Some people...

 

Some people see anyone as their friend. When they are lumped into a group of people, neighbours, class mates, work colleagues, they take the assumption that because they have coincidentally winded up in the same place as them, that they should be really good friends with them for the duration of time they spend in this same place.

 

Some people...

 

Some people dont quite believe in this, if they like people at work or school, they will be friends with them, no doubt, but its not like a code where they have no choice. I am one of these people, the guy who lives beside me, is not.

 

And while I am a friend of his, he fails to understand why I'm not one of his good friends. Instead I mainly spend all my time with one group of guys downstairs, simply because, I get on better with them.

 

I just dont understand people like him, he needs to get over it and get a life. I like him, hes a nice guy, but theres not a special friendship between us, and whenever I'm around him and his other friends, they are just so lame. They hardly say a word, they pretty much just hang around eachother to look cool (Which is, hahaha, hilarious! but true)

 

Yes. Choose friends, dont let the lottery draw of life choose them for you.

Maybe that's the reason I don't have friends.If I was a friend of every person I know I'd be another fake loser.I prefer to choose friends, to find a real friends, who will understand me and who's interesting to talk.So I'm alone here with my very smart opinion.

PS:Reilo, why did you change your name?...

I dunno, just.

i choose my friends. sure i do. i know a lot of people but i reject a lot of them, just because i don't like them. maybe that's why i don't have 50-60 friends, but i'm pretty happy with 8-10 very good. that's enough

I think its pretty impossible to have 50 real friends. I do have 50 or probably more 'friends', I mean, people I talk to when I see them and such, but really, to keep up with that many people every few days, its just not going to happen.

 

I have 3 main friends and about 10-15 quite good friends who I sometimes see a lot, sometimes not enough

I hate when people call you thair friend after 5 minutes you met, just to say something, they think they're friendly if they do it, but it's stupid, friend is not just a word, it's really important to me.

I think its pretty impossible to have 50 real friends. I do have 50 or probably more 'friends', I mean, people I talk to when I see them and such, but really, to keep up with that many people every few days, its just not going to happen.

 

I have 3 main friends and about 10-15 quite good friends who I sometimes see a lot, sometimes not enough

 

that is exactly what i meant. i know a lot of people and i talk with them for hours about every random theme, but after i always had feeling we're not REAL friends.

evbody is my friend,hello evbody

I hate when people call you thair friend after 5 minutes you met' date=' just to say something, they think they're friendly if they do it, but it's stupid, friend is not just a word, it's really important to me.[/quote']

 

Couldn't agree more.

 

 

I definitely choose my frieds very carefully. I've had to known a person for many years before calling her/him a very good friend of mine.

hello!!!Chris015

i hate it when someone pertends to be your friend, but really all they're trying to do is get your friends and just, ditch you.

but i know that i have great friends and

THAT INCLUDES YOU YELLOW-FEVER! ***Kristina!

:kiss: :nice: Sammm! You cute stuff! You are a great friend too! You crazy but cool !

 

hot hair do too!!:gorgeous:

I also choose friends. I don't really have many friends, but I do know a lot of people, but I don't really consider them as my friends. I have 6 good good friends, they are my close friends and even though we don't see each other that much anymore because we all live in different cities now, we still keep in touch and I love them! :nice:

Pinguuuu????:rolleyes:

well, I'm going through a phase in my life where it's hard for me to trust people... I've always been quite reserved, I mean I always been very carefull choosing friendship but now I'm even worse cause people have just disappointed me in different ways...

 

I have 2 good friends... I consider these 2 real friends cause they are the only 2 persons which I discuss about ANYTHING with...

 

It's very hard to have FRIENDS these days...

^ Yeah, tell me about it

 

I always choose my friends, that's why I might know many people in college I share with but I hardly consider any of them as my friend. Dunno but my idea of friendship is also kinda idealized, a friend would be someone I could trust and talk about anything so basically I don't have any friend now.

I know people like that..........who always think you are their friend immediately just because you have been nice to them....

and I don't like that....

For me I needed really long to get a real friend of my friends now.....I can't "make friends" with someone I don't know that long.....

 

Some guys here use to give you a hug although you only know them for some days......another problem of me....I needed long to give my friends a hug...or another physical thing...I never was someone like that....

I didn't even know this should be an issue!

 

 

If there is someone who, over short time after meeting them, i find a problem with/dislike...I will not remain friends with em for long.

 

 

Because it almost becomes like, you have to hang out with em, or be "friendly". And that is settling for second best. Not even thinking about things.

 

I was under the impression that people who didnt evaluate their cirlce of friends, were people who didn't notice thier pants were still at home!

Exactly Crystal!

 

But my next door neighbour lives like this. He just embraces everything and everyone around him, and doesnt understand the topic of choice. Its just insane.

 

Until I met him I also didnt know that this was an issue.

Pinguuuu????:rolleyes:

 

I know! I was thinking the same! Thank God it wasn't Gizmo :nice:

 

 

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I know! I was thinking the same! Thank God it wasn't Gizmo :nice:

 

 

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yess... It really weird!!! hahaha I talked to Reilly and ask him if he had a Pingu, and he said that he was Pingu!!:thinking: he is my pett noww! hahahaha!

hmm a little theory:

 

you meet someone and become 'aquaintances' so you arent friends and not enemies either, then when u get to know them more and hang out you are 'friends', until later on down the track (however long that may be) where you become 'real friends'. bear in mind though, that not everyone makes it through the three stages because of the choice factor of choosing whether to take it further or not.

 

i think i have people in all three catagories, sure i have friends and like to make friends and aquaintances, but there are also people who i just dislike full stop.

 

just my thoughts

I have friends and people I can tolerate...I dont confuse the two. There are a couple people I instantly like and still do and a couple who grew on me,lol. Everyone has a different view about friends- thats a given, but just because some people make friends easily or have alot of them doesnt make them fake-you dont know that, just like people who only have one friend doesnt make them any worse off.

:lol: I love Pingu, woot, excellent show, top notch.

I get bored of certain friends after a while and then come back to liking them heaps again.

I rotate through friends, lol.

^haha....I somehopw used to be like that...even when they stayed at my house I couldn't wait for the time they would go...the friends I have now are the first ones since I was maybe 12 I really enjoy to stay with!

Yeah, I feel like that, where they stay at my house and maybe sleep the night. I wake up and see them lyin there and go "crap! are you still here":lol:

Hopefully I'll continue to have good friends.