Are you a good judge of people when you havent known them for so long?

 

Y'know, when you meet someone, do you get an instant feel of who they are and the main points of their personaly?

 

I usually do, and I'd like to think I'm an excellent judge of character because I see people in scarily close detail from the moment I meet them, and when I get to know them better and better, I see how right I was for thinking it.

 

There are the odd surprises though, one girl for example I thought was this snobby and stuck up bitch who ignored me, but she must have been quiet because now shes always hugging me and texting me and is a great friend (As well as an inspiration for this thread). It's kinda hard to imagine her as I originally did, weird.

I am an excellent judge of character...almost 100% right all the time. And that isn't bragging. Why would I brag about it anyway? :rolleyes: I just get a weird feeling about people sometimes like there is more (or less) to them than they try to come off like.

 

Also, I can spot a pervert a mile away. Hahaha!

Hahaha! Perverts are always easy to spot though, you can just see it in their eyes.

 

But one guy who surprised me is the chef at my university canteen, seemed like a nice guy, quiet guy. And one night I met him on a night out and he was slagging himself over EVERY girl there, just looking desperate for absolutely anything to come his way. Total perv.

Yeah, you can't let the nice-guy facade fool you. They're all nice until they have you in the bathroom of a seedy bar. :sneaky:

Hahaha, its true.

I'm pretty shocking

eheheh!!!!!!! as a matter of fact, judging people is a quality I have... sometimes I hate myself for that...

 

it happen a couple of times with me already and i don't like being right about this stuff... honestly!!!

 

my best friend everytime she has a new boyfriend she calls me and tells me I have to meet him... to tell her if he's the right one...

im pretty good at judging character as well its just this feeling you get by the way that they conduct themselves when you first meet them. when i first met a mate of a mate, richard, i knew straight away what he was about, he had charisma, ego, and confidence. i also knew that we would be the best of mates....6 months later and i speak to him almost everyday catchin up on the days. its great!

well i shall test my judging skills tomorrow with that guy lol!

im not good at all in judging ppls character. I tend to always try and find some good stuff in them u know? Im a bit of a fool for that.

 

I have a tendency to think that everyone is good and nice until proven the contrary (and even if the person does something to a frined of mine, i usually just stop considering the person if they do something to ME, directly).

I'm not good at judging peoples character at all...I think I am sometimes when I meet people but I'm usually wrong..like when I started in the class I'm in right now. they first day there where two girls sitting behind me and I thought they seemed so snobby and bitchy and superficial, but I was oh so wrong hahaha. both of them are really nice and one of them is like one of my best friends now, she is so funny and cool

i think you should trust your first impression about a person. it might be wrong at times, but i often realised that it isn't. like i met somebody and i thought something negative about this person. after some time i forget about this (or at least you try) and try to get along with this person, and finally, maybe years later, i see that my first impression was right.

One of my coolest friends, my fist impression of her was she is a snob.

I think I'm not that good at judging characters.....

 

I'm always confused about people if I don't know them for so long.....I never know how they think about me if they are not my friends....

 

If I only know them for example if they are in my class.......

 

I hate that......when I don't know how they think about me and how I should think about them!