gahr stupid love....the guy I used to have a crush on...I'm really starting to miss him and this times when we went out together and stuff....when I think about it everything is so strange...

 

at least I told my friends here in Bonn tonight that I find him interesting...and too bad my best-friend also does....that pisses me of a bit although I know she will maybe have another boyfriend in some weeks,...(we expect that....)...

 

I just want to be the happy one....this time

Lets say you meet and nice guy/girl in real life and you've been dating for a while and then she/he has to move abroad for X reason ' date=' how can you make that work? Msn? phone calls? letters? All sounds great in theory but not having that person right there by your side and see that person everyday is painful.[/b']

:bigcry::bigcry::bigcry: that's exactly what's about to happen to me :bigcry:

 

he's leaving tomorrow:cry::cry:

Well, long distance relationships don't work most of the time and i'm not talking about internet dating but in general. Lets say you meet and nice guy/girl in real life and you've been dating for a while and then she/he has to move abroad for X reason , how can you make that work? Msn? phone calls? letters? All sounds great in theory but not having that person right there by your side and see that person everyday is painful.Besides, there are other facts we're not taking into account now like, how can you be sure that he/she is not seeing other people? There's no way you can know that and that person will probably prefer spending time with "real" people there than talking to you on the phone or on msn ,see what i mean? But of course that's not always the case, I know this girl from europe who is engaged to this guy she met online and who lives in the states and they travel to see each other every 3 months and spend like 3 weeks together and that's it. I mean, 3 weeks every 3 months and they're engaged? I'm sorry but that wouldn't work for me at all. Personally i wouldn't wanna start a long distance relationship but i'm all for meting friends i met online, that's totally different cos there's no romance involved before i even know them in person but i can say i actually consider some friends i made online like friends i know in real life and care about them.

 

And well for as shallow as this might sound,people actually feels attracted to others for the looks at first and probably would turn down another person who isn't really good looking ( even though that person might be very funny, sweet, honest etc) unless they get to know them( which might take a while in some cases)

 

But hey if people feel happy dating online, go for it! Personally, i prefer the real thing :wink3: Oh, and i'm saying all this in general, i don't know if any of you my fellow boardies are cyber dating but if so, i didn't mean to offend you in any way, just sharing my point of view. :nice:

 

 

Ps. A relationship doesn't work for me without sex mwhahaha :charming:

 

At least someone shares my opinion :P

I have nothing to add really 'cause that was just well said and explained!

(i highlighted the parts i thought were the best points)

Boohoo! what happened? :( Hope you feel better soon! *sends positive energy*

He broke up with me and I'm confused more than ever.

He broke up with me and I'm confused more than ever.

Aww i'm sorry to hear that :( I know the feeling, you just feel lost and this pain inside your chest that won't go away and the only time you feel a bit better is when you sleep and the few secs right after you wake up cos you can't really remember much but then it hits you again and you spend the day feeling awful and listening to sad songs ( or at least that's how it was for me) but trust me, it'll get better eventually.Cheer up!

Yeah .... it'll get better eventually. The whole problem is that I had no idea how he felt about us. I thought it was alright but apparently he didn't feel the same thing as on the beginning. :(

Sometimes people change and when it comes to us guys, we hardly ever say how we really feel but i totally udnerstand for you :( Any chance you can make up and have another try or was a bad break up and you're not even talking to each other ? In any case, i hope you feel better with time.*hugs*

Awww, I'm so sorry to hear that, Nins! :-/

Hope you'll feel better soon. :kiss:

Sometimes people change and when it comes to us guys, we hardly ever say how we really feel but i totally udnerstand for you :( Any chance you can make up and have another try or was a bad break up and you're not even talking to each other ? In any case, i hope you feel better with time.*hugs*

No ... it certainly wasn't a bad break up. I'd love to continue with what we had, but I don't think we have a future. We're not talking to each other, but there was no contact between us since that happened. And ... I don't feel like calling him. Not so soon .... but at the same time I'd like to hear his voice sooo badly..

 

Awww, I'm so sorry to hear that, Nins! :-/

Hope you'll feel better soon. :kiss:

Thank you :nice:

Oh Nina i'm sorry to hear that :(

I hope it'll get better in time (that's what they all say anyway)

*hugs Nina*

I feel so lost ...

I didn't cry today, that's a real success.

 

But ... :blank:

 

Thank you everyone .... I know I'll get over it sooner or later ... but it's so hard since I really want to know what happened .... :bigcry: And I still wanna be his friend sort of ...

 

:blank:

 

 

And today I've just heard that my fav person from our cheerleading team doesn't have time to keep doing it anymore! :bigcry:

I hate "most" men :shame::cry:

walks in.

 

feels ashamed of penis.

 

walks out.

walks in.

 

feels ashamed of penis.

 

walks out.

 

 

I'm sure most of the girl coldplayers would like your penis :nice:

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[/tired]

I like penises.

 

But the one I like the most doesn't like me back.

 

Walks out, too.

 

 

 

(It sounds much better in Slovene though.)

^haha that was funny actually :P

 

But hope you're feeling a bit better Nina:kiss:

I hate to think soooo much about love...I even dream about it at night....argh

I believe it was a famous greek philosopher who said "If philosophy is love, then philosophy is a little boy..."

^

 

I didn't need to know that. :blank:

I hate "most" men :shame::cry:

 

 

i hate myself too :lol:

 

I believe it was a famous greek philosopher who said "If philosophy is love, then philosophy is a little boy..."

 

 

well said

 

there's a grain of truth in it and not only a grain ... ;)

So there's this girl that I 'love' and after she told me she wants to stay friends back in April and after Summer I hadn't seen her for three months and then I see her for the first time I randomly got upset..and it finally hit me. sigh.

 

I don't think any of my friends can really relate to being in love so they don't know the extent of it probably.