I don't know.

 

I think this weekend. Either tomorrow in the evening or on sunday afternoon. If I don't meet him this weekend I'll be deeply sad.

I don't know.

 

I think this weekend. Either tomorrow in the evening or on sunday afternoon. If I don't meet him this weekend I'll be deeply sad.

 

Do it! Go to the Rhine, go to a club (not her favourite one!), go to a bar or somewhere else! And then I'd ask him discreetly how he spent the last few days. He has to talk! ;)

 

 

 

 

 

"Positive Energy" for you Julia (if it works)! :D

 

I'll do that.

 

 

and thanks for the positive energy...:lol:

I'll do that.

 

 

and thanks for the positive energy...:lol:

 

Don't forget to tell us about it! We're all curious now! :P

So probably this "mystery" will be solved by then! I hope so, for your health's sake! :D

Daniel is a legend!!! :laugh3:

I hope so, too!

 

it's embarrassing enough that I have to tell you that I even couldn't eat much the last two days....:uhoh:

 

and like I've said before I didn't sleep well either....and today after this friend told the other friend what his best-friend said I got quite sad and quiet....so another friend's boyfriend had to ask me what's wrong..

 

 

oh gosh

and I thank you again for talking to me....you know last weekend I probably also lost my best-friend...and she was the one I always talked with about him...ok I did not really loose her

 

 

fuck

 

 

 

ok that's another story...

and I thank you again for talking to me....you know last weekend I probably also lost my best-friend...and she was the one I always talked with about him...ok I did not really loose her

 

 

fuck

 

 

 

ok that's another story...

 

Oh no what happened to you and your best friend?

I expected this to happen to you. This is the sort of things that usually come about when you have a crush on someone.

 

You can't keep on having these doubts, though. You'd better know the truth, even if it's not what you want to hear. But yeah, it's so easy to put myself in your place...all this time you've been creating expectations on him, and honestly, who wouldn't after all the little things he did/said for/to you?

@Lars: Oh well nothing special about. I'm just deeply disappointed about her. There is a big distance between us now.

 

@Iris: Honestly, I also saw this thing coming. Probably it's my own fault. I should have told him what I feel or something like that. I mean I can't expect him to be single forever. My biggest problem is just who he dates in this case. It could have been anybody, but not this bitch who chooses who has the right to go out with them and who not. It is so absurd.

Wait.

 

Are you being honest with yourself?

 

Are you sure that what you don't like about the situation is that he's dating with this girl and not the fact that he's going out with a girl ITSELF? I honestly think you'd be hurt even if he dated with someone you think that was kind. It's just the fact of him not being single and you missing what it could be a good opportunity, too

Yes you are right, actually. It's the fact that my chances will be gone and that we won't spend much time together anymore. Too bad since our interests are quite similar.

@Lars: Oh well nothing special about. I'm just deeply disappointed about her. There is a big distance between us now.

 

Hmmm that doesn't sound good! I'm incredibly sorry for you! :( Hope it's getting better soon! It's not about this boy, is it?

There's still time!!

 

(Putting myself in your place) Look, if things went *really* wrong and I saw no way back to the relationship we had I'd probably tell him my feelings towards him. But I wouldn't wait too much time to do this (and even less if it seems that he's thinking of/starting to date someone else.

No Lars it's not about him. I'm just disappointed because of the way she was acting towards me...

 

Yeah Iris, but as far as I know myself I will let it go like everytime. I'll ask him discretly and I wonder how the conversation will continue

I think it's a good idea to ask him discretly (at first).

 

If he was interested in you he might take advantage of the situation and tell you something else :)

actually I wonder what he will say if I ask him if he is turning into an Indie now....

You'll know it, soon.

 

I suppose that after this question he'll ask you: how come you ask me this?

Probably yes.....I already have the answer:

 

I know you went out with them last weekend which surprises me because you are always talking bad about those people!

This is a good answer.

It'll seem that you just want to know if he has had a change of attitude, and that would be all.

Yes.

 

And I would tell him that I am disappointed about him now....I won't have a problem with that.

PERFECT.

 

I do think that this is the way that someone wise would lead this conversation.

awwwww erm thanks for saying that:blush:

 

disappointed because he doesn't seem to be honest and seems to change his opinion quite fastly...

 

 

 

ahhhhhhh...it's so funny....two hours ago I felt soo bad and now I don't anymore...:wacky:

Oh and that I would be sad if he didn't go out with me anymore because I always enjoyed it,...