Ambergris Posted May 9, 2009 Share Posted May 9, 2009 I was just wondering... How do you think it's your relationship with your parents? I mean in terms of communication? In my case... I think the communication with my parents is bad. And even though I know they love me and I love them too, I barely feel like I can tell to them any of my problems, concerns, feelings, thoughts... like they wouldn't understand. My dad loves me and does a lot for me but we haven't got a good connection, so when he aks me how I am I just say, ok and he says fine... And my mother, has such an strong character and we cannot talk mostly about enything because she's so closed minded with her thoughts and beliefs! She loves me a lot thought. The point here is that there's not necessarily an actual correlation between love and a good communication, and you cannot have for granted a good communication-confidence just because there's love on it. I wish I could count on my parents a little bit more, but anyway I am all grown up and I learned how to manage it during about 20 years, so I think is just ok, now. But if I get any children, I would like to have a good communication with them. So in your case, how's the communication with your parents? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darlene_Ihnfsa Posted May 9, 2009 Share Posted May 9, 2009 ... if your last question is not the same as the title thread may be you better change the title.... my relation with my parents is very good, always. they were always willing to listen my problems, thoughts even if may be they don't agree much about them (most the time they agreed). i always has said here i kind of considered my parents as if they were my bro and sis on that way, i feel confident to talk with them about anything, anytime and i always be free to have my own beliefs and decitions. :) but i know most my friends and cousins don't have this same relation with their parents :\ anyways i agree on what you say about that is not necesary to have a good communition with the fact that they love you... i guess that communication is a matter of each person character, if they don't talk much with you or you don't talk much with them, it doesn't mean you don't love them or that they don't love you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ambergris Posted May 9, 2009 Author Share Posted May 9, 2009 What happened to the poll :confused: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ambergris Posted May 9, 2009 Author Share Posted May 9, 2009 ... if your last question is not the same as the title thread may be you better change the title.... What are you talking about? Did you read the whole text I wrote? I think it's well connected. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ambergris Posted May 9, 2009 Author Share Posted May 9, 2009 I added the poll. :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darlene_Ihnfsa Posted May 9, 2009 Share Posted May 9, 2009 your whole post is about parents relationship with their kids, :thinking: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ambergris Posted May 9, 2009 Author Share Posted May 9, 2009 your whole post is about parents relationship with their kids, :thinking: yes... love and communication between your family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jay Niguez Posted May 9, 2009 Share Posted May 9, 2009 I can talk about everything with my mum, but my father is very resevered. He doesn't like what I'm doing, what I like, what I want to do, etc. My mum supports me everytime she can, but my father always talks everything bad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ivet Posted May 9, 2009 Share Posted May 9, 2009 Mine's good. I don't tell them everything that happens but if it's like bad or anything that I FEEL like i gotta tell them i go to them. I don't hate them, I love my parents but i don't know why I can't communicate with them as much as I should. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
strawberryfields Posted May 9, 2009 Share Posted May 9, 2009 Mine is normal (whatever that means) with my dad, but there's almost no communication with my mom. I try sometimes, but it's really hard for me to talk to her about things. Yesterday I tried to finally tell her how I felt about my relationship with her, and she went crazy and did some pretty undesirable things. :disappointed: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ms Magpie Posted May 9, 2009 Share Posted May 9, 2009 Mine's good. I don't tell them everything that happens but if it's like bad or anything that I FEEL like i gotta tell them i go to them. I don't hate them, I love my parents but i don't know why I can't communicate with them as much as I should. Something like that. My dad understands me MUCH better, I usually fight only with my mom. But I know they love me and I love them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spoon Posted May 9, 2009 Share Posted May 9, 2009 I can talk about everything with my mum, but my father is very resevered. He doesn't like what I'm doing, what I like, what I want to do, etc. My mum supports me everytime she can, but my father always talks everything bad. THIS. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jay Niguez Posted May 9, 2009 Share Posted May 9, 2009 THIS. At least, we're not alone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spoon Posted May 9, 2009 Share Posted May 9, 2009 At least, we're not alone. :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ambergris Posted May 9, 2009 Author Share Posted May 9, 2009 Hah, seems like so far I'm the only one who hasn't got a good communication with any of his parents. :sad: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jay Niguez Posted May 10, 2009 Share Posted May 10, 2009 Hah, seems like so far I'm the only one who hasn't got a good communication with any of his parents. :sad: Normally, I don't do this, but ... :hug: ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ambergris Posted May 10, 2009 Author Share Posted May 10, 2009 :lol: It's not like I feel that bad. But thanks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jay Niguez Posted May 10, 2009 Share Posted May 10, 2009 No problem. :lol: I like this thread. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrs. chris martin Posted May 10, 2009 Share Posted May 10, 2009 i have no idea where to begin about the relationship b/w me & my parents. let's put it this way: exactly 1,000 days until my 18th birthday. omg, only 1000 days left!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TechnicolorGreenEyes Posted May 10, 2009 Share Posted May 10, 2009 I don't confide in anyone though, nothing to do with my relationship with my parents. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
parachutes_ Posted June 17, 2009 Share Posted June 17, 2009 BUMP! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hera_g89 Posted June 17, 2009 Share Posted June 17, 2009 Mmmm...it's pretty nonexistent. My communication skills are bad to begin with...with anyone, so... But it's not like I'm upset about it, though. I'm okay with that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nkydickson Posted June 17, 2009 Share Posted June 17, 2009 i have no idea where to begin about the relationship b/w me & my parents. let's put it this way: exactly 1,000 days until my 18th birthday. omg, only 1000 days left!! This is pretty much the story of my life !!!!! Except I only have 210 days !!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeoir Posted June 17, 2009 Share Posted June 17, 2009 Uhm well i never talk about my stuff with my parents. They don't really have a clue what's going on in my life. Ah well, i don't really mind that much. It's just weird to see my friends with their parents 'cause their relationships differ so much from mine Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i ate the lotus Posted June 17, 2009 Share Posted June 17, 2009 my relationship with my mom and dad are good, very good i'd say, but could always be better ;] me and my mom are two totally different people, was hard to communicate when we were living together, but since i now live with best friends, we're buddies! and me and my dad - we've always been the same. he likes whatever i like, and he's always supported my crazy ideas. they're both fun and what i love is the fact that they're awesome around my friends! i love 'em both to death! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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