hello nelson:):p

 

 

anyway I think we can say that Julia has gotten into paranoia for nothing:P

 

...kidding...I would be in your SAME situation:P

Ok ok hi Nelson, I'm Julia:)

 

Oh Dave this is actually right, but currently I rather see the bad things of being single....:\

 

 

Hey lars, thanks so much for saying that.....that's so nice of you. I thought the same, that I should wait. So many guys in my friend-zone have told me that I deserve and nice guy and only good things and all that stuff....I don't know why I am always unlucky...

Meet him this week end and talk about it. But yeah, like a joke maybe . . .

I don't know . . . I think you have here a lot of good advices ;)

hello nelson:):p

 

 

anyway I think we can say that Julia has gotten into paranoia for nothing:P

 

...kidding...I would be in your SAME situation:P

 

hi lol.

 

well, everthing we wrote here its just.. i don't know... common sense? But when we are living those moments we don't really have a plan. It just happens naturally :)

oh, god, this is horrible!

I can imagine how bad you feel (even if I have never gone through this situation). Some time ago I read the posts you made in a thread in which you talked about your relationship with him and it was so damn obvious you had put many expectations on him because he was such an amazing mate and someone with who you got on like a house on fire.

 

If I were you I'd try to do my best to keep in touch with him, don't let this distance that you mentioned to increase. And you should try to talk to him about the fact that he's dating with this other girl. You're good friends, aren't you? So I reckon you should know whether he's with her or not. And if he tried to hide this from you, I suppose it would mean something, right?

Oohh more 2 pages !

All that time to write my message ! :dozey:

Sorry . . .

Giuly you are probably right....maybe I'm really making a big fuss of it.

 

But you know, wednesday night I dreamed of them. I dreamed my thoughts...I felt so bad yesterday because he didn't call me (although he said that we could go out maybe...) and got into paranoia that they are going out while I am at home thinking of him....and then suddenly in the evening he called me to ask me some stuff for uni and he said he was at his best-friend's house...so i was happy again.

 

but today somebody asked hm what he did yesterday...he said he stayed at home all day long but for some reason I can't believe this...and then this afternoon another friend asekd my best friend here (who is the girlfriend of his best-friend) if his best-friend knows something about them....so she told us what he said (as I told you before...) and since I heard this I feel bad again although there is probably no reason

Seriously heart breaked, you will become. Then there, suffered that.

Giuly you are probably right....maybe I'm really making a big fuss of it.

 

But you know, wednesday night I dreamed of them. I dreamed my thoughts...I felt so bad yesterday because he didn't call me (although he said that we could go out maybe...) and got into paranoia that they are going out while I am at home thinking of him....and then suddenly in the evening he called me to ask me some stuff for uni and he said he was at his best-friend's house...so i was happy again.

 

but today somebody asked hm what he did yesterday...he said he stayed at home all day long but for some reason I can't believe this...and then this afternoon another friend asekd my best friend here (who is the girlfriend of his best-friend) if his best-friend knows something about them....so she told us what he said (as I told you before...) and since I heard this I feel bad again although there is probably no reason

 

<aaaaw:kiss:....really try to think about something else!...TRY...though it's too hard...all you can do now is wait...the more you think about it the more you will find new suppositions that are really unuseful cause he probably has JUST drunk a coffee with her cause he had to _since there was another friend of him there, not?_ and he didn't called you immediately cause he was busy for uni and called you just a little later!

 

******think positive!*;)

oh, god, this is horrible!

I can imagine how bad you feel (even if I have never gone through this situation). Some time ago I read the posts you made in a thread in which you talked about your relationship with him and it was so damn obvious you had put many expectations on him because he was such an amazing mate and someone with who you got on like a house on fire.

 

If I were you I'd try to do my best to keep in touch with him, don't let this distance that you mentioned to increase. And you should try to talk to him about the fact that he's dating with this other girl. You're good friends, aren't you? So I reckon you should know whether he's with her or not. And if he tried to hide this from you, I suppose it would mean something, right?

 

Yeah I definitely should keep in touch with him. I mean it's strange that I have the impression that I am the only one towards whom he is acting strangely since some days...we always had a different relationship than the others...I kept acting different towards him than I do towards others because I didn't want to do anything wrong...and well he also kept acting differently towards me than he did towards others...rather shy...like this thing of going out....there was a time that we never asked each other directly...but in the end we went out together with friends and were always the last to go home and really enjoyed being together...

 

 

everything is so strange....we are so close but aren't at the same time...:thinking:

<aaaaw:kiss:....really try to think about something else!...TRY...though it's too hard...all you can do now is wait...the more you think about it the more you will find new suppositions that are really unuseful cause he probably has JUST drunk a coffee with her cause he had to _since there was another friend of him there, not?_ and he didn't called you immediately cause he was busy for uni and called you just a little later!

 

******think positive!*;)

 

I agree . . .

Try to don't think about it and wait to see him

Yeah I definitely should keep in touch with him. I mean it's strange that I have the impression that I am the only one towards whom he is acting strangely since some days...we always had a different relationship than the others...I kept acting different towards him than I do towards others because I didn't want to do anything wrong...and well he also kept acting differently towards me than he did towards others...rather shy...like this thing of going out....there was a time that we never asked each other directly...but in the end we went out together with friends and were always the last to go home and really enjoyed being together...

 

 

everything is so strange....we are so close but aren't at the same time...:thinking:

 

mmmmm:thinking::thinking:

Maybe you are right

 

 

I will listen to "Everything in its right place" by Radiohead now...

 

 

(how appropriate...)

Or everything's not lost:P

Radiohead & Coldplay. They can honestly get you through anything, no matter how tough!

Or "There there" with the lyrics

 

 

"Just cause you feel it, doesn't mean it's there!"

You're welcome Julia! :)

 

I have to admit that sometimes I read a few of your threads about your new love and I was so happy for you. Hope it won't end now.

 

But... yesterday has been a public holiday and "father day", too. So I don't think he stayed at home the whole day. :( That doesn't make any sence if you ask me.

 

But well I think you shouldn't think about it too much although it's easier to say than it actually is. It's not worth it! Perhaps you might ask him to go to the ice-cream parlour this weekend or somewhere else! Weather forecasts are very good so he will either accept your invitation or not. I think that is the best solution otherwise you will just think about it the whole weekend while doing nothing and becoming crazy.

 

Denk dir was nettes aus! :)

Courage . . .

have you seen the video of "nude" by radiohead...pure :heart:

 

You're welcome Julia! :)

 

I have to admit that sometimes I read a few of your threads about your new love and I was so happy for you. Hope it won't end now.

 

But... yesterday has been a public holiday and "father day", too. So I don't think he stayed at home the whole day. :( That doesn't make any sence if you ask me.

 

But well I think you shouldn't think about it too much although it's easier to say than it actually is. It's not worth it! Perhaps you might ask him to go to the ice-cream parlour this weekend or somewhere else! Weather forecasts are very good so he will either accept your invitation or not. I think that is the best solution otherwise you will just think about it the whole weekend while doing nothing and becoming crazy.

 

Denk dir was nettes aus! :)

 

Thanks Lars, that's so nice of you:)

 

Well, it could be true that he stayed at home, because I guess he was tired as me (he told me on the phone that he also stayed out until 7am) and the weather wasn't as nice as expected....I think if it would have been nicer we would have gone to the Rhine.

 

and I think he would come with me if I invited him....so weather predictions are quite well for sunday....I hope something will happen then...

 

and even if he is dating that girl I hope that he will realise that they just don't fit together and how much he will miss going out with me...mwha...:P

 

but seriously...I think he has realised as well that we didn't spend much together the last week....and maybe he even misses it otherwise he wouldn't have said that we could have gone out yesterday...

All this fuss over a boy?

 

I will never understand girls

denk dir was nettes aus is such a GREAT sentence:heart:

All this fuss over a boy?

 

I will never understand girls

 

tsk.....:dozey:

 

 

:P

Thanks Lars, that's so nice of you:)

 

Well, it could be true that he stayed at home, because I guess he was tired as me (he told me on the phone that he also stayed out until 7am) and the weather wasn't as nice as expected....I think if it would have been nicer we would have gone to the Rhine.

 

and I think he would come with me if I invited him....so weather predictions are quite well for sunday....I hope something will happen then...

 

and even if he is dating that girl I hope that he will realise that they just don't fit together and how much he will miss going out with me...mwha...:P

 

but seriously...I think he has realised as well that we didn't spend much together the last week....and maybe he even misses it otherwise he wouldn't have said that we could have gone out yesterday...

Coldplay - Fix You

 

"(...)

But if you never try you never know

(...)"

All this fuss over a boy?

 

I will never understand girls

 

sometimes I think I will never understand men

 

I know you may laugh at me....but if you are in love the world is so different...:dozey: