what if

oooooooooooooh that's right, how can you know it if you don't even tryyyyyyyy

All this fuss over a boy?

 

I will never understand girls

 

:D

sometimes I think I will never understand men

 

Wrong. That sentence only applies to men. Women head are too much complex.

sometimes I think I will never understand men

 

I know you may laugh at me....but if you are in love the world is so different...:dozey:

 

Why would I laugh at you?

Yeah I definitely should keep in touch with him. I mean it's strange that I have the impression that I am the only one towards whom he is acting strangely since some days...we always had a different relationship than the others...I kept acting different towards him than I do towards others because I didn't want to do anything wrong...and well he also kept acting differently towards me than he did towards others...rather shy...like this thing of going out....there was a time that we never asked each other directly...but in the end we went out together with friends and were always the last to go home and really enjoyed being together...

 

 

everything is so strange....we are so close but aren't at the same time...:thinking:

 

I guess that when you say he's acting strange means that he doesn't seem to want to go out/talk to you/etc as much as he used to, so something must have led him to change his behaviour towards you. It could be that girl, who knows? But you'd better know what is *really* happening to him as soon as possible. I don't think he'd have treated you well if he had hidden this from you.

 

I do hope that everything will turn out well in the end, that this is something which is anymore important. But yeah, try to make an appointment with him and TALK. That's what you both need to do.

Wrong. That sentence only applies to men. Women head are too much complex.

 

Way more complex than the workings of the tax credit system.

Thanks Lars, that's so nice of you:)

 

Well, it could be true that he stayed at home, because I guess he was tired as me (he told me on the phone that he also stayed out until 7am) and the weather wasn't as nice as expected....I think if it would have been nicer we would have gone to the Rhine.

 

and I think he would come with me if I invited him....so weather predictions are quite well for sunday....I hope something will happen then...

 

and even if he is dating that girl I hope that he will realise that they just don't fit together and how much he will miss going out with me...mwha...:P

 

but seriously...I think he has realised as well that we didn't spend much together the last week....and maybe he even misses it otherwise he wouldn't have said that we could have gone out yesterday...

 

I agree! If people don't have the same kind of interests the end won't be long. So that's another advantage for you if you'd ask me. :D

 

denk dir was nettes aus is such a GREAT sentence:heart:

 

Mille grazie! :) Didn't know how to say it in English in that moment lol.

You are right iris, I think we have to talk!

 

funny enough that all these things happened when I went home last weekend. I wasn't here so he went out with the Indie gang.

You know what would be fun? If the other girl was in some Indy band forum asking the same thing as you. :P

 

David - i lol'd. Its like what you have learn t is wrong from the begining. Ex: 1+1 is not 2, but 3 lol

btw....I love it how this thread is increasing so fastly...I thank you guys...I really need to talk about this,...

:kiss:

Oh and strange thing:

 

Usually he always asks after a weekend we didn't see each other how my weekend was.....this time he didn't...I guess he didn't want to tell me that he went out with them, because I could be disappointed or something like that...

^^^^:stunned:

we need to analyse that perfectly!:P

what if he had forgotten?:P

 

anyway what's his name?

Way more complex than the workings of the tax credit system.

 

:lol:

You exaggerate !

It's easy to understand a girl . . . . . When you are a girl . . .

Oohh but come on guys ! Men are so weird sometimes !

^^^^:stunned:

we need to analyse that perfectly!:P

what if he had forgotten?:P

 

anyway what's his name?

 

haha yeah it sounds stupid....but seriously he always asks!Always...

 

ah I don't want to tell you his name....not that he googles it and suddenly finds this page..:P

you're very welcome Julia. I feel so sorry for you but you still don't know what's going on to him so don't give up hope! Not til the end! :wings:

 

You've got to think, though, that if he went out with that indie gang was because he wanted to... BUT it doesn't make any sense that he's criticizing that girl and everything she does and then, he ends up going out with her. That would be a real cockup!

lol ok.....so MR.google ...he has ALWAYS asked, u sure?

Oh and strange thing:

 

Usually he always asks after a weekend we didn't see each other how my weekend was.....this time he didn't...I guess he didn't want to tell me that he went out with them, because I could be disappointed or something like that...

 

Hehe now I think you don't do yourself a favour. ;) Don't think about the whole story too much! Just sit down, choose a good song and a cold beer, listen to it (to the song not to the beer lol) and think positive.

think bout the beer!hauptsache you don't think about mister google!

you're very welcome Julia. I feel so sorry for you but you still don't know what's going on to him so don't give up hope! Not til the end! :wings:

 

You've got to think, though, that if he went out with that indie gang was because he wanted to... BUT it doesn't make any sense that he's criticizing that girl and everything she does and then, he ends up going out with her. That would be a real cockup!

 

a friend of mine (who is in hat Indie gang too) told me that they went to the cinema except the both of them who did something else....I know they wanted to drink a beer together one day, because they had a rough discussion when they first met....so they wanted to drink something to be nice to each other again....so nothing bad in that...

 

and i think if he is really interested in her and really starts to go out with them then it's not worth to be sad, because he doesn't seem to be an honest person...I'd just be really disappointed then and be sad that we wouldn't go out that often anymore...

Hehe now I think you don't do yourself a favour. ;) Don't think about the whole story too much! Just sit down, choose a good song and a cold beer, listen to it (to the song not to the beer lol) and think positive.

 

You are right!

 

The problem is that I have good songs but no beer. But maybe a friend of mine will call me later and we will go out for a drink...

a friend of mine (who is in hat Indie gang too) told me that they went to the cinema except the both of them who did something else....I know they wanted to drink a beer together one day, because they had a rough discussion when they first met....so they wanted to drink something to be nice to each other again....so nothing bad in that...

 

and i think if he is really interested in her and really starts to go out with them then it's not worth to be sad, because he doesn't seem to be an honest person...I'd just be really disappointed then and be sad that we wouldn't go out that often anymore...

 

:sick:....

mm... so maybe that appointment they made went better than they expected it to and they realised they had much more in common than what they might have thought at first. I'm just guessing! Anyways, it's not good to keep on thinking about possible conjectures. You'll likely work this out once you talk to him and express how you feel.

 

I get your point. It wouldn't be worth it to be sad but I'm dead sure that you couldn't help to feel this way.

mm... so maybe that appointment they made went better than they expected it to and they realised they had much more in common than what they might have thought at first. I'm just guessing! Anyways, it's not good to keep on thinking about possible conjectures. You'll likely work this out once you talk to him and express how you feel.

 

I get your point. It wouldn't be worth it to be sad but I'm dead sure that you couldn't help to feel this way.

 

Right!But it could also be the other way round!

 

I could laugh out loud when I think about the fact that her favourite club is the one he HATES the most. He really hates it!

when we plan the evening he says "I'll go everywhere but not there."

yeah, it could have been but by what you said it seems that they got on well, otherwise they wouldn't meet over again.

 

now, seriously, when are you going to meet him?