I recently talked with a friend about listening to reason or choices that you make in your life, although nobody thinks that you can fulfill your dreams (especially in career choice..).

There are so often people who you think that they are your friends, but actually they are jealous because of their own dissatisfaction.

A lot of them are afraid of changes in life and so they think you are also not able to change something into positive..

I often ask myself if it's better to listen to your heart or to criticism of other people. :confused:

I mean, you've got only one live, If you do not try to achieve YOUR aims, you'll never be satisfied..

What do you think about this issue?

Well, we all are capable of making our lives better for ourselves, and those around us. But life is never easy. It's never smooth sailing, is like traversing the wild and unpredictable ocean; one moment the waters are calm, next day a hurricane. But it's not about how big the hurricane is, it's about all the things you do to survive in the hurricane.

 

Same applies for the career field. I'm gonna be a Sophomore in high school and I want to be an aerospace engineer for Boeing. Now in Order to do so I need a lot of math and physics, which is a challenge. But I'm not gonna give up.

 

People tend to give up when life decides to take a turn for the worst. They just loose all hope and say, "Listen I can't do this," when you really can. We all have potential, we are all unique, and we all have different strengths and weaknesses.

 

Some people may think, "Wow this person is incredible!" Others will get jealous. But dont worry if people are jealous. If you earned your respect honestly then be proud.

 

So we all can ever Val (choose): Live life the way YOU want it to be, or be unhappy for the rest of your life.

Life isn't for living. Kill yourself.

This thread is somewhere between a normal person and Lory.

This thread title is highly misleading.

This thread is somewhere between a normal person and Lory.

 

explain me, normal persons in society? you want me living my life with no understanding of zombies persons life, any respect and sharing and love. and prefers dictatorship and not the proper value of people. I prefer alone, but with best people.

I recently talked with a friend about listening to reason or choices that you make in your life, although nobody thinks that you can fulfill your dreams (especially in career choice..).

There are so often people who you think that they are your friends, but actually they are jealous because of their own dissatisfaction.

A lot of them are afraid of changes in life and so they think you are also not able to change something into positive..

I often ask myself if it's better to listen to your heart or to criticism of other people. :confused:

I mean, you've got only one live, If you do not try to achieve YOUR aims, you'll never be satisfied..

What do you think about this issue?

 

not know but the main thing for you is your value and your ability to do what you want in life.

 

jealousy of the others will not get you going, but the true friends are those you support and give your best.

 

my parents never support me for my chosen career so much unrealistic and stupid.

 

example : me professionally I wanted to do artist. me go in art school and I have a certificate. then I do so much careers, but my best artristic animation with children, drawing, crafts, clay sculptures . expression, education and teach children the best of them and they are never alone in adult life so understandable.

 

Now I just need my loved one .because not exist if I can not realize my dream.

i say fuck it.. live life the way you want no matter what other ppl say. life is too short to let criticisms influence you...

I know it sounds cheesy, but I always try to do what is best for everyone, without ignoring my own needs of course.

 

Taking criticism into account is important, but you shouldn't let others completely guide your life.

 

The truth is always somewhere in the middle. Try to do what you think is best, without going all "I do what I want cos this is my life and you ain't tellin me what to do" and that shit. If you know what I'm saying.

I recently talked with a friend about listening to reason or choices that you make in your life, although nobody thinks that you can fulfill your dreams (especially in career choice..).

There are so often people who you think that they are your friends, but actually they are jealous because of their own dissatisfaction.

A lot of them are afraid of changes in life and so they think you are also not able to change something into positive..

I often ask myself if it's better to listen to your heart or to criticism of other people. :confused:

I mean, you've got only one live, If you do not try to achieve YOUR aims, you'll never be satisfied..

What do you think about this issue?

> Some dreams can be fulfilled, some cannot be fulfilled, some cannot be fulfilled in this lifetime, but the results will resonate on with others, and sometimes our dreams change. Sometimes we are sold on a career option which when we get closer to the end of our education, we either see some serious flaws with it, or find ourselves in a field which is super saturated with applicants. But there's always options, other directions to be heading in, other applications for what we've learned. And some do get lucky (chance favors the prepared mind, but there's always the element of chance) - so we play the odds, adapt, press for change if things aren't right, work in the next best fit, or patiently hone skills for the day to arrive when more jobs open up. I think of the medical professionals waiting tables in Cuba - the pay is better waiting tables, the field is too full, but they will find a better spot eventually, or put their energies elsewhere, such as family, for another generation to arise and achieve what they were forestalled on.

But yes, there are those who repress others, since they either accept things as static, or cannot or will not achieve more than you are willing to do; beware of the lobster pail!;) ..and compliment them for what they excel at - consistency in work is often underrated in our modern world, and those who are consistent are the glue that holds it all together, the base of the pyramid. Just don't let them keep you from rising to higher heights, if you have the abilities and put forth the effort.

The "only one life to live" thing kind of pushes us a little to much in the "live for today, live for oneself" mode I think. Try and see it as achieving a higher sense of things, pulling others up with you, striving to be your best in concert with others, competing not with others but to better your own abilities, and to share in that process. Some of the modern problems we are faced with arise from hyperindividualism, when we need more growth of shared success and cooperation, compassion, appreciation.