I was expecting 16 or so lol. I am sorry to say, but you are in the friend zone.

Does he know that you are interested in him?

 

Is tough to say something without knowing him, 'cause everyone is different. Have you tried to ask him out? Not to the cinema. Some place where you two can talk, maybe a bar by the beach.

 

friend zone:sick:....but it's true...after a while a guy (even girl I am not a feminist;:P) tends to see you just as a friend...AAAAAAAAAAAAAH!

I was expecting 16 or so lol. If that were you age, well i would be saying "teen problems omg". Since you already have some knowledge, I am sorry to say, but you are in the friend zone.

Does he know that you are interested in him?

 

Is tough to say something without knowing him, 'cause everyone is different. Have you tried to ask him out? Not to the cinema. Some place where you two can talk, maybe a bar by the beach.

 

haha thanks:P

 

you have to know that I am not really experienced in those love things....because I never really met a guy who I was really interested in....and I was always too shy..

 

 

so I need many advices....:uhoh:

 

Oh and I asked him out on wednesday evening but he was out with a friend of him....and said we could go out on thursday (yesterday) but this didn't happen because we were both too tired...

shit...there is something that comes to my mind right now...

 

it was his best-friend who told us that they went out for a coffee together and he said if he goes out for a coffee with a woman for no reason then he must really like her (his opinion)...

 

so who was the one who invited me to his house one evening to watch a music magazine?Who was the one who I often went out with alone?

 

arghs....maybe I really had my chance...

 

 

:dozey:....why are we still talking about it?:dozey:

 

 

 

:P:P:P:P

I can't.....fuck it I can't!:bigcry:

 

 

when I think of all these evenings now I could cry....the eve when he told me that he is happy that we go out so often and spend so much time together...on his birthday when he didn't want to let me go and kissed me on the cheek....and all these things...when we were acting like a married couple and he said to a friend of mine "Well we just know that we can rely on each other"....when he said that I am a 20 years old exception....that other 20 years olds are childish....fuck...

 

I have to meet him this weekend....otherwise I'll probably go mad...

 

I'm really sorry to hear this, life can be a real bitch sometimes :(

I don't know much about this guy, but one thing I do know is he probably isn't worth getting upset over, because no matter how great you find him at the moment, you could meet a guy tomorrow who is a million times better.

 

If you don't wanna risk losing him by telling him how you feel, maybe you could wait until the perfect moment arrives, or until you know some more about how he feels. Just slip it in to casual conversation, it sounds like he's interested though :)

 

I hope that made some sort of sense, I'm not much good with this sort of thing though! :(

 

Chin up! :)

haha yeah I had this thought quite often that he is probably not worth it....but argh I'm sooo bad at getting to know men....and dating and all that stuff....although I'm not ugly...(yes I said that I am not self-confident, but currently only in this case, because I think he doesn't find me attractive..)...I know that there must be men out there who find me attractive...many men actually...:uhoh:

haha yeah I had this thought quite often that he is probably not worth it....but argh I'm sooo bad at getting to know men....and dating and all that stuff....although I'm not ugly...(yes I said that I am not self-confident, but currently only in this case, because I think he doesn't find me attractive..)...I know that there must be men out there who find me attractive...many men actually...:uhoh:

 

:wink3::wink3::wink3:

you seeeeeeeeeeeeeee?

 

BUT anyway now we are talking about THAT guy and you have a crush on him and you can't think of anyone else CAN YOU?:sneaky:

 

and about not being self-confidence I have the same problems, though it changes everyday, with the mood....

when you go out with him, I think that you're usually happy and therefore funny and when we're happy we look better and in perfect harmony---------------------------------->therefore he MUST find you attractive!:P

haha thanks:P

 

you have to know that I am not really experienced in those love things....because I never really met a guy who I was really interested in....and I was always too shy..

 

 

so I need many advices....:uhoh:

 

omg, are you my clone or what? lol.

Well, personally i don't like those girls that are the opposite of shy (don't know the word). That is the kind of girl that you only want for something that doesn't last longer than 12hours. Do you two live by the beach? Try asking him out during the day. The night is pretty obvious... this way you can analyze him without telling him that you like him (because of the night 'date').

 

If he shows to like you somehow, well thats something, else, well... better forget him while the other girl is near by lol.

 

How can you analyze him? Nop, there isn't a book with guidelines. You have to learn it by yourself.

 

Also, i think that every boy likes that a girl looks into his eyes, not just for a second, as if you never met and you only wanted to see who was, but for some seconds. Try to get into his 'soul'.

Personally i love when a girl does this to me. Sadly this only occurs once or twice a year (LOL).

 

If he don't appreciate this, either he's gay or is not looking for something other than a night of fun.

 

To be continued :P

omg, are you my clone or what? lol.

Well, personally i don't like those girls that are the opposite of shy (don't know the word). That is the kind of girl that you only want for something that doesn't last longer than 12hours. Do you two live by the beach? Try asking him out during the day. The night is pretty obvious... this way you can analyze him without telling him that you like him (because of the night 'date').

 

If he shows to like you somehow, well thats something, else, well... better forget him while the other girl is near by lol.

 

How can you analyze him? Nop, there isn't a book with guidelines. You have to learn it by yourself.

 

Also, i think that every boy likes that a girl looks into his eyes, not just for a second, as if you never met and you only wanted to see who was, but for some seconds. Try to get into his 'soul'.

Personally i love when a girl does this to me. Sadly this only occurs once or twice a year (LOL).

 

If he don't appreciate this, either he's gay or is not looking for something other than a night of fun.

 

To be continued :P

 

:stunned: wow...he's so much better than me at giving advices!

 

*slowly fades away*

 

 

:P

haha good theory Giuly:P

 

@nmsv: Your clone?

No I don't live near the beach...I live in Germany, at the Rhine....so this weekend the weather should be damn nice, so I'm sure we'll go to the rhine on sunday (I hope...)...and tomorrow there'll be this big event at the Rhine...a big firework...we'll go there and I hope he'll come with us....I have to talk to him...

 

and hey I should try your "Guidelines".....and don't say he is gay...when we go out together he is the one gay people come over to....he's not happy about that haha

haha good theory Giuly:P

 

@nmsv: Your clone?

No I don't live near the beach...I live in Germany, at the Rhine....so this weekend the weather should be damn nice, so I'm sure we'll go to the rhine on sunday (I hope...)...and tomorrow there'll be this big event at the Rhine...a big firework...we'll go there and I hope he'll come with us....I have to talk to him...

 

and hey I should try your "Guidelines".....and don't say he is gay...when we go out together he is the one gay people come over to....he's not happy about that haha

 

lol

 

anyway I looove fireworks...and you know they are damn ROMANTIC, don't u?:sneaky:

 

you could casually take his haaaand ....:rolleyes::P

:stunned: wow...he's so much better than me at giving advices!

 

*slowly fades away*

 

 

:P

 

Don't say that. I am not some Latin man, by FAR!!! I really don't have much experience (hey! in a good way) with girls. Its just what is, somehow, the standard requirements that every girl must do to a guy become interested in her.

 

This said every opinion counts, even if it only counts to lift up her spirit!

No, she'll be there, too!(I think)

Hey nmsv, how old are you and what's your name?

Don't say that. I am not some Latin man, by FAR!!! I really don't have much experience (hey! in a good way) with girls. Its just what is, somehow, the standard requirements that every girl must do to a guy become interested in her.

 

This said every opinion counts, even if it only counts to lift up her spirit!

 

:P thanks...mmm my selfopinion just encreased:P

 

*back to julia*:p

 

who cares even better!she'll see that he IS YOURS:P

The moral of the story is, if you have a crush on someone and they are single, make your move before they get picked up by someone else.

The moral of the story is, if you have a crush on someone and they are single, make your move before they get picked up by someone else.

 

:laugh3::laugh3:

mwha Giuly yes....so suddenly...

 

 

Dave that's the sentence of the day!

 

 

maybe I'm just the idiot....

 

 

but well the more I think of it I realise how absurd it is. Goin out for a coffee....ther eis nothin in it. Really.....he often goes out with girls just as friends....so it could also be the same in my case but as well in the case of this girl....

lol

 

you could casually take his haaaand ....:rolleyes::P

 

I wouldn't recommend that. Maybe some eyes exchange (you understood. i wasn't referring to take your eyes out LOL) and that sort of things.

 

If you take his hand two options:

 

1 - He likes it and you two live happy together with 1 football team of kids

 

2 - You scare him away.

2.1 - He's open to a serious relationship, just don't know you or is not interested in you.

2.2 - He only wants you to an one night stand.

 

Either way, if option two you're likely to become seriously heart breaked!

One night stand?No, he is not a one night stand guy...

You could join the "I'm not fussed about getting into a relationship, because I'm happy being single" club.

 

The early bird catches all the worms

I wouldn't recommend that. Maybe some eyes exchange (you understood. i wasn't referring to take your eyes out LOL) and that sort of things.

 

If you take his hand two options:

 

1 - He likes it and you two live happy together with 1 football team of kids

 

2 - You scare him away.

2.1 - He's open to a serious relationship, just don't know you or is not interested in you.

2.2 - He only wants you to an one night stand.

 

Either way, if option two you're likely to become seriously heart breaked!

 

 

I was really just kidding with the *taking hand thing* :uhoh::uhoh:

Oh I'm not really happy about being single, but on the other hand I wonder why everything in life is always about relationships....it often seems to be like that

I was really just kidding with the *taking hand thing* :uhoh::uhoh:

 

Sorry :P.

 

But those moments are sooooooo cuteeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!

 

btw. Nelson and i'm 21, in two months 22 :/

Sometimes being single is good, you don't have to keep on buying your girlfriend/boyfriend stuff using money you don't really have and you are more independent.

Awww Julia, I'm sooo sorry for you!

 

Hope the whole story isn't true and that you just heard any rumour. You absolutely don't deserve it! Don't mess up your weekend because of that! Ok it's easier to say, but I would wait until Monday and then watch out for any news. If it's really true (what I don't hope for you) then I would directly ask him what's going on...