Reilly is probably the most logical and best non-proffessional counselor on the interwebs. I remember he gave me lots of good advice back in the glory days of coldplaying.

Why thank you! Can't remember that though.

 

But speaking of Coldplaying's "glory days", it's been very busy the last few days (Not just the name threads). Like last week I'd check here every hour or even few hours and there'd be nothing really, the last few days it's almost been kinda hard to keep up.

 

Good stuff.

Emma shot me down...story of my life :disappointed:

i'm sorry. :sad:

 

 

 

 

 

 

see look, i'm horrible when it comes to guys.

Why thank you! Can't remember that though.

 

But speaking of Coldplaying's "glory days", it's been very busy the last few days (Not just the name threads). Like last week I'd check here every hour or even few hours and there'd be nothing really, the last few days it's almost been kinda hard to keep up.

 

Good stuff.

 

I noticed that too! For the past two or so weeks, the lounge was practically dead, and now there's all this great new stuff :wacko:

Reilly is solid.

 

So fact paced action.

 

I told him that I don't want him talking to her.

 

He said that's fine and he wishes I wouldve told him before and that he feels no obligation to talk to her anyways. Then a bunch of nice things.

 

He was annoyed cause I was harrassing him a bit yesterday without telling him why. Built up frustration. But I guess that's my fault.

 

He's fine about it though. He's a good guy. I guess. :P

 

Thanks for the advice.

Good to hear, no problemo.

Ok, so this is a long story but I need some advice! (I'm almost 18 and I've never had a boyfriend or kissed anyone or anything, so I'm pretty inexperienced. :disappointed:)

 

There is this guy who I had this strange relationship with last year. We were on a school band trip, and at the time he had a girlfriend of two years (she wasn't on the trip). While we were there, he started flirting with me...A LOT. And he was pretending that he liked me. After the trip, we were texting each other for hours every night, but we were just good friends. He admitted that he liked me, but not as much as he loved his girlfriend. :dozey: So we remained friends all year, and I kept falling more and more in love with him. And then in the summer, I told him how I felt. All he said was "I have a girlfriend, but I appreciate your honesty". And we never spoke again. Until last week! I texted him in a spontaneous burst of confidence, and now we're kind of friends again. AND he's single! He finally broke up with his girlfriend.

And he texted me the other night, so I know that he wants to be friends or something too; not just me.

 

So I guess what I'm asking is, do you think it's weird if I start texting him a lot again (we don't see each other in person much because he's a year older and out of high school now)? And do you think it's possible that he still has feelings for me? ANY ADVICE PLEASE. Especially from guys who know how guys feel about this kind of thing.

Why thank you! Can't remember that though.

 

But speaking of Coldplaying's "glory days", it's been very busy the last few days (Not just the name threads). Like last week I'd check here every hour or even few hours and there'd be nothing really, the last few days it's almost been kinda hard to keep up.

 

Good stuff.

 

Yeah, I can't remember exactly either. Sort of like I vaguely remember your brokeback sig/avi combo.

 

As for the "glory days" I guess it more so refers to the pre-Viva days. The Viva album brought in a huge swarm of fangirls which scared me off for a while.

 

But you're right, the lounge has been good the past few weeks.

Ok, so this is a long story but I need some advice! (I'm almost 18 and I've never had a boyfriend or kissed anyone or anything, so I'm pretty inexperienced. :disappointed:)

 

There is this guy who I had this strange relationship with last year. We were on a school band trip, and at the time he had a girlfriend of two years (she wasn't on the trip). While we were there, he started flirting with me...A LOT. And he was pretending that he liked me. After the trip, we were texting each other for hours every night, but we were just good friends. He admitted that he liked me, but not as much as he loved his girlfriend. :dozey: So we remained friends all year, and I kept falling more and more in love with him. And then in the summer, I told him how I felt. All he said was "I have a girlfriend, but I appreciate your honesty". And we never spoke again. Until last week! I texted him in a spontaneous burst of confidence, and now we're kind of friends again. AND he's single! He finally broke up with his girlfriend.

And he texted me the other night, so I know that he wants to be friends or something too; not just me.

 

So I guess what I'm asking is, do you think it's weird if I start texting him a lot again (we don't see each other in person much because he's a year older and out of high school now)? And do you think it's possible that he still has feelings for me? ANY ADVICE PLEASE. Especially from guys who know how guys feel about this kind of thing.

 

I hate to sound cruel, but if he's anything like me or guys I know, he would have made a move by now if he had feelings for you.

 

Of course it's still possible he likes you, so I wouldn't count that out. Maybe he's a bit shy, maybe he's getting over the girlfriend, I don't really know what to say.

 

But no it wouldn't be weird at all for you to keep texting him, I mean you did text him when he had a girlfriend, if anything that was weirder haha. Go for it.

If you never try, you'll never know.

 

Or whatever.

Thanks Reilly! That's good advice.

 

Haha, wise words Anette! :)

Ok, so this is a long story but I need some advice! (I'm almost 18 and I've never had a boyfriend or kissed anyone or anything, so I'm pretty inexperienced. :disappointed:)

 

There is this guy who I had this strange relationship with last year. We were on a school band trip, and at the time he had a girlfriend of two years (she wasn't on the trip). While we were there, he started flirting with me...A LOT. And he was pretending that he liked me. After the trip, we were texting each other for hours every night, but we were just good friends. He admitted that he liked me, but not as much as he loved his girlfriend. :dozey: So we remained friends all year, and I kept falling more and more in love with him. And then in the summer, I told him how I felt. All he said was "I have a girlfriend, but I appreciate your honesty". And we never spoke again. Until last week! I texted him in a spontaneous burst of confidence, and now we're kind of friends again. AND he's single! He finally broke up with his girlfriend.

And he texted me the other night, so I know that he wants to be friends or something too; not just me.

 

So I guess what I'm asking is, do you think it's weird if I start texting him a lot again (we don't see each other in person much because he's a year older and out of high school now)? And do you think it's possible that he still has feelings for me? ANY ADVICE PLEASE. Especially from guys who know how guys feel about this kind of thing.

 

Hopefully this doesn't sound too harsh:

But I don't think this guy would be the best guy to be with even if he does have feelings for you. The fact that while he had a girlfriend he was flirting with frequently and that you were texting each other for hours while he still had a girlfriend would raise some serious red flags for me trust wise. I would just be wary of his commitment to you, like worried he would have other side "really good friend/hours a night texting buddy". Maybe you are perfectly fine with it. But just be careful.

i think im really looking for a person to response my question :uhoh:

can someone help me to solve this problem? :uhoh:

 

well, actually its not really that a problem. but i wonder why i somehow want to have someone with me at a time whereas i will forget about it in the most everyday.. in fact, i really need a guy to be with me, but i dont need to get a relationship. :( this is just so hard to explain actually.. however, this has happened to me since i dumped with my ex-boyfriend 2 years ago. i've always been thinking about this these days and its been so weird if i always keep it in my mind :\

 

thanks in advance, i'll be really glad if someone replies my question :nice:

 

So are you just looking for friendship with guys, but not necessarily a relationship? Solution, just become friends with some guys who you share the same interests etc with, but be pretty clear its nothing romantic, its just somebody to talk to and hang out with.

Grids I don't really know how to give advice there because I didn't really understand the problem.

 

Hopefully this doesn't sound too harsh:

But I don't think this guy would be the best guy to be with even if he does have feelings for you. The fact that while he had a girlfriend he was flirting with frequently and that you were texting each other for hours while he still had a girlfriend would raise some serious red flags for me trust wise. I would just be wary of his commitment to you, like worried he would have other side "really good friend/hours a night texting buddy". Maybe you are perfectly fine with it. But just be careful.

 

Good point, but at the same time he didn't cheat on her.

 

To be honest, some guys like flirting and impressing a girl just so they know they could be with her, it's because we're ****s like that.

All of the boys in my school are stoopid :tongue:

I'm 21 and have never had a girlfriend. I'm not too concerned though. I think I'm a half decent person.

 

^ I'm 18 and I've never been in a real relationship. The only relationship I've ever been in is holding hands in elementary school :D Those were the best days ;)

 

I'm a year cooler than Briggins (until the end of the month)

 

I dunno why you'd see that as a bad thing, at all.

We should start a club.

I'm not saying that never having a girlfriend is a lame thing, but making a club for it definitely would be

admittedly...

^ :laugh1:

I'll get a boyfriend.. someday.. :wreck:

We should start a club.

yeah, don't do that.

 

 

:laugh4:

I love clubs

Or just all get sucked in by a cult.

cults are better :nice:

 

 

Who needs to be in a relationship when you can be in a cult.

Well I know why most people like being in relationships :thinking: So what kinda cult did I sign up to :anxious: