yeah...fuckers. I really hope i won't be like that! Dooh, not that there's anything i should worry about yet :P

And yeah, he was with some crappy girl before and it was pretty much an on/off relationship and i told him that i'm not gonna listen to that crap anymore and that if they break up i'm not gonna be there to comfort him. Just 'cause i told him before after some crying over the girl that it's not gonna work and that it's totally stupid to be with that girl doh. So yeah, i know i was a bitch but hey, i got no whining.

 

 

Aw, nice to hear you've got someone like that. True friends are always needed!

Oh you're gonna be like that i just known it, you heartless biatch!! :bigcry:

But hey you did good, i mean friends are suppose to tell the truth or say your honest opinion about something but if they can't take it then it's no your fault .

And yesh! too bad she is living abroad now and i don't really have very close friends whom i can open up and talk about anything but dont know, i dont really care too much about it hehe

 

Btw, all those doh's make you sound like homer simpson :lol:

Yay, that friend of yours is awesome!

My boyfriend has got quite interesting opinions, for example the girlfriend/friends opinion. 3 days ago we were talking about our relationship and he told me something like friends were more important for him that girlfriends. Because he has the friends for 10 years or something, and he knows the girlfriend (for example me) for half a year. He says that friends are always the same, but girlfriends come and leave.

 

ah..i think i kind of agree with him. Well, friends come and go as well..but girlfriends come and go more often.

 

And i'm talking about teenage relationships now. But that's just the way it is! People get together, have some good time and then they move to something else.

It's just a fact.

Well yeah, of course there are some couples that will stick together till the end (like my parents, they've been together since my mum was 15)

 

Oh you're gonna be like that i just known it, you heartless biatch!! :bigcry:

But hey you did good, i mean friends are suppose to tell the truth or say your honest opinion about something but if they can't take it then it's no your fault .

And yesh! too bad she is living abroad now and i don't really have very close friends whom i can open up and talk about anything but dont know, i dont really care too much about it hehe

 

Btw, all those doh's make you sound like homer simpson :lol:

 

 

Nooo, i'll at least try hard not to be like that! :disappointed:

Myeah.. but if i see that something's going so wrong i just can't shut up about it.. i can't watch people ruin years with pointless things bah.

 

Oooh, i'm turning into Homer. just look at my belly :charming:

@Magda's post:ah well....I think he's had 4 girlfriends so far (if I got that right...)...he loves to compliment women...but he says he's an idiot....he says so often ".....if I'll be lucky one day and have a woman...."...and almost desperate because mostly gay men start talking to him at parties...and no women....hahaha....I think this is a thing that really pisses him off....

 

and another thing is that he can't be unfriendly if he does not really like somebody...you know we met this friend of a friend of us at a party....they started talking about music....and they discussed...he was drunk....when we went home together he said that she was so stupid and ah he was really angry about her...but now he is still friendly in front of her...and acts as if he likes her...ou know that's why it's sometimes so hard for me to know if he likes me or not...although this question is already solved...I think (again) he is the same like me there....we tell each other what we think about each other only when we are drunk...haha quite funny...and what he has told me so far (when we were drunk) in case what he thinks about me is exactly the same what I think about him....funny,..I mean when we are drunk he says sooo many nice things to me and makes me feel special....ah so now I think he is like me...because I only do that when I am drunk, too....grr..:wacky:

 

 

sorry my posts are in a quite bad language and confusing currently....but they only mirror my confused mind haha

 

I know what you mean... Well it annoys me when I talk to someone and he seems friendly to me and he's quite fine with me, and then I discover that he doesn't like me.

 

Actually it's quite difficult to work your text out :lol:

ah..i think i kind of agree with him. Well, friends come and go as well..but girlfriends come and go more often.

 

And i'm talking about teenage relationships now. But that's just the way it is! People get together, have some good time and then they move to something else.

It's just a fact.

Well yeah, of course there are some couples that will stick together till the end (like my parents, they've been together since my mum was 15)

 

 

 

 

 

 

Yay, your parents are cool. :cool:

Anyway, I think he could behave in a different way to me. We've been together for 4 months. The first two months were all right, but since the new year, he doesn't behave like at the beginning. It annoys me, cause now, he's at the mountains and he didn't give me a call since he left (Saturday)... I've written him an SMS and he replied after a day... I really miss him... He told me he missed me too, but he doesn't need to write to me all the time... I don't like this way... I need him to write to me! I've told him this for many times, but he doesn't mind. He's just like this, he won't change..

Yay, that friend of yours is awesome!

My boyfriend has got quite interesting opinions, for example the girlfriend/friends opinion. 3 days ago we were talking about our relationship and he told me something like friends were more important for him that girlfriends. Because he has the friends for 10 years or something, and he knows the girlfriend (for example me) for half a year. He says that friends are always the same, but girlfriends come and leave.

Oh yesh! she's one in a million :D

I kinda think the same but the way your bf made it sound ( especially if he said the exact same thing to you) it's a bit harsh in my opinion. I know that when you have a bf/gf , your world spins around that special person but that doesn't mean you have to forget about your good old buddies. And lets say any kind of relationship doesnt work out then it's not the end, if you have a clean break up then you can still be friends with that person and who knows, maybe get back together someday if you both want it. But i wouldnt say that my friends will always be more important than my gf, and that this is just something for the moment cos my gf would be a very important person in my life . I'd try to introduce her to all of my friends and hang out together so they can get to know her and just hang out you know? We'd have plenty of time for the 2 of us after all so yup. I just hate it when for example this friend i have met this guy for 2 week and she said she was in love with him and forgot about all of her friends( including me) who had been by her side for like 9 years now, that totally sucks.

Nooo, i'll at least try hard not to be like that! :disappointed:

Myeah.. but if i see that something's going so wrong i just can't shut up about it.. i can't watch people ruin years with pointless things bah.

 

Oooh, i'm turning into Homer. just look at my belly :charming:

 

Yeah riiiiiiiight! the moment ykw asks you to be his gf , you'll forget about us! :bigcry:

 

Whoa! what a belly but i think you're expecting chinless babies doh! :wacky:

 

And awwww your parents have been together since they were teens? that's sooo sweet! that's very rare laely, that a teen couple stick together and get married and all aww :blush:

Yay, your parents are cool. :cool:

Anyway, I think he could behave in a different way to me. We've been together for 4 months. The first two months were all right, but since the new year, he doesn't behave like at the beginning. It annoys me, cause now, he's at the mountains and he didn't give me a call since he left (Saturday)... I've written him an SMS and he replied after a day... I really miss him... He told me he missed me too, but he doesn't need to write to me all the time... I don't like this way... I need him to write to me! I've told him this for many times, but he doesn't mind. He's just like this, he won't change..

 

 

Hmm..that would annoy me as well. When i send a txt to someone i do expect to get an answer withing the next few hours..and it really pisses me off if i don't receive anything bah.

But maybe he's just been busy.. ?

Do you usually txt often? If so then i'd get a bit worried but if he's always been like that then it's probably nothing..

 

Oh yesh! she's one in a million :D

I kinda think the same but the way your bf made it sound ( especially if he said the exact same thing to you) it's a bit harsh in my opinion. I know that when you have a bf/gf , your world spins around that special person but that doesn't mean you have to forget about your good old buddies. And lets say any kind of relationship doesnt work out then it's not the end, if you have a clean break up then you can still be friends with that person and who knows, maybe get back together someday if you both want it. But i wouldnt say that my friends will always be more important than my gf, and that this is just something for the moment cos my gf would be a very important person in my life . I'd try to introduce her to all of my friends and hang out together so they can get to know her and just hang out you know? We'd have plenty of time for the 2 of us after all so yup. I just hate it when for example this friend i have met this guy for 2 week and she said she was in love with him and forgot about all of her friends( including me) who had been by her side for like 9 years now, that totally sucks.

 

Myeah well that's true. I think the best case would be that the girlfriend and the other friends would hang out all together. But hey, both of the people in the relationship need some own time, too.. It's not healthy to be together 24/7

 

Bah, i actually lost a friend that way..she even said that she thought that she wouldn't need her old friends anymore after she got him. So she spent every minute with the guy.. haven't heard of the girl in 6 months or so but the last time i did i heard that they seriously aren't doing that well.. (the guy was living over my other friend's place and according to the girlfriend the guy was making out with the girl or what the hell) but they decided to go back together and i haven't heard of them since

Oh yesh! she's one in a million :D

I kinda think the same but the way your bf made it sound ( especially if he said the exact same thing to you) it's a bit harsh in my opinion. I know that when you have a bf/gf , your world spins around that special person but that doesn't mean you have to forget about your good old buddies. And lets say any kind of relationship doesnt work out then it's not the end, if you have a clean break up then you can still be friends with that person and who knows, maybe get back together someday if you both want it. But i wouldnt say that my friends will always be more important than my gf, and that this is just something for the moment cos my gf would be a very important person in my life . I'd try to introduce her to all of my friends and hang out together so they can get to know her and just hang out you know? We'd have plenty of time for the 2 of us after all so yup. I just hate it when for example this friend i have met this guy for 2 week and she said she was in love with him and forgot about all of her friends( including me) who had been by her side for like 9 years now, that totally sucks.

 

 

 

I absolutely know how you must've felt.

I know I'm not as important as his friends now, cause we've been together just for 4 months, I think that if we were be together for a year or something, he would behave in a different way. We'll see. You know, he's a really complicated person, I've never met anyone like him.

Yeah riiiiiiiight! the moment ykw asks you to be his gf , you'll forget about us! :bigcry:

 

Whoa! what a belly but i think you're expecting chinless babies doh! :wacky:

 

And awwww your parents have been together since they were teens? that's sooo sweet! that's very rare laely, that a teen couple stick together and get married and all aww :blush:

 

 

Hell no! I'll stick with you all till the end :nice:

 

hahaha yeah i know...chinless bab(i)es :disappointed:

I wonder whether they're hairy or not..

 

and yup, been together ever since! I'm not sure whether i could do that or not though :lol:

I get sick of people quite quickly boo.. But maybe i'll be able to stand someone if i meet the love of my life :charming:

Myeah well that's true. I think the best case would be that the girlfriend and the other friends would hang out all together. But hey, both of the people in the relationship need some own time, too.. It's not healthy to be together 24/7

 

Bah, i actually lost a friend that way..she even said that she thought that she wouldn't need her old friends anymore after she got him. So she spent every minute with the guy.. haven't heard of the girl in 6 months or so but the last time i did i heard that they seriously aren't doing that well.. (the guy was living over my other friend's place and according to the girlfriend the guy was making out with the girl or what the hell) but they decided to go back together and i haven't heard of them since

 

Oh i agree, a couple need their own space and not being together all the time is healthy for a good relationship But if you ask me, its kinda sick when you totally build your whole world around one single person ( boyfriend/girlfriend) and say " ok, screw you guys, i dont need you anymore cos i got him/her " and then that special one leaves you, I mean, you'd be totally devastated and depressed and on top of that, you'd have no friends or if you do then it wouldnt be the same anymore cos they'd remember you turned their back on them.

Bah, i don't know what i'm still talking about this but damn, i totally hate when a friend behaves like that!

Hmm..that would annoy me as well. When i send a txt to someone i do expect to get an answer withing the next few hours..and it really pisses me off if i don't receive anything bah.

But maybe he's just been busy.. ?

Do you usually txt often? If so then i'd get a bit worried but if he's always been like that then it's probably nothing..

 

 

 

 

Well, he doesn't text me a lot. Just when he needs something or when he needs to arrange a date with me. He sometimes just forgets his cell phone in his coat, and he replies at night.

I was at the mountains with my school a month ago, and I was in a room with 3 other girls. And all of them had boyfriends, and the boyfriends called them every evening and stuff. And my boyfriend didn't even call me, I felt a bit useless and such. A horrible feeling.. I told him I was sad because of it and he told me he was sorry... The problem is that he's really charismatic and I forgive him almost everything..

I absolutely know how you must've felt.

I know I'm not as important as his friends now, cause we've been together just for 4 months, I think that if we were be together for a year or something, he would behave in a different way. We'll see. You know, he's a really complicated person, I've never met anyone like him.

Aww but that sucks, i mean.. the minute you commit to someone then you must give that special person the attention and care he/she needs otherwise, why being together, right?

The experiences i had with friends are totally opposite to the way your boyfriend is , he seems to care way more for his friends which is ok but you're his girlfriend after all and it doesnt matter if you've been together for 4 months or 2 years, it should be the same and give ya some kind of prority without forgetting his old friends.

In any case, i think it's not good to go to the extremes like caring waaay too much about your friends and leaving your gf/bf aside or caring waaaaaaay too much for your bf/gf and leaving your friends out as if they didnt exist.. i believe something in the middle would be just fine.

Oh i agree, a couple need their own space and not being together all the time is healthy for a good relationship But if you ask me, its kinda sick when you totally build your whole world around one single person ( boyfriend/girlfriend) and say " ok, screw you guys, i dont need you anymore cos i got him/her " and then that special one leaves you, I mean, you'd be totally devastated and depressed and on top of that, you'd have no friends or if you do then it wouldnt be the same anymore cos they'd remember you turned their back on them.

Bah, i don't know what i'm still talking about this but damn, i totally hate when a friend behaves like that!

 

 

Yeah well the girl came crying to me after she had heard what her boyfriend had been doing there and i was a bit on her side too..although she was a bitch to us.

But she really has no friends now.. and i do feel bad for her but at the same time it was all HER fault. HER decision. We even spend time with her & her boyfriend before it all got akward but she just wanted to leave all the time and was all pathetic..

But nah, i don't really give a shit anymore.

 

We have our reasons to complain :P

Hell no! I'll stick with you all till the end :nice:

 

hahaha yeah i know...chinless bab(i)es :disappointed:

I wonder whether they're hairy or not..

 

and yup, been together ever since! I'm not sure whether i could do that or not though :lol:

I get sick of people quite quickly boo.. But maybe i'll be able to stand someone if i meet the love of my life :charming:

I'll take your word :wacko:

But you better dont leave me and then ask me to comfort you when Mc leaves you! mwhahaha

 

I get sick of myself from time to time so i'm sure you wouldnt stand me for more than 3 mins :lol:

 

And pleeease pretty pleeease dont make me imagine hairy chinless babies :disappointed:

Well, he doesn't text me a lot. Just when he needs something or when he needs to arrange a date with me. He sometimes just forgets his cell phone in his coat, and he replies at night.

I was at the mountains with my school a month ago, and I was in a room with 3 other girls. And all of them had boyfriends, and the boyfriends called them every evening and stuff. And my boyfriend didn't even call me, I felt a bit useless and such. A horrible feeling.. I told him I was sad because of it and he told me he was sorry... The problem is that he's really charismatic and I forgive him almost everything..

 

Gah..that really must suck..

But you really should tell him that damn this is over now! that he can't treat you like that.

Because that's really not fair. I'd be fucking mad and we probably would've had a fight about it already hah..but that's just me.

I'll take your word :wacko:

But you better dont leave me and then ask me to comfort you when Mc leaves you! mwhahaha

 

I get sick of myself from time to time so i'm sure you wouldnt stand me for more than 3 mins :lol:

 

And pleeease pretty pleeease dont make me imagine hairy chinless babies :disappointed:

 

You'd better! I'm telling the truth on this one! I'd never be such a bitch bah..

 

 

Haha, i have the same problem sometimes :wacko: and sometimes i notice too late that i've said something BAD and probably insulted my friends..but i really don't mean to :disappointed:

 

Oooh pretty please DO imagine hairy chinless babies :devil:

Yeah well the girl came crying to me after she had heard what her boyfriend had been doing there and i was a bit on her side too..although she was a bitch to us.

But she really has no friends now.. and i do feel bad for her but at the same time it was all HER fault. HER decision. We even spend time with her & her boyfriend before it all got akward but she just wanted to leave all the time and was all pathetic..

But nah, i don't really give a shit anymore.

 

We have our reasons to complain :P

Oh way to goooo! Payback is a bitch eh? But seriously, they bring that upon themselves anyway. I dont mind if a friend just cut off a friendship but i hate it when that friend just comes back and bugs ya non-stop cos has no one to talk to after, bastards!

But hey, i have to go to bed now so that i get enough sleep..

 

okay, i know i won't but i can try!

 

Bye bye Ren and Magda. Have a good evening.

And magda: i hope you'll get things sorted out with your boyfriend

 

Good night :kiss: Was nice to rant a bit

Gah..that really must suck..

But you really should tell him that damn this is over now! that he can't treat you like that.

Because that's really not fair. I'd be fucking mad and we probably would've had a fight about it already hah..but that's just me.

 

I'm mad about him almost all the time.. His previous girlfriend was doing what he wanted her to do. But I'm not like her, when I don't like something, I exclaim.

Anyway, he tells me I'm looking for some mistakes on him all the time, though it's not true, it's just the only one thing I don't like.

Though I'm angry about him, I forgive him almost everything.

You'd better! I'm telling the truth on this one! I'd never be such a bitch bah..

 

 

Haha, i have the same problem sometimes :wacko: and sometimes i notice too late that i've said something BAD and probably insulted my friends..but i really don't mean to :disappointed:

 

Oooh pretty please DO imagine hairy chinless babies :devil:

Weeeeee :dance:

 

Oh same here, but sometimes my wackyness takes over and i have to understand that not eveyone is as open-minded as i am so boohooo :bigcry:

 

Alright, i'll imagine hairy chinless babies with your eyes and haircut :blush:

But hey, i have to go to bed now so that i get enough sleep..

 

okay, i know i won't but i can try!

 

Bye bye Ren and Magda. Have a good evening.

And magda: i hope you'll get things sorted out with your boyfriend

 

Good night :kiss: Was nice to rant a bit

 

Thanks a lot, Rolle, I'll let you know if things change ;)

 

Good night! ;)

But hey, i have to go to bed now so that i get enough sleep..

 

okay, i know i won't but i can try!

 

Bye bye Ren and Magda. Have a good evening.

And magda: i hope you'll get things sorted out with your boyfriend

 

Good night :kiss: Was nice to rant a bit

Aww nighty nigh Rolly :kiss:

It's just me and you, big boy :sneaky:

*looks around*

 

me? :curtain:

*looks around*

 

me? :curtain:

 

Obviously :sneaky: