ummm...an intervention here! :idea2: :lol:

 

i never took psychology ever in all my studies...but i've browsed thru such books, and actually, whether you believe it or not, trans-sexuals and homosexuals may be born with 'it', and some end up hiding it and even get married and have kids 'cuz they don't have to face up to their sexual reality.

 

i don't really know whether it is a choice or it's in-born. and even if it is a choice, then whether it is hardly a choice at all or more like the hard-wiring of their brains to be attracted to fellow men (or fellow women)...

 

i dunno :/

:D :P

i like your new crunchier avatar! :sneaky: :lol: :lol:

 

uh, thanks.... but, um... crunchier?

yeah...'avatar' in general sense means 'new life' 'reincarnation of oneself'...of the new twix bar with crunchier cookie is pretty cool! :cool:

i have to play this crappy song by something leif

you had him in your avatar the first time i got on here twix

or light foot

thats it

carefree highway

 

 

ummm...an intervention here!

 

i never took psychology ever in all my studies...but i've browsed thru such books, and actually, whether you believe it or not, trans-sexuals and homosexuals may be born with 'it', and some end up hiding it and even get married and have kids 'cuz they don't have to face up to their sexual reality.

 

i don't really know whether it is a choice or it's in-born. and even if it is a choice, then whether it is hardly a choice at all or more like the hard-wiring of their brains to be attracted to fellow men (or fellow women)...

 

i dunno

 

Yeah, my dad had a friend like that, and he finally realized it and went through a state of depression and got divorced, but still sees his kids a lot and talks to his wife. Poor guy.

I tend to think whether there is a biological basis for homosexuality doesn't matter. If somebody choses to be a homosexual, bisexual or heterosexual it doesn't affect my life. Since it doesn't affect my life attempts on my part to hinder their ability to execute their choice seems inappropriate. If they were coming into my church demanding to be wed that's one thing. The church could bar them. But the country isn't a church.

Yes, I know that my statement had nothing to do with the intent of this thread. I was just giving my opinion in general.

But seeing that some people get married just to have a greencard, I can see that it shouldn't matter if homosexuals get married in court.

 

Oh, no Richard's going to ream me now..

Why do you think I'm going to ream you? :(

Gaby hurts Richard. :(

 

:D

:(

...

not really.

 

You like to argue. :D

But I agree with you.

Oh, Gaby ... you know which buttons to hit. :P

:cool: That's good. ;)

Still have to figure out what other buttons you have....

You'll find out eventually. Don't worry.

I'll probably end up telling you in time.

I don't really see you being able to find any.

Not being able to find any? You don't get angry/hurt much?

Not really, but what I was hinting at the fact that you're personality is such that I think you're too nice and kind to really push my buttons.

Ahhh.. okay, then you just wait and see. ;)

No, Gaby! Don't try!

 

Please :embarrased:

Whatever to the :embarrased:

You're such a good faker. :confused:

No, I'm serious.

I don't like the idea of you trying to press my buttons.

:cool:

 

Why? Less control?

:P :sneaky:

Or it'll ruin my nice image?

More the latter, but that doesn't quite hit on it because I know you wouldn't be approaching it with the intent to hurt me. I guess I don't like the idea of me potentially having a reason to think anybody but the best of you.

 

Boy ... that's a pressure-filled statement, huh? Well, it's not as lofty as it sounds, but if you started playing with me trying to press my buttons I'd probably be disappointed.

Well, I guess I don't know many of them yet, so you don't have to worry. :P

And I'm not into trying to get you pissed off anyways. I'm not into trying to get anyone on this board pissed off.

 

Thanks for the high expectations.

Those high expectations are your fault.

 

We were talking about weaknesses - That's another one of mine: I tend to think too highly or people and expect to much of them. This leads to me being hard on them when they feel to live up to high expectations.

 

Oh, boy. I should delete that.

I don't think you should delete it. :cool:

I pretty much have no expectations of people. That way I'll never be dissapointed. That can be a bad thing too I think.

Yeah ... that's probably why you tolerate me.

 

But I guess, ideally, people's expectation levels would be somewhere between yours and mine.

where is mine?