620 yr i hate talking to my friends about my problems. i always wanna tell the how i feel but they just ignore it! they don't even try to listen. i hate that. they're so ignorant when it comes to problems. are they just immature or do they just wanna live in their great,beautiful,fragile world?!
January 13, 200620 yr life is shit...so what can you do? make jokes and laugh... Not all of the time man. Sometimes you need to start telling people how shit you feel.
January 13, 200620 yr Mmm, I neither like to talk about my feelings, most of the time keep them for myself. But I think, would be very healthy if I could tell someone about that. Maybe a psycologist would be a good idea. :idea2:
January 13, 200620 yr life is shit...so what can you do? make jokes and laugh... yeah true ... don't take life too seriously ...you won't get outta it alive anyway ... soo ...
January 13, 200620 yr Author Well..................my friends listen to my problems I know that...and they are interested in it........the problem is myself!
January 13, 200620 yr this might sound a little odd but ... since 'don't panic' was the very first song i've listened to this year. ... it kinda became my motto ... just don't panic ... it is the worst thing you can do. that's what i keep in mind ... i don't like the fact that there is no one on earth that i really really love. i think that's quite sad. there is no one out there who i wanna be with. i rather wanna be alone than with a random person i know. it's because they don't mind anyway and i know that they don't. i just don't say it ... they fuckin don't care and the damn thing is that i cared too much bout others.well,but i quit worrying bout others ... they aren't worth it ... damn, what the heck am i writing? just ignore this whole part ... :cool:
January 13, 200620 yr Well..................my friends listen to my problems I know that...and they are interested in it........the problem is myself! Hmmm.. you make jokes and hide true feelings from yourself? :thinking: Im lost in this thread :wreck:
January 13, 200620 yr life is shit...so what can you do? make jokes and laugh... Not all of the time man. Sometimes you need to start telling people how shit you feel. I do.
January 13, 200620 yr Well..................my friends listen to my problems I know that...and they are interested in it........the problem is myself! you don't wanna tell them your problems?
January 13, 200620 yr Author I can understand you..................I know all people who know me won't believe that i'm so damn sad in my soul............but I am....I Am
January 13, 200620 yr Julia, you should really speak about it with someone who would understand, an specialist, a psychologist! After reading the thread I'm seriously thinking about it. It's a good idea to tell someone how you really feel and what you think. :idea2:
January 13, 200620 yr Author I can tell you what makes me sad........what makes me so sad: It is my self-confidence...............when I go out I feel observed............I'm too shy..........when I know on saturday is a party I can't even be happy about it.......I'm scared about it......this just because of some stupid fucking assholes of this society...........I could cry about it.I wrote many poems about it........I hate some people!
January 13, 200620 yr mhh ... i used to feel like that too ( i still do sometimes ...) there are some "popular" people and they think they rule the freakin world...but they don't! they think they're better than anyone else but they're even worse. i hate those people too ... they're so damn superficial ... can't stand it but the thing is that i don't like to hang out with them ... which makes everything easier. just hang out with your mates! they know how great you are ! sometimes ... when i just think that everything's going down the drain ... i put some make up on ... get my hair done and look in the mirror. then i see a pretty girl that has soul which is even prettier! that's what all girls should do when they're down ...
January 13, 200620 yr Author ^well.......in some points I agree with you........I hang out with my mates.....and I am popular..........depending on my character I think...but I'm so bad at getting to know people........because of a few people I have prejudices I don't want to have.........and the thing with the mirror and the hair etc.......I do that and then I think wow you look good....but then I go out with my friends and see so many good-looking girls....and then I see myself in the mirror and think omg you look so bad go home dear..........I can get a very bad image of myself from minute to minute!
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