Yep!

 

I hate it when people accept who they are.

 

Hahaha, that sounds cruel, but its not.

 

Doesnt everyone hate little things about themselves? Parts of their personality? Parts of their body?

 

Most people just sit there complaining about it, but I think we should all learn, day by day, to make ourselves better people.

 

I used to be quite ignorant in ways, I had to open my eyes to see it. I also used to judge people, and be very two faced, I dont do that hardly at all anymore (I do judge people from time to time, but only if I'm educated on who they are as people).

 

Also my body, going to the gym and swimming, playing sports a lot more, I hated it at first, the struggle of exercise, but now its grown to be a part of me, and I absolutely love it. I'd go nuts without exercise for 2 or 3 days.

 

My diet too, I'm eating healthier, also like doing exercise, I used to hate it, but when you get into it, good healthy food tastes much better then choco-fried crap.

 

As long as you are making changes for yourself, I dont see a problem in growing as a person instead of just accepting the problems you naturally have.

 

Most people around me have said at some point that I'm an incredibly likeable person because I never do anything thats unreasonable, thats a very important thing for me. Where everyone else, even the best of people, sometimes have their annoying factors of their personality which sometimes come through, I dont.

 

Well maybe it comes through when I'm being mean to newbies on here hahahaha, but not in real life.

Yeah you know people say that you have to love yourself as you are but I think that person should always work at his/her personality and body too...I mean, nobody will come and change your life, nobody will solve your problems.So it's not enough just to accept it like "yeah, that's me and I like myself even fat and hyppocritical".You really have to do something with yourself, try to be better.

 

PS:Your ava....One of Olsen sisters?...Nice :uhoh:

actually it's an interesting thought.

 

i would say a lot of people don't accept themselves. i don't have any problems and accepted myself years ago. i think the problem starts here: some people idolize some celebrities and just wannabe like them. ridiculous. i don't understand people who start to make plastic surgeries because of that.

 

i know some people, who made plastic surgeries :disappointed:

Oh yeah it's the most stupid thing ever.I can understand when someone does plastic because of huge nose or smth like that, but when I see these programms on mtv where people do plastic surgeries just to look like celibrity(and they don't even after plastic) it's just so stupid, I'll never understand it.

i hate when stupid people judge somebody just because of look... :/

 

but i think if you judge a person who doesn't even try to lose some weight for example, it's like you give an advice. i think :/

Yeah but still if the person is fat and you tell this person that it'd be great to lose some weight this person will get angry or sad, just because he/she pretends like everything's ok, like he/she looks great.Sometimes it's hard to open eyes and see yourself as you are.

yeah, true.

 

but some people always complain and don't even try to do against it. that's quite depressing. i don't know this kind of people, but i know they exist.

Yeah but sometimes it's just nothing you can do.For example, I'm the tallest girl in my class(i'm not very tall though) and I used to have a complex about a year ago.I couldn't do anything with it so I just accepted it.But if I have something I really don't like and can change it, in my personality or appearance, I'll do my best to fix it.

haha i never had complexes with height. i always was the tallest :/ that was kinda annoying sometimes. now i don't care if i hear some jokes about my height ;)

What's your height? :wideeyed:

 

199 cm?...

184-185 i think :wideeyed:

Ha, not so much :wink: Better than if you were 154 or smth..

154 isn't that bad. i had a girlfriend who was 158 :anxious:

 

^ does it make sense? :mellow:

No, it doesnt.Btw, I was talking about guys, girls don't have to be tall at all.

 

Anyway, I suppose Reilly didn't mean all this spam while making this thread....

i'm off now to eat something, so arrividerci :nice:

Bon appetit, a bientot!

Oh yes....ohhhoohohohh....yeees.....

 

There are sooo many things that i can't accept about myself.....about my body and my soul....both things are connected in some way....

 

Haha....ok.....I eat healthy...I got use to it.I do sports.....and it makes me feel better.....I always try diets and fail most of time.....

so body and soul connection:

I can't accept my body what it is like.....but I'm never very consequent.....and there the circle closes.....

 

I can't accept this......my biggest problem....

 

I care about this sooo much that my whole life isn't happy anymore....(except today...I love it today....)......it makes me a shy person because if i can't accept it I think others can't accept it too!

 

So kost of the time it is just a BIG DREAM....to begin to accept it one day...

 

Damn problem in my life...............I WANT TO GET RID OF THIS SHIIIIIIT!

I think some are focussing a bit much on the body aspect, the primary point of changing yourself should really take into consideration your personality, I thought that would be the main topic of discussion.

 

Trying to chop off bad habits of your personality is, believe it or not, way harder then going to the gym everyday for 3 months. Its so hard to accept when something in your personality is annoying, much harder then accepting a bit of flab hanging from your stomach.

I think some are focussing a bit much on the body aspect, the primary point of changing yourself should really take into consideration your personality, I thought that would be the main topic of discussion.

 

Trying to chop off bad habits of your personality is, believe it or not, way harder then going to the gym everyday for 3 months. Its so hard to accept when something in your personality is annoying, much harder then accepting a bit of flab hanging from your stomach.

 

 

This is true.....definitely....

 

But....as i said before....my biggest problem is in my personality....it is not just because of the body aspect...it is the same in other parts of my life...

I have to be more consequent.....this is the problem---

I also can't accept that i sometimes (it depends on the people who are around) don't behave just as I AM....I hate that.....and i alwys regret it afterwards at home...

Well that would be a strange form of being shy. Most people are shy and dont show their own personality, maybe you are too shy to show your own personality so you use another type, its not a rare thing.

 

Its hard to show your true self...

Ok...this is possible.....and yep it is hard to show "the real me"....I wish I could....

BUT.......at saturday i have been to a party...and before I went there I said to myself:

"hey today you are YOURSELF!"

 

and.......it worked.....most of the time...this was an imporvement....and afterwards i was really let#s say "happy" about myself...good evening...

Sometimes you have to tweak your character a bit to suit different people, it would be a little ignorant not to. You have to meet them half way, you cant be goofy and make stupid jokes around someone you dont know so well, you'll just look weird and they will be uncomfortable.

 

So yeah, sometimes you have to change a bit, but the worrying part of this is changing too much so that you are no longer yourself.

 

I wrote a topic about it once, maybe it helps: http://www.coldplaying.com/forum/showthread.php?t=23672&highlight=million

This is true.....definitely....

 

But....as i said before....my biggest problem is in my personality....it is not just because of the body aspect...it is the same in other parts of my life...

I have to be more consequent.....this is the problem---

I also can't accept that i sometimes (it depends on the people who are around) don't behave just as I AM....I hate that.....and i alwys regret it afterwards at home...

 

Continue to just be yourself - it's the only way. The moment you try to "be" something you're not, you're on the slippery slope!! If other people around you are caught in the trap, that's their problem. Stick to your guns!!:)

Continue to just be yourself - it's the only way. The moment you try to "be" something you're not' date=' you're on the slippery slope!! If other people around you are caught in the trap, that's [i']their[/i] problem. Stick to your guns!!:)

 

So you act in the exact same manner around a long term best friend, as you would around someone you've just met?

 

Its not wrong to act differently, because if you dont know where to stand with someone, its better to open up your personality and become a little more bland or boring, you get to seek out what kind of person they are.

 

The different levels of friendships rely solely on comfort around someone, and its simply not comfortable enough sometimes to be yourself, thats ok I think.

Yeah i think I can remember this thread...

 

And yes.....you can't always be yourself....many people won't get it(especially here where I am.....I'm different to many others).....AND many behave maybe childish....so then I also behave chilidsh not in purpose...but when I'm at home then and think about it I hate it and then I think the others behaved normal and I didn't...:confused:

 

This is getting on my nerves....I know i shouldn't care too much about how i behaved where....but unfortunately I do...