December 12, 200619 yr Yes......finally I've got a date....omg...:uhoh: but.......he is 30.....but seriously....he looks like 25 or something like that..... hehe........usually I was a bit shocked by some age differences....and now I'm dating someone who is 11 years older than me!But we get along really well......talked a lot yesterday and now he wants to meet me again booo I'm excited... So.....in how far does age matter for you? haha one of the first things he said to me was that you are always as old how you feel......... mamma mia
December 12, 200619 yr Who cares? I could date with someone who's over 30, that doesn't matter. I just don't get why should it matter. Good luck with your date :shy:
December 12, 200619 yr Don't worry Julia....I'm 31 and my girlfriend is 21....the age doesn't matter. To me it's all about the maturity in people. I have dated women as much as 20 years older than me. If they make you happy and you get that warm feeling inside from being with them.....then go for it.:pleased:
December 12, 200619 yr Author Who cares? I could date with someone who's over 30, that doesn't matter. I just don't get why should it matter. Good luck with your date Thanks Lera:shy: I don't even know why I feel so weird about this age thing.....don't really know....:uhoh: Don't worry Julia....I'm 31 and my girlfriend is 21....the age doesn't matter. To me it's all about the maturity in people. I have dated women as much as 20 years older than me. If they make you happy and you get that warm feeling inside from being with them.....then go for it. hehe yeah actually I know many couples as well.....where the age difference is big...and yes I also asked a friend about this and she said the same....she told me that an older guy would be the right one for me....because I am maybe more mature than some others...
December 12, 200619 yr if you both make each other genuinely happy, then that is more important than age. when your feelings for each other are more clear, you'll know what matters and what doesn't. have fun and be yourself :nice:
December 12, 200619 yr Author whaaaaaa.........it's my first date.....:uhoh: I can't even believe it haha....maybe that's why I care so much about it...
December 12, 200619 yr wwoowwww... :dance: I think you know my opinion... all my girlfriends have been younger than me... biggest difference was 7 years though... :D
December 12, 200619 yr Author wwoowwww... :dance: I think you know my opinion... all my girlfriends have been younger than me... biggest difference was 7 years though... :D hehehe......yeah actually I think it's normal that the girls are younger than the guys...but I used to think of maybe a 5 or 6 years difference....ahah
December 12, 200619 yr Yes Marek.......well em in my life....haha cool,i wish you all the best,but dont forget the bedtime at 8:)
December 12, 200619 yr HAHA thanks.........well we'll meet at 8:30pm anyways....:P you should in bed at that time,but have fun i forgot you are adult and do what you like
December 12, 200619 yr Doesn't really matter. Like others said, if you're both happy together then it makes no difference at all. I wish you all the best, Jules! :kiss:
December 12, 200619 yr Author hehe thanks Mo....:blush: aha Marek.....and this is what a 15 years old tells me...:thinking:
December 12, 200619 yr hey when i was 15 i had a girlfriend which was 18 and we were together for 2 years.so, i think it does not necesserily matter. only the personality matters and that CAN be influenced by the age. so give it a try. AND IF age matters so much that it will not work, then you will see because it won't work :)
December 12, 200619 yr Age shouldn't matter! Sounds like you get on well, that's the main thing! Besides, they do say women mature faster than men! hehe (and I believe that to be true in MANY cases lol)
December 12, 200619 yr I guess it's not a big deal. I usually don't think 11 years makes a difference but usually it's when the girl is a bit older. Some people my think it's a big deal because you are still technically in your teens. Side note though: age can play some of a role in a relationship, such as relating to certain topics, the fact that your date probably remembers the 80's and you were only around for the latter half could be interesting. Anyway there are no hard rules here. Good luck.
December 12, 200619 yr That's great news, good luck Julia! :nice: well it doesnt really matter once you've reached a certain age. i wouldnt mind dating someone who is a few years older if i was single. i really wouldnt worry if the guy was about 30. i dont think i could date anyone who's a lot younger than me though. i once felt attracted to someone who was 15 years older than me but i couldnt imagine being in a serious realtionship with a man who is that much older. you might get on really well but it just seems wrong when his eldest kid is only like two years younger than you. :uhoh:
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