hmmm...

the thing is that all my friends seem to have relationships now and i'm still alone. +_+

it's so depressing and i could start crying now.

it just feels like there's nobody out there who is sorta like my soulmate.

my friends hardly understand me and i'm not very close to my family.

i feel so goddamn alone.

i do want to fall in love.

ah fuck it.

it's just another depressing thread among the others.

can't stand those stupid lovesongs anymore...

and why the fuck is each song i listen to about love?!?!

aww :(

I know the feeling

it's just that i don't feel any love at all

yeah I understand how you feel.. it has happened to me.. you feel like nobody cares not even your family or friends.. but it isn't really like that

^yes of course is not!

 

i think i understand you...i'm not in love too and everyone around me is!

but i think what we need to do is keep hoping that in the future things will get better!!

I don't really have any advices or anything but I'm sorry anyway, grace :(

everything will get better

I know what you mean, I think everyone feels that sometimes

but there will be someone for you :wink:

I know there's someone for me :wacky:

 

everyone will find someone

I understand you.. well.. I'm sure u will find someone soon :)

Like everyone here, I can understand where you are coming from. I've been through the same thing. But you know what? Just live for the moment right now, find all the fun you can, just act like you can't be any happier. Trust me, you'll find that 'guy.' Until then, live as if you can only be single once, and that 'guy' will come to you sooner than you think...:nice:

For a long time I was sad, just like this.

 

Whats changed? Absolutely nothing, except myself.

 

I've learned to take whatever I have and roll with it, and its been hard, I've made many changes in my life and have grown so much to learn that all these things that I thought I need, love and understanding, they dont just fall to you, you have to wait.

 

Be patient, take things day by day, just breathe and try to realise that in the long scheme of things, these emotions you are feeling right now wont be remembered in even a year from now.

 

Its so bad to be there, we all know, and it doesnt help at all to know other people go through these times, because when you are there, its the loneliest feeling.

 

You'll be ok, work for that feeling of contentness, and it wont hit you suddenly, but someday you'll wake up and greet the day

I've waited for 18 years for love. everytime i think about love i rememer the fray song Heaven forbid. but i think what Reilly said is true for most people, but their are few unlucky bastards that never find it. i fear i am one of them. But chin up, most people find love sooner or later, im sure you will, and when you do you'll be very happy.

i know what u mean...

i go through periouds of time when i feel like me being alone is like, the end of the world or something and i get really depressed over it. But everyone goes through times like these

 

i just think that love is way overated sometimes. Just by how every single thing in our lives seems to ultimatly revolve it. And i think that's what makes us feel so bad when we dont have it.

It's like we've been taught that love = happiness. And no love = no happiness.

And it's sooo not like that. I've never been truly in love and i used to think that's the worst thing ever, but it's not. Things will happen in their time and that's the way life is ;)

 

there's no need in being sad when u dont know where life will lead u ;)

For me love is the most important thing out there, and the only way to true happiness is being in love. without it their is no point in living.

that's the exact approach that will lead u to depression

 

u say u've been looking for love 18 years, meaning u've never been in love.

Do u mean u've never been truly happy?

Ive been in love but not in a relationship with the person i loved..but ive never been truly happy. I cant change my view on life, even if i tried. i wish i could.

I think u get love from some many diferent things , u dont have to be on a relacionship to have love , i cant get it from friends family even ur dog lmao , but its true , i've never been truly inlove , but dosent means that i've never been happy but its true , for me the most important thing in life is love

Twist your head around

It's all around you

All is full of love

All around you

All is full of love

You just aint receiving

All is full of love

Your phone is off the hook

All is full of love

Your doors are all shut

All is full of love!

 

:wacky:

it depends what u mean by love.

If u mean love between friends and family than yes, i do think it's the most improtant thing in life because without a person would be completely alone and lonely.

 

however romantic love in a relationship, i dont think it's the most important thing in life. I think it's very important, i would like to be in a relationship and be in love. I dont think there's anything i want more than that. However, i find it abit sad when ppl think that they cant be happy without it

 

 

it's all the television's fault.

love is never like it is in the movies. I just find that mannny ppl compromise or are very disappointed by it... and wehn ppl expect love they think it'll be like they always imagined but it never is.

 

im not pesimistic, im just realistic.

So im happy without it..... but it doesnt mean i dont want it

well i guess its different for everyone. but for me life without love isnt life at all.

"All you need is love" :love:

I've never really felt this feeling eventhough sometimes I'm not that far.

 

I don't have any girlfriend, but all the friends who are girls could be my girlfriends.

I should say "I didn't", cos in two weeks, i'll know if I will have one.

 

Although I was used to do that during years, Wait for love isn't a thing to do, act!

Sometimes, Love comes, knocking at your door. And sometimes, you come , knocking at Love' door...

It's so much better when it's unexpected, when Love comes out of nowhere, like an angel.

Sometimes, you don't realize that it's love. And many times I didn't realize that it was love... I missed so much opportunities... I don't wanna miss more...

 

As some coldplaying friends said, everyone can find someone.

you can love with being in a relationship or even liking someone. i just came to this conclusion today when i was walking through the park on the way home. its an inner bliss kinda thing and i beleive when you have inner bliss relationships will come. there is a right person for everyone. :)

I feel the same, it gets very lonely sometimes. I have a ton of friends but I think I need more than that, someone who I really conect with and enjoy spending time with. I often wonder whether I will ever find that person, but I've decided I won't go looking for love and I'll just let it happen..

I feel the same' date=' it gets very lonely sometimes. I have a ton of friends but I think I need more than that, someone who I really conect with and enjoy spending time with. I often wonder whether I will ever find that person, but I've decided I won't go looking for love and I'll just let it happen..[/quote']

 

mike said the exact opposite and i agree with him

sitting around and waiting for the perfect girl to come to u will never work. If u want something u have to go and work for it and get it

 

the problem with me is that i dont seem to meet too many guys i like or seem like there's potential for something more there.

mike said the exact opposite and i agree with him

sitting around and waiting for the perfect girl to come to u will never work. If u want something u have to go and work for it and get it

 

the problem with me is that i dont seem to meet too many guys i like or seem like there's potential for something more there.

 

I see your point, but I don't want it to become my sole (or soul?) purpose in life and become obssesed with it. I will of course make an effort if I meet someone because I've got experience enough now.

 

I'm also still 17 and I have yet to travel and see the world, which I've promised myself I'll do, so I'm sure somewhere in the world there's someone for me.