The funny thing is though, in a guys mind, flirting DEFINATELY means hot sweaty sex.

 

I was in the room once when Chandler Bing pointed this out one afternoon in a Greenwich apartment, New York. I cant remember exactly why I was there but Monica Gellar's argument is that she should be allowed to flirt if he is. But Chandler, (I cant actually remember how I know this guy, its weird) defended men everywhere by claiming that when a man flirts with a woman, hes just being playful and friendly, and the woman realises this. But when a woman flirts with a man, the man is thinking "Woah, yeah, she wants it, hoe yeah!"

 

Its true though. Obviously not if the girl is selling you credit cards, but if a girl I've just met in a neutral circumstance starts slipping in sly innuendo's around me and generally fooling around in a flirty fashion, Im definately thinking "Woah... hoe yeah!"

 

Wait a minute! That was a TV show :stunned:

 

awww, you friends creep :nice:

me neither. I terrible at it. Either I get all tongue tied or I end up looking like this ::wacko:

 

i dont think ur that bad wifey!! LOL

 

I STILL LOVE YOU BABY!!!!! 69999999999999999!!!!!!!:kiss:

The funny thing is though, in a guys mind, flirting DEFINATELY means hot sweaty sex.

 

I was in the room once when Chandler Bing pointed this out one afternoon in a Greenwich apartment, New York. I cant remember exactly why I was there but Monica Gellar's argument is that she should be allowed to flirt if he is. But Chandler, (I cant actually remember how I know this guy, its weird) defended men everywhere by claiming that when a man flirts with a woman, hes just being playful and friendly, and the woman realises this. But when a woman flirts with a man, the man is thinking "Woah, yeah, she wants it, hoe yeah!"

 

Its true though. Obviously not if the girl is selling you credit cards, but if a girl I've just met in a neutral circumstance starts slipping in sly innuendo's around me and generally fooling around in a flirty fashion, Im definately thinking "Woah... hoe yeah!"

 

Wait a minute! That was a TV show :stunned:

 

 

Flirting is a quite misunderstood action. Some people think that only with certain people you can flirt or under certain circumstances.

 

But flirting is like a good verbal game to play. I can flirt with my closest friends, or complete strangers.

 

It could be innuendos, or down right dirty talking.

 

Or it could be the subtle stuff I use at work when getting men hooked to the clothes they try on. The phrases and words I use at work, are obviously toned down, and mostly compliments...but I would still consider it flirting.

 

But with other people, in different atmospheres, the words and meanings change..and could get really steamy.

 

I suppose flirting is being able to get some kind of sexual rise outta someone with just words..(well visually too.. you use your body language as well)...or maybe not even SEXUAL...but something of a sensuous feeling from the receiver.

The funny thing is though, in a guys mind, flirting DEFINATELY means hot sweaty sex.

 

I was in the room once when Chandler Bing pointed this out one afternoon in a Greenwich apartment, New York. I cant remember exactly why I was there but Monica Gellar's argument is that she should be allowed to flirt if he is. But Chandler, (I cant actually remember how I know this guy, its weird) defended men everywhere by claiming that when a man flirts with a woman, hes just being playful and friendly, and the woman realises this. But when a woman flirts with a man, the man is thinking "Woah, yeah, she wants it, hoe yeah!"

 

Its true though. Obviously not if the girl is selling you credit cards, but if a girl I've just met in a neutral circumstance starts slipping in sly innuendo's around me and generally fooling around in a flirty fashion, Im definately thinking "Woah... hoe yeah!"

 

Wait a minute! That was a TV show :stunned:

 

:laugh3: :laugh3:

I was thinking about this episode of friends just before I read this post haha.

 

I don't think I flirt a lot.. but I guess I'm ok if I'm not really into a guy.. cause if I really really like someone I just suck at it, I start speaking really fast or don't say anything.. it's just awful

What?? But from the pictures I've seen, you're really cute. And I mean that in a non-flirtacious way. :D

 

For me, I've never been good at flirting when I try, but when I don't try, it seems to work better.

 

:blush:

but no one wants me :D

I can't flirt.. it's stupid. :P

I'm actually quite a big flirt so I'm told. But I think people just confuse my friendliness for flirting..... :sneaky:

 

No but seriously, I think I suck at flirting but I still do it :thinking:

 

^that sig is freeeeakin' hilarious!! :laugh4:

I'm a big flirt...it's how I tend to connect with guys. Purely innocent of course.

 

If I actually do fancy someone there's no way I'd flirt with them :lol:

Well I have no idea...but I guess I am...but I am quite friendly....

:blush:

but no one wants me :D

I can't flirt.. it's stupid. :P

 

 

:nice:

 

 

 

 

I am sure you are as good of a flirt as you are good looking. :sneaky:

 

 

 

 

was that flirtatious? :uhoh:

Believe me, I'm not good in flirting. I'm very kind and friendly, but I dont flirt. :D

Hahha....actually I think I can't see the difference between being nice and flirting...:confused:

 

Hhehe...for example when we were in Barcelona....we went to a "Burger King" so there was this cute guy I had to order the things I wanted....awww...and he was so nice.....so tried to be also very nice to him......a friend of mine was standing next to me and only said:"Aha......a bit of flirting huh?"

 

I didn't see it like that...

hehe ... i like flirting even with those guys i actually don't want. lol

it's just weird. i'm a magnet to some really idiotic boys o.O

I'm crap at flirting

Hahha....actually I think I can't see the difference between being nice and flirting...:confused:

 

but there is a big difference.. I see it.

I'm very nice and kind to all people (and it's normal for me), but I'm not flirting with them. :P

i dont really tend to flirt on purpose...but i think i do it sometimes

me neither. I terrible at it. Either I get all tongue tied or I end up looking like this ::wacko:

yeah, i know what you mean..

i just act really crappy when it comes to this. :/

Some girl from work is flirting with me but i'm not sure if she's just being a flirty friend or actually wants something more, i cant never tell ..damn :stunned:

of course she does ren, it's you! hehe

 

i only flirt when i have had too much to drink. personal space, coyness and having nothing to say just go riiiight out the window and it seems to work....hehe

I'm crap at flirting

 

same here.

Aww the boys that can't flirt are the best boys to flirt with :blush:

Very true :) !

I kinda tease a bit sometimes and I also do it without even knowing that I'm doing it.. but when a guy flirts with me, I also see it as he wants to sleep with me which is probably why it bothers me..and also if they're married.

 

Another thing, when I notice that someone is staring at me and we make eye contact; I usually smile and turn around and leave. It still bothers me when someone stares but I'm not even sure why..and I also get a bit nevervous when I like someone.. but then my insecurities come into play and then I stop caring on whether they'll like me or not and somehow I end up liking them less:thinking: It's really strange...