Well.................all this threads by reilly (shy or outgoing,alone time....)

made me think....about this:

 

It was alwas like that with me......in my teenage......

when someone of my friends asked if i wanted to visit her.....I ws never pleased with that....it ws always something which was bothersome for me.....same if they wanted to visit me......it was more a problem than fun......

I always liked more to be alone......

the same with if a friend asked if i want to stay over night after a party......I hate that....I lay in bed then,couldn't sleep and my stomach hurt...........strange somehow........

 

Or is someone here like that too?

 

 

I also don#t like to be called on the phone........

Bei mir ist das genau umgekehrt

oh..........well.........my german teacher told us something which was quite the same.....and this was the only person I've come across with this attitude!

i always enjoyed those hours of talking with my friends in Budapest,we could talk about anything , we just had fun (or we went to see a nice movie,played football...)...since i moved to SUI it's changed,i feel alone sometimes even if i still can talk to them via e-mail,msn and etc.

Oh yeah.......I understand i don' know how it would be if I lived in another place.......and it's not that I don't like them..........I don't know why.....

i have language problems,that;s why i can't communicate with swiss guys/girls,even if i have a russian classmate (what a luck!)...it sucks

 

well,maybe you don't trust them,dunno

 

i had around 20-25 friends,but only 6-7 of them were really good and i could do anything for them and i know they would do that as well,i trusted them as they did

Oh ok..............can imagine the thing with the language........but i think with me it changed a bit since I found my real friends 2 years ago......I more like going to them.....but sleeping at their house somehow not.........

I also do not like that much to give a party..........i like to paty but not at my own...:confused:

haha i slept twice at my friends' house i think,they did it once at my place i think

i like home parties,much better than to go to a disco...woah

i would prefer to have a party at my friends' place as well

I also like home parties more....but at my friends......

I am a little like that,but its getting better...:)

Bei mir ist das genau umgekehrt

 

 

I'm proud of your german, Nik!!! :D

Well.................all this threads by reilly (shy or outgoing,alone time....)

made me think....about this:

 

It was alwas like that with me......in my teenage......

when someone of my friends asked if i wanted to visit her.....I ws never pleased with that....it ws always something which was bothersome for me.....same if they wanted to visit me......it was more a problem than fun......

I always liked more to be alone......

the same with if a friend asked if i want to stay over night after a party......I hate that....I lay in bed then,couldn't sleep and my stomach hurt...........strange somehow........

 

Or is someone here like that too?

 

 

I also don#t like to be called on the phone........

 

 

yeah, I don't know if it's weird or not but I'm a lot like that too. I don't like sleeping over at my friends's house, I don't feel comfortable in another person's bed and waking up with someone beside me is just odd. I stay up a long time unable to move because I don't wanna wake anybody up

 

 

Oh, and I suck talking on the phone as well :P

I stay up a long time unable to move because I don't wanna wake anybody up

 

YES........definitely es.......so goddamn true!

:laugh3:

:worried: its not funny!!

I stay up a long time unable to move because I don't wanna wake anybody up

 

 

Oh, and I suck talking on the phone as well :P

 

I do that too...it feels pretty stupid but it feels odd to get up and walk around in someone else's house. If I'm at a close friend's house I feel a little more confindent though, and I can at least get up and walk around in their room or walk out to the bathroom but if I meet their parents or siblings I hurry back to my bed haha :P

 

I dont like talking on the phone either...I want to be able to see the person I'm talking too and it just feels odd to talk on the phone sometimes. I dont like calling people either....it's ok to call my friends and family but other that that, no no....I always make my mum do those calls :P

holy moly....I HAVE changed during the last years...:o

 

except the thing with staying over night...

I also don#t like to be called on the phone........

 

THIS! THIS! THIS! SO MUCH!

Jules, are you sure we ain't related?

 

Seriously that sounded like what I was a few years ago.

well, maybe everyone has a phase in their lives where they are like that...:thinking:

 

 

I also don#t like to be called on the phone........

 

I am TERRIFIED of the telephone. I know it's stupid and silly, and I'm actually quite social in person, but I go all quiet on the phone. It's hard for me to even talk to my family members or best friends, I text or email when I can, and I usually ignore the phone unless I know it's going to be really important. :worried2:

phones SUCK. :(

Well.................all this threads by reilly (shy or outgoing,alone time....)

made me think....about this:

 

It was alwas like that with me......in my teenage......

when someone of my friends asked if i wanted to visit her.....I ws never pleased with that....it ws always something which was bothersome for me.....same if they wanted to visit me......it was more a problem than fun......

I always liked more to be alone......

the same with if a friend asked if i want to stay over night after a party......I hate that....I lay in bed then,couldn't sleep and my stomach hurt...........strange somehow........

 

Or is someone here like that too?

 

 

I also don#t like to be called on the phone........

 

I did but I think mainly because me and my friends didn't have much in common. I grew up in a small village and there were like 20 people in my year. I tried to be friends with the people around me but I didn't always feel comfortable around them.

I did but I think mainly because me and my friends didn't have much in common. I grew up in a small village and there were like 20 people in my year. I tried to be friends with the people around me but I didn't always feel comfortable around them.

 

THIS

Right now I can't choose my friends - cause there arn't many people to choose from.

 

 

(do I do this THIS-thing to often? :thinking: )