Do you confront the problems in your life? Or do you kindof ignore them and let them sort themself out?

 

I used to be like most people and ignore those situations that dont necessarily need to be addressed, for reasons such as awkwardness and conflict. But now I'm different, I like to confront my problems, with people or with myself.

 

Its actually a fantastic gift. It hurts at first, when you have to do it, but when you get past it, you feel like a bigger person and its all out in the open. Your mind just clears.

 

I wish I could do it all the time, be really honest, unfortunately it gets mistaken for personal offense. Ouch.

 

Who confronts things?

 

Confront me sucka and you get knock da fhuck out!!!

My problems are locked in a little tight box that I hide in my mashed potato and swallowed down, down, down to my toes and are released in short, firey bursts that leave victims looking for their heads :nice:

:surprised:

 

Note to self, dont mess with mimi :sick:

If I have a problem, I'm trying to solve it, of course.But if it's a few problems at the same time i'm starting panic, send everybody to hell and hate the world in general.

I don't used to confront my problems, I just do the opposite, I try to ignore them and keep them inside of me although they're still there and one day I'll have to do something for solving them... 'cause rarelly times in life problems are solved without doing anything. :sad: How I wish I could do it!!! Moreover, you've to be self-confident and have enough energies for facing unpleasants moments and I'm not like this. The only thing that I can do is to explain them to the others, so they could give you some advice and partly, I can feel much better, but that's all.

I always keep problems...that makes me sad and depressed on the inside...because I don't tal about it and try to find solutions by myself...that can suckk....

How can you ignore your problems? :huh:

 

Is they're problems they affect you and so you try to solve them, right?

^^Ooops...I think i have failed topic....ok.....we are talking about ignoring...well....I sometimes ignore situations...but problems...not really..

How can you ignore your problems? :huh:

 

Is they're problems they affect you and so you try to solve them, right?

 

 

Charles, we can... just thinking about other matters. Of course they affect me, but there're some awkard situations really hard for facing 'cause of my personality. You've to be really strong for doing it, I guess, and THEORETICALLY, I should try to solve them - and I do it after thinking about what I could do and they way for carrying out the solutions - but anyway, it's hard, so the "easy" but bad solution is ignore them during some time.

^Mmm, maybe I just cannot find any "example" on my life. :thinking:

oh, really?! that's weird... :thinking:

I like to solve my problems all the time.Ignore your problems just make more problems.

 

Is not easy,but confrontation is a good option.

I like confronting my problems sometimes,but mostly I let them solve for themselves,which happens really often. If not, I just do catharsis by taking ot on some people for a while...it's fun

Hmmm i dont know, sometimes its easy for me to deal with problems, i just believe that there's a solution for every single problem but sometimes that's just too hard... especially when it comes down to love problems gah

it takes a weight off my shoulders if i confront my problems, it may not be immediate but sooner or later i know i have to deal with them.

 

sometimes i keep them to myself in a hope that they will sort themselves out because i have a feeling that it would only makes matters worse if i said anything.

 

and then theres the whole love relationships issue

i just give up straight away too hard

I ignore stuff to an extent until I HAVE to sort it out