February 24, 20188 yr At my local restaurant there is a girl that I like. I have been a few times with family etc. I saw her on Facebook and she was single. I am due to go back there with work possibly Shall I add her and chat to her or wait till I possibly see her again? Any thoughts. Thanks.
February 24, 20188 yr Glad you trust this community Im not an expert but the first impression is important. If i were you i would wait and do a nice impression. But dont wait too much, don't drag it "Not gonna leave it until its much too late" [emoji6]
February 24, 20188 yr But its up to you to decide, meeting online can also work out, but im just saying that if i were in your position i would wait
February 24, 20188 yr Well how long would it take approximately until you have the chance to see her again ?
February 24, 20188 yr Author Well how long would it take approximately until you have the chance to see her again ? Awhile. 2/3 months plus. That’s is she working that night / day
February 24, 20188 yr Awhile. 2/3 months plus. That’s is she working that night / dayWhat if you go there just to talk to her? Its too risky to wait that much
February 24, 20188 yr Author What if you go there just to talk to her? Its too risky to wait that much Or add her on Facebook to talk and arrange
February 24, 20188 yr That's indeed quite long to wait. I second Gsilva's suggestion of somehow trying to make a meeting happen earlier. But I wouldn't just add her on Facebook (unless you already know her reasonably well and have talked to her). I can only say of my own personal experience that random adds/chat attempts come across as quite stalkerish. I'm no longer on Facebook but when I was I always ignored strangers trying to add me or chat with me.
February 24, 20188 yr Author That's indeed quite long to wait. I second Gsilva's suggestion of somehow trying to make a meeting happen earlier. But I wouldn't just add her on Facebook (unless you already know her reasonably well and have talked to her). I can only say of my own personal experience that random adds/chat attempts come across as quite stalkerish. I'm no longer on Facebook but when I was I always ignored strangers trying to add me or chat with me. She’s already found us on Facebook. When we gave her a tip. Isn’t that what facebooks for
February 24, 20188 yr She’s already found us on Facebook. When we gave her a tip. Isn’t that what facebooks forOh, in that case if she friended you in facebook, your chances of succeding by adressing to her online are better
February 24, 20188 yr Author She didn’t add me. I didn’t want to bore you with details so that you get a understanding I will. We gave her a tip first visit. She went home and told her mum a nice family tipper her la la la etc and had a look in fb like we all do. He mum actually knows my dad.
February 24, 20188 yr She didn’t add me. I didn’t want to bore you with details so that you get a understanding I will. We gave her a tip first visit. She went home and told her mum a nice family tipper her la la la etc and had a look in fb like we all do. He mum actually knows my dad. If your families know each other, it's indeed less weird if you try adding her on FB. I originally thought there was no connection between the two of you. How do you know she looked at your FB wall, though ? :D
February 24, 20188 yr Author There No connection. Merely my dad and her mum know each other through there work. She searched with her mum. Her mum told my dad
February 24, 20188 yr if you know each other a bit, or your families know each other, its a pretty simple operation. if she works in a restaurant, could you pop in by yourself while she is working? for coffee? make sure you tip her well, and talk to her if you have the chance. personal attention means everything in food service. and she will notice you if you are nice to her at her job. :)
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