cool :cool: that's the whole freaking point of a debate :uhoh:

i love a good debate

Maybe we shouldn't just have sex before marriage?It has a point cause then abortion wont be popular at all.The onliest problem-it's almost unreal

yeah me too...it feels good and it makes me see things at a better perspective.

 

omg...is that still a question to you...Lera? that is the solution to abortion...period.

Yeah, abstinence might be the best way to evoid an abortion and STDs, but only certain people can do it...people with will. I know i couldn't do it if I tried, but I believe in premarital sex so I'm nor very objective

 

And Crystal, if you or anyone who's against it don't want to have an abortion then don't, but everyone should have the choice

it takes a stong person who KNOWS what they want in life to stay away from simple temptations like that.

 

But sadly, too little people know themselves, much less know right from wrong..so things like std's and abortions are the news of the day.

 

i believe....believe? in premarital sex...what good comes from that? it is just like, neverrmind..that is mean. I don't want to get off topic like i always do

I know myself and I know I'm gonna have sex at some point way before I marry, I'm not saying 'nevermind', I think sex is good, if it's with someone you love and desire and there's protection

I know, the whole protection part. Okay..you are like 15..that is kinda,,,what? messed up.

 

 

Anyway..when he breaks up with you, it will be okay that you are sad that he leaves you even after you had sex with him and all? you will put up with that?

 

that is messed up

You can separate the emotional side of sex from the physical. It's enjoyment, plain and simple, and when your ready, you take it to another level of being emotional, and you only do that with someone you trust.

 

Ummm dunno what we're talking about now, I'll read this better tomorow maybe. I did eventually finish that sandwich haha.

I haven't had sex yet, i'm too young, but I know that I will have sex eventually and i'm pretty sure it's gonna be before I marry. I don't think that's messed up at all, i'm lucky enough to be able to talk about sex with my parents and i have a strong opinion on the subject

having sex for the simple pleasure and no emotional values..is just like you know...masturbating (it had to be said)

 

but the emotional link would have to be there or else, what is the deep down and serious point?! :freak:

YOu and your sandwhich :rolleyes:

 

 

Do what you want maiu..no one can stop you..i just ask why put yourself through giving your all to someone and giving him the ability to leave you just like that? it will hurt emotionally if that is what you wanna put a space for with that choice.

 

I urge you to think about it ...some more.

having sex for the simple pleasure and no emotional values..is just like you know...masturbating (it had to be said)

 

but the emotional link would have to be there or else, what is the deep down and serious point?!

YOu and your sandwhich

 

Haha I was actually going to describe it as 'masturbating with help' but thought "Maybe someone out there is eating a sandwich, just like I was once upon a time :idea2: "

 

Why does there have to be a deep down and emotional side? I dont think anyone should sleep with like 30 people a year, that would be going way too far, but as long as one can handle their emotions, you can have sex without feeling used or awful.

 

Guys can do it better then girls, thats because some guys are just dick's with man attached. But I've had sex for simple pleasure (Like in the past 4 months or so I havent been looking for love) and felt no emotional turmoil. I've also experienced it with someone I love, and when it didn't work out, it was completely awful.

 

Still, I think it can be done as just another part of life's pleasures.

I have thought about it...a lot

I've already said that sex is good as long as it's with someone you love and desire.

People fight, couples fight and split up and people still live through it, it's just life. People divorce also,and it's a bigger shock

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eat the sandwhich later!!! :P

 

there doesnt have to be that emotional side...i said that FOR ME..it would be pointless with out it.

Maybe, without you knowing it, this girl had like a revolutionary night with you and feels more than nothing for you, and you just USED her for esx? then her heart breaks? unless it was like, a hooker or something. I jsut dont want to risk broken hearts because they hurt more than physical pain

But it's the risk that you take when you're in a relationship.

Marriages fail too,and if you give your everything to your husband and it just goes wrong you're gonna get heartbroken too. It happens

Yeah. you say that like it is so simple. I take those things seriously, because things like that are really complicated and involve more than just sex and pleasures. It is your life and the consequences that it brings.

I'm not saying it shouldn't be taken seriously, but it's still life, couples split,marriages fail, it's happened before and it will happen in the future. If you don't want to get heartbroken don't date or marry

It is true...but don't just think of failing first...think more like...how can things be fixed...before the thought of ending things comes about in your mind

Maybe, without you knowing it, this girl had like a revolutionary night with you and feels more than nothing for you, and you just USED her for esx? then her heart breaks? unless it was like, a hooker or something. I jsut dont want to risk broken hearts because they hurt more than physical pain

 

I dont do it unless I'm sure the girl can handle it. I've never met a girl and had sex with her on the same night, because I dont think a guy can judge character (Then again most guy's dont really want to judge character).

 

Its really annoying when a girl tells me she is fine with just having sex and not a relationship, and a few days later she's mad and claims I used her. All I can say in that situation is that Im sorry, but she knew what she was in for..

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See?! You never know how things can change, just like that. Emotions and sex are so complicated..it's better to not risk it!

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See?! You never know how things can change, just like that. Emotions and sex are so complicated..it's better to not risk it!

 

I'm sorry, it may be hard to understand, but I think I would go nuts without sex until marriage. Absolutely nuts. Nuts.

 

I'd change my name to Martha and rob a drugstore. Nuts.

It is true...but don't just think of failing first...think more like...how can things be fixed...before the thought of ending things comes about in your mind

 

For the tenth time, I know, but still, things go wrong and I'm not gonna deny myself to get emotionally attached just because it might not work out and i'll be sad

yeah...blue nuts is the answer :lol: :lol: :lol:

See?! You never know how things can change, just like that. Emotions and sex are so complicated..it's better to not risk it!

 

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you've been saying that the person you have sex with would have to be someone you have feelings for,otherwise it'd be almost meaningless

and?