I'm happy to hear that, srly! :nice:

 

You see? Things can change in so little time and you've already got an example of that: yourself.

 

You should try to keep on feeling this way, so when you meet him you'll be more relaxed when shaking off your feelings.

So true!

 

 

I should definitely try that.....not thinking that much of it. I only need distraction.

Distraction, exactly.

 

And let things happen.

 

And if in the end he isn't what you expected him to be, it's always better to know it sooner (when you still don't have a "serious" relationship, I mean that you two are not going out) than later.

This is exactly what I think.

 

Maybe I would even be happy that things didn't go that far, because he doesn't seem to be honest...although I'd also be quite sad, because I've never met someone like him before.....

We're making conjectures, tho.

 

So let's give him a chance to explain himself and then judge if he has really been honest with you or not.

Sure I'll do that.

 

I really wonder how it will continue.

 

maybe I won't even talk to him this weekend, because I won't find the right moment..

 

 

however, I'll go to bed now I stayed out until 7am wednesday night....so I'm still quite tired...:P

 

Thank you so much guys....:kiss:

 

goodnight

Nighty night.

 

You need to get some rest! :kiss:

ahhhhhhhh I talked about it to a friend of mine (not that I have feelings for him but how disappointed I am...she is as well).....and fuck she told me that she was actually sure that me and him would marry one day, because we fit together perfectly...:bigcry:

Aww julia, that sucks monkey balls but hope you're feeling much better now :kiss: I guess things happen for a reason and some other things just aren't meant to be but i feel ya :(

awwwwwww thankies Ren:kiss:

 

well I've talked to him yesterday....we've sorted it out as real friends....and I'm happy now (oh and btw this girl and him definitely do not fit together...):D

 

So if he goes out with them he takes me with him...he would always take me with him...

awwwww erm thanks for saying that:blush:

 

disappointed because he doesn't seem to be honest and seems to change his opinion quite fastly...

 

Well I think you shouldn't worry too much about this, people tend to change their minds so easy, specially when involved in love, power affairs... :wacky:

 

I think it's not good you go and "reproach" him for that, I guess what you can do is show him how you feel upset about it, not necessarily telling him, maybe only with your attitude, or you can make him the confession that you really liked him-

 

And of course this is my humble oppinion. :)

That's really good news, Jules!

 

I'm happy for you :nice:

Yeah and I'm not happy anymore, NOT AT ALL! I'm crying. I went out with him and the Indie kids today and now I'm actually sure that he wants her.

 

I realised one thing: he is just a man! They don't have much in common. She is childish and stupid (I don't say that because I'm jealous or something, it's true). But well she looks nice. I don't get this world sometimes. All those intelligent and special women I know are single. Pretty strange.

 

However.....it's not just this thing, it's much more than this. I mean we usually we a clique of 5 people who went out together and we had the best evenings. I always loved it. So now that he is going out with those indie kids (well he takes me with me) it is not like it was before. They are nice, but they are soooo different t the people in our clique. Another thing is that they don't like my best-friend here. So I am torn, as well.

 

 

arghs....

 

 

My life just sucks sometimes

Juls!!

 

How is it going with him? Have you got any news or something?

Sorry, maybe I'm being way too curious but I've always been that way.

well, i think it's cool not to stick to just one group of people... it's cool to meet different personalities... i mean, just because those "indie kids" are maybe different from the way you are, doesn't automatically mean you won't get along with them ;)

oooh not much happened the last weeks....this week was a week of holidays, so everybody went home.

 

well, he went out a lot with them......I don't have a problem with that actually, it's just the fact that currently I seriously miss those times when we went out...it was always so much fun....

 

 

that's the only thing that makes me a bit sad currently...

 

to be honest I thought about all this too much...we'll see what time brings..

 

@Sarah: I get along with them and I don't have a problem with going out with new people....but they are too different from me...I don't really know what I should talk with them...

Oh, I see but I understand that you miss the "intimacy" that you used to have with him when it was the two of you the one who went partying.

 

But yeah, time will "settle things down".

ha this may be one thing I miss yes....but I do also miss those saturday evenings when we went out with 5 or 6 people...damn this was fun....but currently we don't do that anymore....ah it's too complicated to explain..