sup evbody?

Shut the hell up before I smack you.

Yeah what he said.

sup evbody?

 

wat is wrong with you?

Mariana, I suppose you could say that things didnt go according to plan. In a bad, bad way.

 

Yes Ive now officially sent a mixed signal, telling her I like her, but I think she knows that if anything happens, its only going to be a bit of fun for the next few weeks.

 

I hope.

ok... this was today... after we talked... did u try dong anything i sugested??

 

im confused reilleo!!!

 

and btw, party is tomorrow, right? hows that gonna be?

 

one more thing: remember what i said, when they start repeating, things usually get messy in their heads (in this case, even messier)

*bump*

 

Ah an update if anyone cares to hear! I need to vent hehe.

Well I found out this guy is now kind of seeing another girl at work. She asked him he if liked her and he said 'Let's just see what happens'. This girl just split up with her bf last week though and she reeeally isn't that attractive. I sound like a bitch, but it's the honest truth.

Sooo, I feel inadequate...what's wrong with me that he couldn't be bothered to patch things up with me and at least get our friendship back.

Yargh! Feel free not to comment, it's mostly gibberish anyway. :(

Aww!

 

Sometimes its hardest to patch things up with those you care most about. Because you just get really worried and over analysise the whole thing until you dont know what to do or how to pursue the situation.

 

Maybe thats this guys problem.

 

But really now Charlay, we've been listening to this story for a while, and in other people's story's we've at least tried to talk to the actual person (I know I have, and fairly resolved the issue) can you say that you've really put yourself out there and talked to him? I dont recall you doing so.

 

You should.

Thanks for reading Reillo :)

I KNOW what you're saying makes sense, it does, and people have been telling me endlessly that I should just sit him and down and at least sort out a friendship. I don't know what's holding me back.

Well, really, this has been going on for months or longer now, and if you still cant talk to him, and just sit back and not make progress (Or in recent developments, watch as it gets worse), you should probably just forget about it and let him move on with his life.

 

Its a crushing reality, but theres no point in hurting yourself like that if you cant find the strength to try something.

That is exactly what I have been thinking about today. The 'screw-him-I can-find-someone-much-better' mindset.

I hope it stays put. :)

Gah!

 

Actually, my crushing words of reality was supposed to inspire you to pick yourself up and actually talk to someone who obviously means a lot to you and who you shouldnt let out of your life.

 

If you cant talk to him, then the 'next guy you move onto' will just break into another situation where you NEED to talk to him, but wont.

 

I dont know if this guy knows what your even going through.

Well if it's any consolation it worked I just didn't admit it. Part of me wants to move on, honestly, but another part can't see past him. That part is bigger.

I doubt he knows what I'm going through.

AHHH

The words 'endless' and 'circle' spring to mind!

Part of me wants to move on, honestly, but another part can't see past him. That part is bigger.

 

I didnt tell you to move on!

 

I told you that you should talk to him because you'll need to confront a boy like this again at some point in your life, you may as well face up to it now, when it really matters.

 

And, if then, he isnt budging or progressing, then its dead. Move on.

 

But if you really like him, and you think theres even a glimmer of hope he feels the same way (Which he should) then its an absolute waste to just move on without telling him how you feel.

I didnt tell you to move on!

 

I told you that you should talk to him because you'll need to confront a boy like this again at some point in your life, you may as well face up to it now, when it really matters.

 

And, if then, he isnt budging or progressing, then its dead. Move on.

 

But if you really like him, and you think theres even a glimmer of hope he feels the same way (Which he should) then its an absolute waste to just move on without telling him how you feel.

 

 

You're such an agony aunt.

I have decided to speak to him, I've wanted to for so long, and what you've said has put it into perspective. If it doesn't happen, at least I have some form of closure.

Yes! Exactly, its unhealthy and insane not to.

 

Even if he's been immature, even if he hasnt made the effort when maybe he should have, at the end of the day you still like that guy and it'll be worth it to step out and be the one to do something about it (and you'll be proud of yourself, too).

All I have to do now, is DO IT! YARGH!

Yeah I feel better already actually. You're like Yoda or something, giving out your nuggets of wisdom.

haha! So yeah, how's your love life anyway?

A pretty Yoda! :nice:

 

My love life is fairly non existent. Things progressed to all sorts of madness with the girl I made this topic about, including weeks of sex (Which I didnt plan on, but hey when it started, why not continue) and now we are back at our homes and both kindof miss eachother. I still miss her as a friend, I dont know what she thinks of me, neither does she.

 

We're going to be just friends again come September. Unless, yknow, drink gets in the way and meddles with our friendship again.

 

Other then that, not much. Been getting friendly with a waitress at work, gave her a lift home a few times now and text her regularly, but no real flirtyness has ensued to this point. Shes purdy.

Well you and the girl this thread was made about are on speaking terms at least! That is good. Plus you got some sex, always a good thing.

Ooh look at you making your moves on a waitress! :P

Haha, not really... yet :mellow:

 

Yeah we're on good speaking terms, like actual friends. Shes going to call me soon actually, just to chat like usual

 

I'm off into town, lata!

Ah I buggered off without saying 'lata' earlier on. :dizzy2: muhaha

 

So, I'm getting nervous now, and am getting incredibly paranoid about him and this other girl, even though I know they're not serious or anything.

have u talked to him yet or not charlie?

Not yet, I wasn't at work today and he hasn't been online or anything.

I'm at work tmrw though, I might take him aside and ask him if we can talk after work or something.

just dont make it seem like its a big deal talk (even though it is), coz otherwise he'll be all nervous, ull get nervous too, and thats not gonna be good...

or just wait til whift ends to talk to him... without 'anouncing' u need to talk... guys tend to get nervous with that...

Thanks for the advice :)

I didn't get a chance to speak to him, he tried to make small talk fleetingly when we were in a group with other people, we didn't speak to each other directly in a 'conversing' kind of way though. We kissed each other goodbye though, which was weird.