Cause sometimes friends are no freaking help.

 

Post your problems, soak up the advice.

 

I might utilize this if other people do it first.

 

I wanna judge the reaction and see how bad it is.

My status is currently green, but I may be able to help if yours is red? (so to speak)

My girlfriend cheated on my with her boyfriend.

The bitch ! ^

 

 

The only guys i'm slightly friends with in real life,

are known as the gay parade in their school.

 

Is there any hope for me getting a boyfriend?

I'm not part of any gay parade. :shy:

One of my wives didn't clean one of my kitchens :angry:

My boyfriend once lied to me about this girl.

 

But he lied to her too.

 

So she didnt talk to him for like 5 months.

 

But I said oh you should still be friends with her if you want. But I didn't really want that, I just wanted to look good.

 

And now she texted him. And they're gonna have a phone call.

 

Fuck.

 

 

Oh wait. Mine is not a joke. :(

mine wasn't a joke :sad:

How do you approach a girl without looking like a complete asshole?

 

/srs

Be mean about it.

 

Just whip out your cock.

 

We love that.

My boyfriend once lied to me about this girl.

 

But he lied to her too.

 

So she didnt talk to him for like 5 months.

 

But I said oh you should still be friends with her if you want. But I didn't really want that, I just wanted to look good.

 

And now she texted him. And they're gonna have a phone call.

 

Fuck.

 

 

Oh wait. Mine is not a joke. :(

 

Wait was he cheating on you with her? I don't get it. Like what did he lie about.

 

How do you approach a girl without looking like a complete asshole?

 

/srs

 

It depends on whether or not you're a complete asshole.

The bitch ! ^

 

 

The only guys i'm slightly friends with in real life,

are known as the gay parade in their school.

 

Is there any hope for me getting a boyfriend?

 

I'm 21 and have never had a girlfriend. I'm not too concerned though. I think I'm a half decent person.

^ I'm 18 and I've never been in a real relationship. The only relationship I've ever been in is holding hands in elementary school :D Those were the best days ;)

Well. We started seeing each otehr in September. And I'd see him texting this girl, and he just like oh she's a friend. He told me they went out once and had feelings for each other but it because of certain circumstances it didn't work and such.

 

And I was like okay cool. Then like hmm.. a month after we started dating we were out at a dinner with friends waiting to be seated and I was sitting on him and he was texting her. And I was a bit curious at this point and asked him.. so she knows about me right? And he was like no... I havn't told her yet. I asked why. He said it just didn't come up yet and later explained that she was weird in a sense. he said that if she knew he had a girlfriend she would stop talking to him and he didnt want to lose her as a friend. I thought that was bullocks, but I know some crazy ass girls. So I was like fine, do what you need to.

 

I asked him are you sure there was nothing more a few other times. He lied to my face.

 

Then about a month later, I still had some doubt in my mind. I confronted him hard. He admitted that they in fact had dated before and such. And they were much more than he let on. He was pretty upset about it to when he fully realized how he had caused so much damage. Like he was sincerely regretful, I could tell. So I told him okay don't lose your friend, but you lost me (Dramatic ass line). So he throws his littel hissyfit calls her up right away and tells her that he has a girlfriend. She is obviously like what the fuck.. why didnt you tell me.. we texted everyday.. we're good friends. So she's pissed, doesnt contact him for like 5 months.

 

I slowly get over it. I'm still pretty annoyed. he's never lied about anything before that or since. But I figure.. she didn't really do much wrong and he said she'd probably never talk to him again. But a couple of week ago she made contact with him.. And I was telling him all along you can be friends with her if you want, that's not what this is about. This is about you lying. But anyways, now he contacted her back, and she's gonna call him soon so they can talk through this.

 

But I'm a bit peeved cause I don't really like this. Sorry for the long read.

Be mean about it.

 

Just whip out your cock.

 

We love that.

 

You're gonna get him arrested.

I'm 21 and have never had a girlfriend. I'm not too concerned though. I think I'm a half decent person.

That's makes me feel a bit better... sorry :laugh4:

 

but I'm seventeen and never been kissed...erhh, kind of bad.

Like there's a girl younger than me in my year with a child. :wtf:

That's makes me feel a bit better... sorry :laugh4:

 

but I'm seventeen and never been kissed...erhh, kind of bad.

Like there's a girl younger than me in my year with a child. :wtf:

 

I'm a year cooler than Briggins (until the end of the month)

 

I dunno why you'd see that as a bad thing, at all.

I'm a year cooler than Briggins (until the end of the month)

 

I dunno why you'd see that as a bad thing, at all.

It just kind of is in a way.

It shows that i lack so much confidence when it comes to guys.

Wow.

 

Uh, it's really fucked up that he'd lie/not tell her. It doesn't sound like he lied so bad to you, he did tell you that they weren't always just friends.

 

But I've been in his position (Well with every girlfriend I've had as one of my best friends has been a girl I've known for years and we have had feelings for eachother and stuff), there would have been no way I wouldn't tell her I was seeing someone, it's not fair on anyone. Hmm I guess it's different because we know we're just friends now, the thing with your bf and this girl sounds a bit more complicated.

 

Ionno. That's my helpful advice.

 

But if I was in your situation, and my gf had a guy friend and she had feelings for him etc. and she never told him about me, I honestly probably wouldn't let her see him. It's just weird.

can someone help me to solve this problem? :uhoh:

 

well, actually its not really that a problem. but i wonder why i somehow want to have someone with me at a time whereas i will forget about it in the most everyday.. in fact, i really need a guy to be with me, but i dont need to get a relationship. :( this is just so hard to explain actually.. however, this has happened to me since i dumped with my ex-boyfriend 2 years ago. i've always been thinking about this these days and its been so weird if i always keep it in my mind :\

 

thanks in advance, i'll be really glad if someone replies my question :nice:

Wow.

 

Uh, it's really fucked up that he'd lie/not tell her. It doesn't sound like he lied so bad to you, he did tell you that they weren't always just friends.

 

But I've been in his position (Well with every girlfriend I've had as one of my best friends has been a girl I've known for years and we have had feelings for eachother and stuff), there would have been no way I wouldn't tell her I was seeing someone, it's not fair on anyone. Hmm I guess it's different because we know we're just friends now, the thing with your bf and this girl sounds a bit more complicated.

 

Ionno. That's my helpful advice.

 

But if I was in your situation, and my gf had a guy friend and she had feelings for him etc. and she never told him about me, I honestly probably wouldn't let her see him. It's just weird.

 

He didnt have feelings for her when we first met.. he was just lying cause he's a dumbass. She didn't have feelings for him either. I believe him when he says that. I can tell when he's being sincere.

 

It is pretty bad how he lied to me too. Cause he looked me in the eye and told me the exact opposite of what was true. One other incident, which might be amusing. I dunno? We're all from the same hometown, but we go to school and live in Vancouver. So one weekedn we're all going home and it's me, my boyfriend, her, and one of our other friends. And this was back when I thought they were only friends. But we had to like keep our relationship a secret on that painful busride. I spent most of my time talking to our other friend so not to make it suspicious. But I could tell by the way they were talking that they were only friends at that point. But the point is that this guy had enough nerve to bring us on the same freaking bus. What a doorknob. Aside from this whole incident, he hasn't done anything wrong or lied to me about anything else but its just kind of hard to get over.

 

And I don't want him to talk to her. But is it really my place to not allow him to talk to someone especially after I've been telling him that he should? Like I know he has zero feelings for her now cause he was half considering not talking to her ever again when she messaged cause it plain "didn't affect him enough". But blarghh. I dunno. Should I tell him I don't want him talking to her?

I know it's a pretty obvious thing to say, but honesty is the key, and while you can't stop him from talking to her you should at least be honest and tell him that it really bothers you when he does.

 

Seeing as he's lied and been a bit of a dick about the whole thing (That bus trip sounded so awkward haha!) I guess he should step back and stop talking to her. At the same time if you're so sure that he doesn't have feelings for her and there's nothing weird there, I dont' know why you have a problem with them talking (Is she a bit of a reminder that he lied?).

Yeah.. like I trust him completely now. It took a while. I still have little times of doubt.

 

I dunno why the incident struck me really hard. Umm, I think it's mostly the reminder thing. Sometimes even now I think about it and it brings about anger like I actually get myself worked up over it. So I dunno.

I don't really need to have a soulmate, do I?

Emma shot me down...story of my life :disappointed: