I have been friends with her for about 2 years. We got to be close friends in that time and I sensed she was becoming attached. I had to tell her last night that I only want a friendship. She cried and I felt extremely bad as I hate hurting any of my friends.

 

Thing is...when everything first started, I was the one that liked her but she was in relationship, they broke up. She began having feelings towards me, but by then enough time went by, I knew our chemistry wasn't there so I wasn't interested in anything romantic.

 

Seeing her cry and knowing her pain (because I have been there) makes me feel horrible. I wish there was something I can do to make things better but I won't lie to her

 

Now it seems our friendship will burn out, and I feel like its all my fault. I guess I learned to be REALLY SURE about the person you want.

 

Thanks for reading.

:/ Awww Dude im sorry, i hope things work out in the end for you :)

Hmmm..

is she hot?

cos if she is, probably what you did was pretty stupid.

^ So sensitive :lol:

 

That's too bad. There was really nothing you could do though, it's better to tell somebody straight up than to wait until you got involved. It would have been alot harder later. :P

Hope it all works out for you.

 

I think you did the right thing. Honesty was the best way to approach the situation.

 

Good luck :)

Man..been in that kinda thing before...My best Guy friend and me. I still love the boy, and everyone thinks we're going out. But we both have an agreement, so it works out for us. He just never sees my tears.

is she hot?

cos if she is, probably what you did was pretty stupid.

 

That was so lame... :dozey:

yeah ^^

^ So sensitive :lol:

 

;) :D

 

That was so lame... :dozey:

 

I'm SOOO sorry, denise

*sarcasm detector explodes*

awwwwwwwwwww :embarrased:

 

 

that history sounds too familiar to me! :cry:

I think everybody's been in that situation before, and the sad thing is that there's not really anything that can be done to make it better. :/

 

But the old saying is "time heals all wounds," and that's usually true... eventually.

tell me about it! :dozey:

 

 

;)

I agree with Tom, time does heal all wounds. :(

well....if that´s right I need time!... :(

Thank you everybody. Guess I was in a morbid mood when I typed out the thread. I'm 29 so simply having "fun" with girls is not my thing. I want a love that consumes me fully. Not that I'm anxiously looking because I'm happy alone.

 

Anyway...gotta love love?

Jpyce, you ran into the same situation? Could you share?

 

well....if that´s right I need time!... :(

share?...mmm.... :/

 

 

is just it´s so recent!...and maybe it was just a silly thing ...well in fact it is...but what a coincidence you broke someone else heart and mine is so broken now!

I have had my heart broken and it's one of the worst feelings to endure. I still think of that person on a weekly basis and gave in to the fact that it's a part of my life I won't ever forget

 

But all this heart breaking makes us all stronger. You have to break before being wiser and less susceptible to falling again. Hope your heart mends quickly Joyce.

awww!...thank you...gotta love love... right? :)

:( Sounds so sad...but it was best that you said something if you didn't feel it yourself. Tough situation, but in the end hopefully things will work out.

orange juice

 

maybe it's the answer

 

or maybe not :wink3:

orange juice?...how can that be the answer? :(

:( I HATE it...the persons I like never see me, the persons that like me I'm not keen on! So I get my heart broken and break other ppls hearts :/ atm, one guy is so in love with me...but I don't feel that much for him...perhaps I'll change my mind if I know him better...I almost PRAY for it

orange juice

 

maybe it's the answer

 

or maybe not :wink3:

 

 

:lol: :lol: :lol:

 

I shall keep this in mind for my future.. yes, oj cures everything..:stunned: