idsadmin Posted June 14, 2004 Share Posted June 14, 2004 I have been friends with her for about 2 years. We got to be close friends in that time and I sensed she was becoming attached. I had to tell her last night that I only want a friendship. She cried and I felt extremely bad as I hate hurting any of my friends. Thing is...when everything first started, I was the one that liked her but she was in relationship, they broke up. She began having feelings towards me, but by then enough time went by, I knew our chemistry wasn't there so I wasn't interested in anything romantic. Seeing her cry and knowing her pain (because I have been there) makes me feel horrible. I wish there was something I can do to make things better but I won't lie to her Now it seems our friendship will burn out, and I feel like its all my fault. I guess I learned to be REALLY SURE about the person you want. Thanks for reading. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlissfullyMuse Posted June 14, 2004 Share Posted June 14, 2004 :/ Awww Dude im sorry, i hope things work out in the end for you :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CityandColour Posted June 14, 2004 Share Posted June 14, 2004 Hmmm.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Valleyboy Posted June 14, 2004 Share Posted June 14, 2004 is she hot? cos if she is, probably what you did was pretty stupid. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
el_scorcho Posted June 14, 2004 Share Posted June 14, 2004 ^ So sensitive :lol: That's too bad. There was really nothing you could do though, it's better to tell somebody straight up than to wait until you got involved. It would have been alot harder later. :P Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lil'eskimo Posted June 14, 2004 Share Posted June 14, 2004 Hope it all works out for you. I think you did the right thing. Honesty was the best way to approach the situation. Good luck :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
labell Posted June 14, 2004 Share Posted June 14, 2004 Man..been in that kinda thing before...My best Guy friend and me. I still love the boy, and everyone thinks we're going out. But we both have an agreement, so it works out for us. He just never sees my tears. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrsBerry Posted June 14, 2004 Share Posted June 14, 2004 is she hot? cos if she is, probably what you did was pretty stupid. That was so lame... :dozey: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
labell Posted June 14, 2004 Share Posted June 14, 2004 yeah ^^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Valleyboy Posted June 14, 2004 Share Posted June 14, 2004 ^ So sensitive :lol: ;) :D That was so lame... :dozey: I'm SOOO sorry, denise *sarcasm detector explodes* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joyce Posted June 14, 2004 Share Posted June 14, 2004 awwwwwwwwwww :embarrased: that history sounds too familiar to me! :cry: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Professor Peedston Posted June 14, 2004 Share Posted June 14, 2004 I think everybody's been in that situation before, and the sad thing is that there's not really anything that can be done to make it better. :/ But the old saying is "time heals all wounds," and that's usually true... eventually. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joyce Posted June 14, 2004 Share Posted June 14, 2004 tell me about it! :dozey: ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sweet One Posted June 14, 2004 Share Posted June 14, 2004 I agree with Tom, time does heal all wounds. :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joyce Posted June 14, 2004 Share Posted June 14, 2004 well....if that´s right I need time!... :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
idsadmin Posted June 14, 2004 Author Share Posted June 14, 2004 Thank you everybody. Guess I was in a morbid mood when I typed out the thread. I'm 29 so simply having "fun" with girls is not my thing. I want a love that consumes me fully. Not that I'm anxiously looking because I'm happy alone. Anyway...gotta love love? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
idsadmin Posted June 14, 2004 Author Share Posted June 14, 2004 Jpyce, you ran into the same situation? Could you share? well....if that´s right I need time!... :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joyce Posted June 14, 2004 Share Posted June 14, 2004 share?...mmm.... :/ is just it´s so recent!...and maybe it was just a silly thing ...well in fact it is...but what a coincidence you broke someone else heart and mine is so broken now! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
idsadmin Posted June 14, 2004 Author Share Posted June 14, 2004 I have had my heart broken and it's one of the worst feelings to endure. I still think of that person on a weekly basis and gave in to the fact that it's a part of my life I won't ever forget But all this heart breaking makes us all stronger. You have to break before being wiser and less susceptible to falling again. Hope your heart mends quickly Joyce. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joyce Posted June 14, 2004 Share Posted June 14, 2004 awww!...thank you...gotta love love... right? :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gvargas Posted June 14, 2004 Share Posted June 14, 2004 :( Sounds so sad...but it was best that you said something if you didn't feel it yourself. Tough situation, but in the end hopefully things will work out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hicksy Posted June 15, 2004 Share Posted June 15, 2004 orange juice maybe it's the answer or maybe not :wink3: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joyce Posted June 15, 2004 Share Posted June 15, 2004 orange juice?...how can that be the answer? :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
°°°Morning°Glory°°° Posted June 16, 2004 Share Posted June 16, 2004 :( I HATE it...the persons I like never see me, the persons that like me I'm not keen on! So I get my heart broken and break other ppls hearts :/ atm, one guy is so in love with me...but I don't feel that much for him...perhaps I'll change my mind if I know him better...I almost PRAY for it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soleil Posted June 17, 2004 Share Posted June 17, 2004 orange juice maybe it's the answer or maybe not :wink3: :lol: :lol: :lol: I shall keep this in mind for my future.. yes, oj cures everything..:stunned: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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