Do you need a lot of time on your own (like listening to music or making music and not seeing your friends or your love everyday)?

 

Or

 

do you feel the need to see your friends or loved one as much as you can?

 

I am definitely the first....I am not sure if it will change one day, but currently I do not really mind if I don't see a friend for a week or so....

No, I don't feel like that for anyone.

Im a mix, depends on what mood I'm in. Lately Ive been the first, only see friends a few times a week for like the past month.

 

But at times I'll need to be doing something like all the time, if Im not working I'll need to be with people and doing something, I dont know why. Oddly it can be like that if Im in a relationship, because spending too much time with one person can get suffocating.

i like to be with friends. more often than not. but can be quite content with the first as well.

Depends on the day... Sometimes, I just wanna be away from everyone, in my zone (room) sleeping, or listening to music. I hate people on those days....

On other days, I have the deepest need for my friends and I basically go crazy because if I don't see them...

I definately need my own space. I get very ratty if I'm constantly around people.

I easily slot in the first group at the moment,

it's christmas and i'm down in my room listening to music.

and i'm not much better on other days.

 

 

But i get bored of that very quickly too.

haha right after I posted this thread I started thinking about it again. Reilly mentioned work and I think if I didn't go to work everyday it probably be totally different...I think I'd love to see my friends more often then...

 

anyways the main problem is that some friends (esp. the close one) don't seem to be like that which makes me feel awkward since they reproach me for the fatc that I never call them and stuff....it's not that I want to be mean to them....but I always had that problem, probably because I never had the impression that my friends REALLY cared for me

 

currently someone reproaches me for so many things (esp. for this behaviour which doesn't make things better of course) and I am just sick of it since the person doesn't really seem to care what bothers me argh...

 

 

and strange....my family can be around me everyday and I am happy with it...

It depends on the day and my blood alcohol level.

It depends on the day and my blood alcohol level.

 

blood alcohol level? What do you mean? It just confuses me....probably because I only drink alcohol when I am with other people

Tequila never hurts anyone.

blood alcohol level? What do you mean? It just confuses me....probably because I only drink alcohol when I am with other people

 

How drunk I am. I like to be around people more when I drink. I also like to sing a lot then.

It really depends if I have something set on my mind, like for example if I want to paint something or work on something around the house then I really need to be alone and away from distractions,

but if I just feel bored or tired of doing work then I want to be around other people.

I think being drunk when you are alone is quite boring. I never got drunk while being alone, but I guess it would depress me quite a lot

Right now I'm feeling goooood

anyways the main problem is that some friends (esp. the close one) don't seem to be like that which makes me feel awkward since they reproach me for the fatc that I never call them and stuff....it's not that I want to be mean to them....but I always had that problem, probably because I never had the impression that my friends REALLY cared for me

 

I do this, and unfortunately have lost some good friends simply because I go through habits of not contacting people or at worst, not getting back to them if theyve contacted me. I have thought and sometimes still think that certain people didnt really care for me, the few times Ive talked about this with those people it turned out to not be the case, and normally I felt like a tool because they pointed out how much theyve contacted me in comparison with vice-versa. Its weird but I guess you dont realise over long periods of time when you dont get in touch with people.

I do this, and unfortunately have lost some good friends simply because I go through habits of not contacting people or at worst, not getting back to them if theyve contacted me. I have thought and sometimes still think that certain people didnt really care for me, the few times Ive talked about this with those people it turned out to not be the case, and normally I felt like a tool because they pointed out how much theyve contacted me in comparison with vice-versa. Its weird but I guess you dont realise over long periods of time when you dont get in touch with people.

 

Ha this. I think this is exactly my problem. There might only be one person who I contact regularly...I know a lot of people where I live and I do actually know if I'd contact them more often I could be closer to them....but I don't do it...so we only see each other on parties...

 

it happened with my good friends after I moved out and wiit some other people, too....and currently I feel it happening with my best-friend as well...she is sick of contacting me all the time which makes me feel (just like you said) like a tool....I seem to be the egoistic one in the first place, but after all she might be the egoist...esp. since I am sick of contacting her, because she never really replies...and she gets crazy when I don't reply within minutes...

 

I am sorry of talking too much about it but it really bothers me these days and I am so sick of it...and angry

I enjoy my loneliness a lot, as long as I know that I have someone I know I can see anytime.

But I'm like that, I tend to spend too much time alone, doing stuff for myself.

LOLWAT.

Even my family members complain sometimes.

haha I can spend so much time with my family and I do not get sick of them...probably because I can talk to them about everything

I can't talk to them about anything. Specially my mom, she's not as open minded as I thought.

I'm doomed.

I can't talk to them about anything. Specially my mom, she's not as open minded as I thought.

I'm doomed.

You can talk to me. :shy:

 

For $100 an hour, I'm an amateur shrink. :cool:

You can talk to me. :shy:

 

For $100 an hour, I'm an amateur shrink. :cool:

 

LOLWAT, I tried going with a shrink once, couldn't talk :nice:

I could pretty much go through life happily without seeing anybody else.

my mum knows so much more about me than my best friend does...probably because I am sure that I can trust her and because she really cares

LOLWAT, I tried going with a shrink once, couldn't talk :nice:

You should have sung your problems then.

 

I could pretty much go through life happily without seeing anybody else.

No surprises.