Mwha same here....I also think that I'm rather boring and random....but on the other hand I think that I am definitely not!Becuase when I look at all the other girls....there is definitely nothing special about them...and sometimes I feel that they are so different from me....which makes me special...so actually I am not a random person...bah so many people have told me this....but no guy seems to love it.....:bigcry:

 

Myeah well i have the exactly same feelings.

Sometimes i do feel special. And sometimes i'm like "what the hell? There are 100 wiser, prettier, more interesting girls out there"

But most of the time i know i'm unique and that i'm really worth of something..unline those girl-gangs where all the girls look the same bah.

 

And yeah.. I'm still waiting for some guy to tell me that thing. That's what i want! a guy telling me that i'm something special.. :gorgeous:

Oh yeah...-well actually that guy who this thread is about even told me that I'm special in many ways....but well I think that didn't mean anything...

Haha well my other problem is that i can't take compliments seriously!

I always think that people only say those things because they feel like they have to. That's one of the reasons for the lack of me posting pictures here too.. :P

And if my friend says something nice to me i just can't take it seriously. Of course i think that it's nice to hear that but then again it's not the same if a friend says that i look nice if there's a guy saying the same thing.

A guy who doesn't know me yet. A guy who doesn't know that i can't take compliments. A guy who doesn't feel like he HAS to say something to make me happy.

It's usually just a waste of compliments if someone says me something nice. Mwah.

 

I'm getting used to it now though..and sometimes i even believe the stuff people say :nice:

whhhaaaa Rolle....seriously I so can see myself in yourself....I mean some years ago it was exactly the same....I couldn't take compliments either, but nowadays I can...and I think I am able to notice if someone means it seriously or not....

haha actually I didn't want to post in this thread anymore...because I don't think that we will ever be more than just good friends...but right now I'm so bored and I miss him (although the last time I've seen him was erm last night...:wacky:)....before this weekend I hadn't seen him for 4 weeks....friday night we went out together...and he said to me that he is so happy about the fact that we go out together that often...hehe...last night we went out together....ha actually I feel quite honoured that he said this to me and that he enjoys going out with me,...just like I do...

 

it's funny.,...I don't know how many people have told us so far that we are so cute together....because when we are together we obviously sometimes act like a married couple or something...like yesterday....he was talking to a friend of mine I was sitting next to him and he said "ah there is this german music prize.....ah wait...I have to think how it is called...." and i just said "Echo" he said "ha thanks" and continued talking...haha doesn't sound spectacular, but things like that happen at least twice a evening....so my friend said "haha you two are so cute"...and we were both like "erm...why?....no....ah......well...."...I didn't know what to say about that, because I wish we were....and then he finally said "Yeah that's because we just know that we can rely on each other"....hehe...

 

another friend once said she could listen to us for hours because it's so funny how cute we are together....sometimes we just like to argue like a married couple...ha and you can even see that my opinion seems to count for him, because he says he is always right and people who say something else are stupid...but former experience has shown that this isn't true....mwha so we sometimes start argueing because of that...yes he can be quite arrogant...but in front of me he isn't anymore...an honour (for me)..

 

I seriously don't know what to think anymore....(how often did I already say this in this thread?)

 

 

:bigcry:

this story made me willing to cry:cry::cry::cry::cry::cry:

HAHAHA!Are you joking?:wacky:

Hmm.. Well, i'm glad you went out with him again!

But hey..if people have started to say those things about you two maybe it's not totally pointless! I mean, maybe the guy knows what it looks like when you are with him and does it on purpose!

Especially if more than one person has said that to you two..he could've changed his behaviour if he didn't like that, right? But he just keeps on going ha!

 

 

Ah and btw, i once talked about this guy at my school. And i said that i don't know whether i'm just imagining it all or if he's actually staring me. Well, i was wrong.

It's nothing like that...obviously. And now i feel super stupid for thinking of anything like that.. haha. But that's so typical to me

oh Rolle actually I don't think that he does it on purpose....I don't even think that he thinks about it and I don't think about it as well.....it's just the way we act....when you act you don't seriously think about it before...you just do it...

 

haha it's so damn funny to read my first posts in this thread....when I didn't know anything about him...I mean when I read my first post in here...these signs didn'*t mean anything....he's nice to everyone when he first meets them....but that made it so hard for me that find out if he likes me or not...hehe a friend of mine and me talked about this yesterday...she felt the same way....I'm really glad we know each other quite well now..

 

what's also funny is that my friends who know both of us sometimes act as if we were a couple...they always tell me I should ask him if he wants to go out with us although I'm not the one who plans the evening...today a friend asked me if we have planned something for the evening...(she didn't actually want to go out...)...you know just like I would ask her if she has planned something with her boyfriend...they also ask me if they want to know something about him e.g. what he has planned for the evening....haha...I'd like to know what they think of us...

 

 

 

awwww that's too bad Rolle...:(

I know this feeling although I never went that far and asked somebody...there were so many times that I started to interprete things and after all I was so wrong...a while back there was this guy from my school...he was in my grade and we went on a "class trip" for one week....he used to give me compliments and I got the impression that he was interested in me....so I had a crush on him....also because he used to talk to a good friend of mine a lot during this trip and they were sitting alone at the beach and they were talking....whahaha and I was thinking that they were talking about me because when I went to them they said that they wanted to be alone....so 5 months later at my birthday party this good friend told us that he had a huge crush on another good friend of us and that they talked about her...bah I felt so stupid...

So it's bad news on the Julia getting a boyfriend side :(

oh Rolle actually I don't think that he does it on purpose....I don't even think that he thinks about it and I don't think about it as well.....it's just the way we act....when you act you don't seriously think about it before...you just do it...

 

haha it's so damn funny to read my first posts in this thread....when I didn't know anything about him...I mean when I read my first post in here...these signs didn'*t mean anything....he's nice to everyone when he first meets them....but that made it so hard for me that find out if he likes me or not...hehe a friend of mine and me talked about this yesterday...she felt the same way....I'm really glad we know each other quite well now..

 

what's also funny is that my friends who know both of us sometimes act as if we were a couple...they always tell me I should ask him if he wants to go out with us although I'm not the one who plans the evening...today a friend asked me if we have planned something for the evening...(she didn't actually want to go out...)...you know just like I would ask her if she has planned something with her boyfriend...they also ask me if they want to know something about him e.g. what he has planned for the evening....haha...I'd like to know what they think of us...

 

 

 

awwww that's too bad Rolle...:(

I know this feeling although I never went that far and asked somebody...there were so many times that I started to interprete things and after all I was so wrong...a while back there was this guy from my school...he was in my grade and we went on a "class trip" for one week....he used to give me compliments and I got the impression that he was interested in me....so I had a crush on him....also because he used to talk to a good friend of mine a lot during this trip and they were sitting alone at the beach and they were talking....whahaha and I was thinking that they were talking about me because when I went to them they said that they wanted to be alone....so 5 months later at my birthday party this good friend told us that he had a huge crush on another good friend of us and that they talked about her...bah I felt so stupid...

 

Oh..well it's still a good thing that you get along so well!

It's always a great thing to have someone that you can count on and have fun with!

 

 

A nd no no no! i never actually went to talk to him..i'm not that brave haha. But i just know it. I just always tend to make my own conclusions about things..and end up being all silly. Mwah. But it's not really that bad. I'm not sad or anything. He's still an eyecandy hahaha

hmmm well actually I'd say that the situation is even better now than at the beginning of this thread....although I was really hopeful at the beginning and now I'm not that much anymore,because I mean we know each other for something like 5 months now....and if he wanted me there should have happened something during this time.,...

 

 

buuut on the other hand I think he actually is shy when it comes to women....so many times that he said he so doesn't dare to start talking to a woman in a club who he finds attractive...

 

so well I'm still confused....I mean every night we walk home together we have the best conversations and he tells me so many nice things...like what he thinks about me and how happy he is that I am here and stuff.....

 

for some reason I think that he doesn't find me attractive....ok he's called me beautiful woman several times but a) he does to many women and b) that doesn't mean that he is attracted to me..

Oh..well it's still a good thing that you get along so well!

It's always a great thing to have someone that you can count on and have fun with!

 

 

A nd no no no! i never actually went to talk to him..i'm not that brave haha. But i just know it. I just always tend to make my own conclusions about things..and end up being all silly. Mwah. But it's not really that bad. I'm not sad or anything. He's still an eyecandy hahaha

 

hell yeah this is so true.....but if you have a small crush on somebody you obviously don't really see that because you want more....but when I think about it I'm really really really happy to know him and to have this special relationship to him (although it's not THE relationship)....I'm just afraid of the day when he comes and has a girlfriend....

 

 

 

oooh I though you talked to him....I must have gotten this wrong....so well it's the same like me...I also always make my own conclusion and often fail....:wacky:

awww JULIA!!! *hugs* I just hope his name's not Romeo :(

 

AWWWW :blush: :happy: I really hope you're something special for him, you deserve someone who's at least that nice! :nice:

 

hahahah I jsut had to quote that becuase on friday night he said "Wow I'm out with two Julias (there was another friend of him) now I feel like the double Romeo I have to put this day in a frame that I always remember it"...:wacky:

 

 

whahaha it's so funny to read this thread again....and some things are actually ridiculous...there were so many things I was wishing for and currently I just take those things for granted (like going out with him...)...when I'm together with him I don't really realise how great it is to be his friend....but when I am alone and think of him then I realise that I should be so happy...I think I wouldn't even realise if he said to me "I want you" or something like that...even then I would think he wasn't serious.....that's my problem...

haha my 4th post in a row, but I've got such a cuuuuuute piccie of him on my laptop which I have taken......yes he also went with us to the toy shop....and now I'd love to show you but I don't dare...:uhoh:

Dare you to upload it ;)

oh yes! i'd like to see Mr. Special! :nice:

Show it! And why dont you tell him your feelings? I think you'd feel much better if you told him.

 

A friend of me told me almost a year ago he likes me, but i didnt like him atm..But now we are so much closer. I'm almost every day at his place..(playing guitarhero :P)And i know he still likes me. I just dont know if i like him :\

I really want to be with him and its nice if we hug, but i dont know if i have any more feelings about him :\

ok ok....uno momento.,..but I'll delete it after a while,.....:uhoh:

Now I feel bad...:mean:

Cute

why?

 

he's quite nice! not my type i guess, but nice :nice: he's probably very funny, right?

haha because I've uploaded a pic of him without his permission...:wacky:

 

 

heee well I think I don't really have a type...for me the character makes somebody pretty, cute or interesting or whatever,....and well it's just the way he acts that makes him so cute for me...hehe...and yes he is really funny although he can also be an asshole....:uhoh:

*considers being mean to Jules*

 

But then again, what can I do, with you can't come in and un-do?

which guy can't be an asshole? ;)

 

however. you're right, his character makes him cute, nice, interesting etc. :) but there probably is a guy type you'd rather look at than at others...