I could pretty much go through life happily without seeing anybody else.

 

I never would have guessed. :whistle:

 

I suppose it depends, right now I feel the same way. But after a lot of isolation, if I can't find interesting things to do, I want to see people again.

oh and recently I've been realising hat life could be so much better when you get to see people more often you are not sick of....just to have some fun

oh and recently I've been realising hat life could be so much better when you get to see people more often you are not sick of....just to have some fun

 

What if don't have anyone?

How did I guess that would be the reaction from everyone? :P

 

But I'm totally like, trying to have a social life and stuff...I actually have plans for New Years Eve which might not suck. woo.

I think that's the worst thing...:\

I think being drunk when you are alone is quite boring. I never got drunk while being alone, but I guess it would depress me quite a lot

Yes :shrug:

Getting drunk alone is quite sad ...

 

I think you need both, I couldn't live without seeing my friends or family everyday, but of course everyone needs to be alone sometimes !

I prefer spending time with my friends most of the time. I don't mind spending some time on my own but I find it important to have people around me that I can talk to. I actually feel quite sad right now because I'm in a different country than my partner and most of my friends. I'm only here for a few days but I just can't help it.

Getting drunk alone is quite sad ...

 

Yes it is, I would never do that, not even right now....

i like to be lonely, but sometimes i need to see my friends...

and when we come together, we seem to be drunk, even we havent drink anything :confused:

It depends on how I'm feeling :dozey: but I love being with my friends :heart:

I like to keep to myself.

Ah, i think my post didn't show up. But anyway, i seem to be more of a loner these days..

178 cm tall, weight 68 kg, dark hair, glasses

j/k

first option usually. I need a lot of space and to enjoy myself but some hours Per. Day with friends and family do not harm anyone.

I think for people who spend a lot of time online on message boards (this goes for me to), there's a good chance that they like to keep to themselves for the most part.

 

I'm not a social butterfly, but I make much more of an initiative to hang out with people than I did in the past. Still, I think I'm always going to be this socially awkward girl and I get freaked out whenever I'm with too many people for too long and, at the end of the day, would rather just chill by myself for a while.

I'm like a cat- 10% of the time I really need attention. About 20% of the time I really really need to be alone. The other 70% of the time I don't care at all. Being around people is wonderful, and I'm perfectly happy on my own too.

I'm more of independent. I can pretty much entertain myself. But, when I need other people around (which is maybe 7 or 8% of the time) I always can count on them to be there.

I'm like a cat- 10% of the time I really need attention. About 20% of the time I really really need to be alone. The other 70% of the time I don't care at all. Being around people is wonderful, and I'm perfectly happy on my own too.

 

same here...

privacy is important for me. if i feel as if i told too much, my privacy bars just come up all around me and then i have to go to my room and keep my secrets safe, and lock it up.

 

sometimes going out, hanging around people, can be rather tiring. you have to smile, put on a show, be polite, laugh along, talk with the flow, etc etc, it can be tiring.

 

going out is fine for me, but it can be a dread. however, there should be a balance. :\

Depends on the day... Sometimes, I just wanna be away from everyone, in my zone (room) sleeping, or listening to music. I hate people on those days....

On other days, I have the deepest need for my friends and I basically go crazy because if I don't see them...

 

im pretty much the same way

i like being w/ friends, but i usually like to have my own space, so i'd say i'm option #1

People who spend a lot or even most of their time alone always claim they are happiest that way, I dont believe them. The more time you spend alone, the more time you want to spend alone, you get into this routine of not really having to think, nobody else is around so you can just do whatever you want on your own terms. So then when it comes to having company, you feel hassled because you dont have complete control anymore.

 

I dont think its healthy.

unfortunately have lost some good friends simply because I go through habits of not contacting people or at worst, not getting back to them if theyve contacted me

 

this

 

I get freaked out whenever I'm with too many people for too long

 

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I prefer to be alone and I rarely reconnect with people. If I already have to spend time with a group of people, at school it's okay, but at most other places I usually stay silent.

I'm definitely the first case. I love being around people - the best is a good balance between bf and friends. But if I don't get to see them often, I happen to feel frustrated. If I have too much leisure time / on my own I just end up thinking of all my probs and feeling sad.

I'm definitely the first case. I love being around people - the best is a good balance between bf and friends. But if I don't get to see them often, I happen to feel frustrated. If I have too much leisure time / on my own I just end up thinking of all my probs and feeling sad.

 

I'm the same. I think that's why I feel a bit sad and lonely right now. I don't get to see my friends (apart from my best friend) every day. I'm ok with it when I'm busy but now that I've got nothing to do it really gets to me.

 

Good to see you back btw

I'm mostly the first, but sometimes the second option, too.