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The "I got laid off by a total jerk/bitch and would like some consolance" thread


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Because it happens :bigcry:

 

So yus, I got completely laid off by someone I thought I could trust. To make things simple - we're both on the same forum and some guy I like is on same forum. He lives a bit far away and is a bit older than me but anyway

 

Only a few people know about him because naturally I have to keep it quiet to avoid trouble, right? I didn't want the whole community on there knowing about it. It'd be too... well, it'd be the second time I was the outsider, and I was not going to screw my second chance up.

 

So this other dude on the same forum, right, only a year older than me, seemed nice, I knew him well, so I decided well, he's at that stage where I'll be wanting to talk about it to him and stuff. So I told and said not to say a word.

 

Unfortunately we had a bit of a fight. Went our ways for a few months, realised he was only being nice to me because he thought I was hot. Which is annoying as hell when it happens to you a million times a year and that if you had a different face they'd treat you like an ugly fish.

 

I started talking to him again a month or so ago, things had cooled down it seemed... well I thought wrong. The arrogant little bastard told everyone and claims he didn't have to keep quiet about it because of "freedom of speech" and that I don't have a chat log of when I told him so I might be bullshitting him.

 

So now the little shitstirrer's trying to ruin my already quite shoddy rep over there, the whole community is gossiping behind my back about it and I as per usual have to put up with it all.

 

The guy in particular whom I have a liking for has been away for a few days and is to return this weekend, so he'll see the whole thing.

 

I don't know what to bloody do :bigcry: I ruined my rep last time for a silly little thing when I was 12 that I childishly blew out of proportion and it took two years to fix it all. Now this has happened and I feel the odd one out again.

 

I feel like strangling the git and he probably wouldn't have the balls to do it in real life, but now I'm worried sick for when (let's just call guy I like Mister because I'm lazy) the Mister returns because so far he knows and it's been going absolutely fine for two and a half bloody years, but now I might be in deep shit with him.

 

This is not good :worried: I have so many emotions I know XD I'm just really pissed and nervous for when the Mister comes back. And kinda depressed and missing him. But now worried and stuff. I need a hug :bigcry:

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What a bastard!

*Hugs*

 

Don't worry, Mister might see through what has happened. If he's not as shallow as Guy1

 

*hug*

 

Well I wouldn't like him if he was shallow would I? :laugh3:

Now to play the waiting game -____-

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Dont take it the wrong way im not being nasty but honestly i wouldnt care. Its online over a forum with people youll never meet. You get a lot of knobs on the internet just read some of the nasty stuff on youtube people throw all sorts of shit about. Seriously there not going to ever see you or anything etc so its not like its in face to face. people seem to hide on forums etc people can make them selves out to be gods gift when in real life they are complete shit bags. Myself i dont give a monkeys what people on here think of me, im not nasty but people get wrong impressions online. It could be worse if they were your best friends who you saw every day, but there not so shouldnt worry. Failing that ask the mod to delete the posts he has made.

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That really sucks. *hug*

 

I didn't get laid off my I have a manager who is a complete asshole. I got injured at work, and apparently they take these things very seriously.:rolleyes: Which is why they completely fucked up my paper work. Anways...

 

Then I hear from my sister (who works in the same store as me) my manager lifted up this huge wooden crate thing, held it above his head above her, made some strange screaming noise, threw it down, turned to another worker and said "Oh no! I hurt my back!". And it just so happend that my back had gotten injured while I was doing my job.

 

I personally thought it was extermely rude. He's a grown man for fucks sake.

 

 

Obviously different situations, but it starts making me think everyone just thinks I'm trying to take the easy way out and rest. Pretty dumb. Sorry if that doesn't quite fit in here.

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That's nothing....

 

I was dating with this fucking dickhead and i were sleeping together

After our last fuck he told me "well you know...i care about you, but i think you have issues with your own id as a woman...is a lack of something that i dont know"

 

 

WHAT A FUCKING PRICK!!!

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;_____; especially @ mafers

 

Some people have no regard for others these days :angry:

 

 

Shitty stuff man!!!

 

That's funny...one of my best friends calls me "mafers"...and he's the only one :0

 

 

Sooo you're aussie!! awesome...im moving there next year!!! hell yeeaaah!!

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Dont take it the wrong way im not being nasty but honestly i wouldnt care. Its online over a forum with people youll never meet. You get a lot of knobs on the internet just read some of the nasty stuff on youtube people throw all sorts of shit about. Seriously there not going to ever see you or anything etc so its not like its in face to face. people seem to hide on forums etc people can make them selves out to be gods gift when in real life they are complete shit bags. Myself i dont give a monkeys what people on here think of me, im not nasty but people get wrong impressions online. It could be worse if they were your best friends who you saw every day, but there not so shouldnt worry. Failing that ask the mod to delete the posts he has made.

 

I agree with him, it's nothin to worry about mate. it's just online people that don't have lives and the only way they can get a laugh in or two would be to corrupt someone elses life. *hugs* it'll be ok. You always have this place if the other isn't working out for you. I hope you feel better, I remember what that was like when I was on a Paul Bettany forum about 1,000 years ago.

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Have you tried ignoring that particular member so that she/he can't contact you?

 

Or maybe tick the box in your profile next to "You may limit the receipt of private messages to just moderators and those on your buddy list. Other members who attempt to send messages to you will be told that you have disabled private messaging.

Receive Private Messages only from Buddies and Moderators".

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