Blakexy1125 Posted March 22, 2012 Share Posted March 22, 2012 So, theres this party coming up on this weekend and my girlfriend wanted me to go so she can watch me get drunk, but im uncomfortable about doing that since i dont like the type of crowd thats gonna be there (Drunk Rednecks, which im not.) so i said i didnt want to go but ill go if shes still going just to watch out for her, she wont be going. now she's telling me that i cant go because ill be too protective. And now we are fighting because i dont want her to go to a party with a bunch of drunk guys, and shes saying that im being too protective, annoying, and untrusting... So what should i do about this :shame: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kiame Posted March 22, 2012 Share Posted March 22, 2012 If I were you, I think the best option is to just apologise for coming across as controlling - say you were just worried about her and stand by her decision to go. If she wants to go, she will go anyway and if she can't be trusted to go to a party by herself for a night then it's better off knowing now than later. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brent Posted March 22, 2012 Share Posted March 22, 2012 You probably shouldn't be drinking :| Aren't you like 16 or something? EDIT: 17 just checked your thing Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Mad Hatter Posted March 22, 2012 Share Posted March 22, 2012 Don't go. She doesn't need protection. She can make her own decisions. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blakexy1125 Posted March 22, 2012 Author Share Posted March 22, 2012 You probably shouldn't be drinking :| Aren't you like 16 or something? EDIT: 17 just checked your thing Yeah im not gonna drinking. Ive tried it before and i personally think its over hyped But the only thing i can do is let her do what she wants and If she does anything bad that i wouldnt want her to do i told her to break up with me the day after. So oh well if she ruins our relationship theres plenty of other fish in the sea and ill end up fine. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Mad Hatter Posted March 22, 2012 Share Posted March 22, 2012 Exactly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i'maveryneatMonster.' Posted March 22, 2012 Share Posted March 22, 2012 But the only thing i can do is let her do what she wants and If she does anything bad that i wouldnt want her to do i told her to break up with me the day after. lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brent Posted March 22, 2012 Share Posted March 22, 2012 You sound like a misogynist Blake. :angry: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Mad Hatter Posted March 22, 2012 Share Posted March 22, 2012 You sound like a misogynist Blake. :angry: :smug: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brent Posted March 22, 2012 Share Posted March 22, 2012 Huh Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Mad Hatter Posted March 22, 2012 Share Posted March 22, 2012 i honestly don't know or remember Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brent Posted March 22, 2012 Share Posted March 22, 2012 Oh Kewllll Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Mad Hatter Posted March 22, 2012 Share Posted March 22, 2012 ugh i ruin everything Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brent Posted March 22, 2012 Share Posted March 22, 2012 No Emily You enhance everything Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blakexy1125 Posted March 22, 2012 Author Share Posted March 22, 2012 You sound like a misogynist Blake. :angry: Its not really like that, This is kinda one of those build up things... On her fb she takes pictures with all these guys and shell tell me how cute some of them are and all that, and she doesnt understand why i would get upset about something like that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kiame Posted March 22, 2012 Share Posted March 22, 2012 On her fb she takes pictures with all these guys and shell tell me how cute some of them are and all that, and she doesnt understand why i would get upset about something like that. If she really does that, then she's a total dick. End of story. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brent Posted March 22, 2012 Share Posted March 22, 2012 If she really does that, then she's a total dick. End of story. You are what you eat I guess :shrug: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Mad Hatter Posted March 22, 2012 Share Posted March 22, 2012 Its not really like that, This is kinda one of those build up things... On her fb she takes pictures with all these guys and shell tell me how cute some of them are and all that, and she doesnt understand why i would get upset about something like that. See, that's the info we need~ if you're having one of those back and forth type of things, where things get big and build up, first try to explain all of this to her. get it through to her head. "this action hurts me, because i have feelings." i mean, a lot of times it's simply the communication of feelings that is the major problem. here comes the obligatory relationship story~ i get into fights all the time with my boyfriend because we are both really shit at talking about what bothers us, so it all builds up and there's a huge explosive fight about something that is actually very trivial. but if she doesn't change that behavior, she's just kind of bitchy, to be honest. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cobalt Posted March 22, 2012 Share Posted March 22, 2012 You are what you eat I guess :shrug: :') nice call haha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Empily Posted March 22, 2012 Share Posted March 22, 2012 On her fb she takes pictures with all these guys and shell tell me how cute some of them are and all that, and she doesnt understand why i would get upset about something like that. I think someone would only say that to their bf to cause a reaction. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Empily Posted March 22, 2012 Share Posted March 22, 2012 i told her to break up with me the day after. what the hell? She does something wrong YOU break up with her. Not the other way around. So oh well if she ruins our relationship theres plenty of other fish in the sea and ill end up fine. now I'm not sure whether you actually like her or not now that you've said that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crests Posted March 22, 2012 Share Posted March 22, 2012 Sounds like it was a pretty shitty relationship to begin with. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reilly Posted March 22, 2012 Share Posted March 22, 2012 But the only thing i can do is let her do what she wants and If she does anything bad that i wouldnt want her to do i told her to break up with me the day after. This sounds like if Butters from South Park had a girlfriend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blakexy1125 Posted March 22, 2012 Author Share Posted March 22, 2012 now I'm not sure whether you actually like her or not now that you've said that. I care about her a lot but i dont want to get hurt obviously so im trying to stay positive, but ill just wait till saturday night and see what happens. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brent Posted March 22, 2012 Share Posted March 22, 2012 This sounds like if Butters from South Park had a girlfriend. Butts <3 EDIT: Butters******** WTF autocorrect Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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