Reillooo, hope u got home safely hun!!

:kiss:

 

btw, how did that talk go? (did it go at all??)

It sounds like you two should go for it, if you cant even look at eachother then its like your trying to salvage a friendship that isnt there.

 

Then again I dont want to take my own advice.

 

 

Your advice is much appreciated Reillymeister :D. Basically this guy is being a stubborn so-and-so.

No problem! :D I hope it works out, keep us updated.

 

Reillooo, hope u got home safely hun!!

:kiss:

 

btw, how did that talk go? (did it go at all??)

 

Sorry didnt see this mariany!

 

No, our talk didnt really go at all. We ended up talking about other stuff, and couldnt get back to it.

 

My fault really.

It's soooooooooooo hard to talk about feelings and all that malarky. Well I find it hard anyway.

The only advice I can give you is to be honest with each other. I haven't mentioned this before on the board but basically we got really close' date=' I went round to his and it was all good for weeks. He decided that it was not going to work and was going to go on a date with another girl without letting me know. It was a big deal for me cos we're quite close and I've known him for so long, I don't see why he couldn't tell me. Needless to say we had a huge bust-up, and I have found out through my spies that he never did go on that date. Perhaps there is hope...[/quote']

 

 

Oh yes, the saga continues, and I am fully aware I am quoting myself here :P I have found out from the girl who tried to set him up with her friend that he never really wanted to meet this girl anyway, he was just too polite to say that he didn't want to. So, we kind of fell out over nothing...This is a huge mess, but at least my faith in him has been restored to some extent. He is still acting incredibly strange though.

Well I think thats kind of a positive thing, but yeah, still sounds messy, especially if hes still acting strange.

 

I know I'm hardly one to speak about talking to a friend about these issues, but maybe if you asked him why hes acting so strange, maybe it has nothing to do with you, but it might.

 

Most likely you'll just get an answer like "I am?" and nothing will change haha. But good luck.

 

In my own personal saga, a small uh, update, is that when I went away this weekend with a friend from uni to the beach, I found out that the girl this topic was made about, wanted to go as soon as she heard I was going, as in, wanted to fly over from England. Maybe I'm arrogant in assuming so, but she knew that my friend was going since the beginning of the week, and when I agreed to go on Friday, suddenly she wants to get a flight over on Saturday, or so it seems.

 

This is all info from my friend.

I assume she ended up not going, right?

 

 

 

PS: ok... seriously... that talk was (and maybe still is) EXTREMELY needed!!

:o hello mariana

awkward... i think thats whats happening in my relationship now...

 

ive started going out with this guy who i went out with briefly last year (i mentioned him last year sometime on this forum). anyway, we kissed today properly sorta, for the first time, and it was just weird and awkward... its been weird between us ever since...

and now i dont think i really wanna be with him too much... i mean, he asked me out last week, i said no. then somehow we gradually started going out! arghhhh

 

and i still like that guy ive been moaning about for ages who i met at New Years.

Well I think thats kind of a positive thing, but yeah, still sounds messy, especially if hes still acting strange.

 

I know I'm hardly one to speak about talking to a friend about these issues, but maybe if you asked him why hes acting so strange, maybe it has nothing to do with you, but it might.

 

Most likely you'll just get an answer like "I am?" and nothing will change haha. But good luck.

 

In my own personal saga, a small uh, update, is that when I went away this weekend with a friend from uni to the beach, I found out that the girl this topic was made about, wanted to go as soon as she heard I was going, as in, wanted to fly over from England. Maybe I'm arrogant in assuming so, but she knew that my friend was going since the beginning of the week, and when I agreed to go on Friday, suddenly she wants to get a flight over on Saturday, or so it seems.

 

This is all info from my friend.

 

 

Hmm, Oh Mr Reillymeister it seems we both get our info about how the other person is feeling from our friends instead of the person at hand...

 

Well, this guy isn't acting strange as it were, it's just we'll both be in a room together but pointedly ignore each other. We used to do this ALL the time, ahh we're like little 10 year olds! You know when you're aware someone is watching you and you play up to that. We do that, it's silly and childish but I honestly don't know what to say to him!

and i still like that guy ive been moaning about for ages who i met at New Years.

 

aww have u spoken to him recently?? if you dont like this other dude than dont leave him hanging lol you gotta end it.

 

as for me, this guy who i had been friends with (nothing more) came up to me at work and says "hey i dont think this is working out" im like what?! he must have thought we were going out or something, i was just confused. but i was at work and so i said yeah thats cool fine. i had no idea what it was about but why even say it at such a bad bad time. ahhh why oh why

I assume she ended up not going, right?

 

 

 

PS: ok... seriously... that talk was (and maybe still is) EXTREMELY needed!!

 

I know haha. She didnt go of course.

hey brooke :D . actually i broke it off today, and he was ok about it. i can barely talk to him at work now, so he msged me asking what was wrong so i told him. but everythings ok now. no i have seen that guy i like lately :( i dont know when i'll see him. but if i meet someone else who i really like, i would go for it.

 

wow, thats so weird about your friend! have you spoken to him since? funny, because i was tempted to end the relationship while we were working :D

BONNIEEEEEEEEEEEEE. /me spoons. :blush:

OH MY GOD I HAVE BEEN WAITING FOR YOU BABY!

 

let us spoon till eternity :nice:

Seeing as Im back in England, I owe you guys the liberty of giving an update, seeing as you've been so nice to listen and advise me (I just kinda dont feel like posting about it for the next month!)

 

So I got here yesterday, when I went to go see her she was on the phone and we just kinda waved happily at eachother and I went and talked to her friends. I could only stay a few minutes so I left.

 

I went out that night and she shows up in the same place and at the start its like, we're not really acknowledging eachother so much. There was a lot of people in the group and we were kinda directly across from eachother, so we looked at eachother a few times. Eventually we got talking, about nothing serious, but we were getting kinda close again. One of my friends mentioned how someone wanted to go home so I pretty much leaped at that opportunity, and she was saying that I should stay.

 

And today me and everyone I had dinner with went up to her room, and we all sat there. She wasnt sitting beside me so I barely talked to her, but I dont know, maybe Im crazy but theres definately still an awkwardness every single time we look at eachother. Like we instantly want to look away, its just not comfort anymore.

 

So really, to sum it up, absolutely nothing happened and this was a big waste of time ro read.

I still read it though. :dizzy2:

Yes the awkward times live on!

aww :(

so any new feelings for her then?

read it all (as a curious girl that i am), and have bons same question... still the same feelings from before u parted?

And dont worry hun, ive told u this before and ill repeat it endlessly: the awkwardness will go away eventually...

Thanks for reading guys.

 

Mariana I know what you mean, it is going away but in little parts. I mean today was completely fine when we're around others, we talk easily then. But its those more defining moments, like when we're both drinking at a party and it feels like anything could happen, suddenly its different.

 

My feelings about her are still, unknown, to me. Its weird when I talk about it with my other friends because they dont know she stayed here an extra 4 days with me when she should've gone home, they dont know weve kissed more then once, so when they mention the night we kissed its so very casual, and its kinda good because it puts me in that right frame of mind about thinking of her in a simple situation and whether or not I truely do like her.

 

And I still think at the end of the day, I dont want to go for it.

so if u still think u shouldnt go for it, then dont!!

Yeah but you sound really doubtful, don't make your mind up for good yet!

Gah you guys sound like the voices in my head!!!111

 

Anyway, last night we got uber drunk again, she got the most uberest, me and a friend had to walk her home. She kept holding onto me and grabbing my arms, I kept telling her shes a tool for getting so drunk. Hahahaha.

 

It was hardly intimate or anything most of the time.

maybe something has to happen that clicks in ur mind to think "yes i want this girl"

I dont think that will happen, the time is passing now. I know her well enough to know if I like her or not, and I dont.

 

Hahaha by the way I was talking to a girl last night that my friend knows I've brought back to my place before, and when I was talking to her my friend did not look happy at all, it was kinda funny I guess. Or maybe I have a cruel kinda humour.

 

Nothing happened though.