Rawr! :whip:

 

 

Random but somehow everyone is turning a bit pervy hahaha i blame rolly for this :lol:

Rawr! :whip:

 

 

Random but somehow everyone is turning a bit pervy hahaha i blame rolly for this :lol:

 

Yeah, I've also noticed that :lol: It's quite interesting :lol: This board is becoming more and more pervy and full of double-meaning sentences and stuff :D

haha the funny thing is that I told him that I'll come to Bonn tomorrow or the day after....he just said "ah ok..."...but for some reason I've got the impression that he wants me to ask him this time...which could also be a bunch of bullshit...and I just think that because I want it to be like that haha....but well it was just so strange that he wrote me this sms on saturday night when he was at a party asking me stuff about uni....that was really strange...hahah

 

Do it!

 

He's always the one who's asking you to go out, right?

So I bet that he's expecting you to do this too at times.

 

And I'm sure he really wants to meet you on Weds.

Yeah, I've also noticed that :lol: It's quite interesting :lol: This board is becoming more and more pervy and full of double-meaning sentences and stuff :D

haha yup, but it's soo much fun :P

Anyway, i have to go but it was a pleasure talking to you and hope things get better with your boyfriend *sends positive energy*

 

Nighty night Magda :kiss:

haha yup, but it's soo much fun :P

Anyway, i have to go but it was a pleasure talking to you and hope things get better with your boyfriend *sends positive energy*

 

Nighty night Magda :kiss:

 

Thanks a lot, Ren, I'll let you know;) *recieves the energy*

 

Good night!

I'm mad about him almost all the time.. His previous girlfriend was doing what he wanted her to do. But I'm not like her, when I don't like something, I exclaim.

Anyway, he tells me I'm looking for some mistakes on him all the time, though it's not true, it's just the only one thing I don't like.

Though I'm angry about him, I forgive him almost everything.

i wanted to quote something else but i was rickrolled again so ...:angry:

 

Magda, talk to him wehn he comes back home and tell him what's the matter. in a calm way ;) he cant write you an sms just when he needs something ... that's rude.

but ... dont start writing messages to him like mad, being angry and stuff ... i think you know how the thing ended with my previous boyfi, although that was a bit more complicated ;)

 

Julia, do it do it! :dance:

i wanted to quote something else but i was rickrolled again so ...:angry:

 

Magda, talk to him wehn he comes back home and tell him what's the matter. in a calm way ;) he cant write you an sms just when he needs something ... that's rude.

but ... dont start writing messages to him like mad, being angry and stuff ... i think you know how the thing ended with my previous boyfi, although that was a bit more complicated ;)

 

Julia, do it do it! :dance:

 

I know what I should do. But he likes talking, I mean, he's interesting in politilogy and stuff, so he can talk really convincingly.

 

On Friday, I was at a ball, and I met one guy there. I've already known him, but we started to talk a lot with each other and when he was leaving, he kissed me.Since then we've been texting to each other a lot and stuff. He's at the mountains and today, we were supposed to go somewhere to ski, and my mum chose the same ski centre where he was. We met there and we were skiing all day together, it was really nice. He knows I've got a boyfriend, I was talking with him about my "problems". And I also know, he has a girlfriend. So I thought, alright, it wouldn't be anything special. But the day was really awesome and when I came home, he texted me something like "Hi, I need to tell you what's on my mind. I really liked the day with you, and I hope you miss me a bit." I was just going "Wtf?"..

I like him a lot, I know I shouldn't damage my relationship and his relationship, but I can't help it...

On Friday, I was at a ball, and I met one guy there. I've already known him, but we started to talk a lot with each other and when he was leaving, he kissed me.Since then we've been texting to each other a lot and stuff. He's at the mountains and today, we were supposed to go somewhere to ski, and my mum chose the same ski centre where he was. We met there and we were skiing all day together, it was really nice. He knows I've got a boyfriend, I was talking with him about my "problems". And I also know, he has a girlfriend. So I thought, alright, it wouldn't be anything special. But the day was really awesome and when I came home, he texted me something like "Hi, I need to tell you what's on my mind. I really liked the day with you, and I hope you miss me a bit." I was just going "Wtf?"..

I like him a lot, I know I shouldn't damage my relationship and his relationship, but I can't help it...

 

Ow, that's pretty complicated. I think you just should take your time and think about things..think whether it'd be better to stay the way you two are now or change it.

 

I really can't give any wise advice because i really have no experience of that kind of situations :\

Ow, that's pretty complicated. I think you just should take your time and think about things..think whether it'd be better to stay the way you two are now or change it.

 

I really can't give any wise advice because i really have no experience of that kind of situations :\

 

I know.. but i was thinking about my recent situation... the relationship should be full of happiness and stuff, shouldn't it? i mean, my recent relationship brings me just stress and stuff.. i'm starting to think about the end of my relationship. seriously. or maybe it's just today, and it's just that my bf's gone and he doesn't give me a ring or such.

Well..to be honest, it really sounds like he's being quite unfair. :S

But i of course can't know what it's reall like..but yeah..talk with your boyfriend when he gets back and tell him what you think about your situation with him. Maybe he'll realize that he's been doing things wrong. And if he doesn't..well, i'd just leave the whole thing then. There's no point to waste your time in a relationship where you don't get treated well.

Well..to be honest, it really sounds like he's being quite unfair. :S

But i of course can't know what it's reall like..but yeah..talk with your boyfriend when he gets back and tell him what you think about your situation with him. Maybe he'll realize that he's been doing things wrong. And if he doesn't..well, i'd just leave the whole thing then. There's no point to waste your time in a relationship where you don't get treated well.

 

yeah, that's exactly what i'm going to do. if i tell him what i really think, he might be a bit scared i wanna break up with him, and he'll try his best. otherwise i don't think our relationship has got its future.

Hmmm ... just be sincere to him .. i think he will get your point then ... and talk about what you both want to have from each other. not like in the future, but at the moment. but this can be hard. :confused:

Hmmm ... just be sincere to him .. i think he will get your point then ... and talk about what you both want to have from each other. not like in the future, but at the moment. but this can be hard. :confused:

 

yeah, it's kinda hard. i'll try it.

Well..to be honest, it really sounds like he's being quite unfair. :S

But i of course can't know what it's reall like..but yeah..talk with your boyfriend when he gets back and tell him what you think about your situation with him. Maybe he'll realize that he's been doing things wrong. And if he doesn't..well, i'd just leave the whole thing then. There's no point to waste your time in a relationship where you don't get treated well.

 

I completely agree with you.

 

There's no point in prolonguing a relationship that makes you feel bad.

 

Also, during the first months of ANY relantionship of this kind both girl and boy need their partner more than ever and they (usually) give it all to each other... after one year or even a bit more of having a bf things settle down and it is by then when it could happen what's going on to you... though, if it was my case, I'd leave him.

 

And I know it's so easy to say: "well, if things don't work with him, then split up" but so hard to do. It's just something that requires time.

 

Once, a long time ago, I was about to split up with my bf because he was giving me a hard time and just the day that I had planned to tell him "it's over", we had a serious chat and he changed straight away... It was all unbelievable. After a year (or more) of that day, I spoke to him and asked what happened, what made him change that way? And he told me that, he realised that it was the last straw and that if he hadn't changed, I'd have left him, for sure.

I completely agree with you.

 

There's no point in prolonguing a relationship that makes you feel bad.

 

Also, during the first months of ANY relantionship of this kind both girl and boy need their partner more than ever and they (usually) give it all to each other... after one year or even a bit more of having a bf things settle down and it is by then when it could happen what's going on to you... though, if it was my case, I'd leave him.

 

And I know it's so easy to say: "well, if things don't work with him, then split up" but so hard to do. It's just something that requires time.

 

Once, a long time ago, I was about to split up with my bf because he was giving me a hard time and just the day that I had planned to tell him "it's over", we had a serious chat and he changed straight away... It was all unbelievable. After a year (or more) of that day, I spoke to him and asked what happened, what made him change that way? And he told me that, he realised that it was the last straw and that if he hadn't changed, I'd have left him, for sure.

 

 

I see. I'll try this then. Well, I think he's a bit flegmatic in these things. I can't imagine, what his reaction will be like. I know I'm talking to myself like: "Alright, I'll tell him to think about our relationship." but then, when I meet him, I know I'll never say this. But I can try at least. I mean, I'm not that sure that he'll change his behaviour after talking with him... :\

oh, Magda, Im sorry to hear this! I so understand how you feel (in spite of having gone through something similar a long time ago).

 

I didn't mean with what I said that you had to talk to him about these things that you're concerned about right now, just do it when the time comes, when you feel brave enough for it and if you feel like it, for sure.

 

I did love my boyfriend but my relationship with him "deteriorated" for unknown reasons, and he started being so so cold with me. I just wanted to hug and kiss him but he didn't seem to want the same thing but still he went out with me. He wasn't like this before, of course, otherwise I wouldn't have been able to stand such situation. The thing is, that after several months of going out, he changed for bad. I was really happy with him before and I couldn't believe what was happening then, what the hell was wrong with him?! :angry: At first I thought that he'd change once again, that he'd be the same person I had known some months ago... but time went by and he still behaved that way. I wanted to fight for our relationship and I did everything I was able to, but it didn't seem to work until a point that an idea was seizing me: that I couldn't live that way any more because I was so damn unhappy. It took me several months to have the courage to talk to him about our relationship... but Im glad I finally did because actually it worked our problem out.

oh, Magda, Im sorry to hear this! I so understand how you feel (in spite of having gone through something similar a long time ago).

 

I didn't mean with what I said that you had to talk to him about these things that you're concerned about, just do it when the time comes, when you feel brave enough for it and if you feel like it, for sure.

 

I did love my boyfriend but my relationship with him "deteriorated" for unknown reasons, and he started being so so cold with me. I just wanted to hug and kiss him but he didn't seem to want the same thing but still he went out with me. He wasn't like this before, of course, otherwise I wouldn't have been able to stand such situation. The thing is, that after several months of going out, he changed for bad. I was really happy with him before and I couldn't believe what was happening then, what the hell was wrong with him?! :angry: At first I thought that he'd change once again, that he'd be the same person I had known some months ago... but time went by and he still behaved that way. I wanted to fight for our relationship and I did everything I was able to, but it didn't seem to work until a point that an idea was seizing me: that I couldn't live that way any more because I was so damn unhappy. It took me several months to have the courage to talk to him about our relationship... but Im glad I finally did because actually it worked our problem out.

 

 

Oh God, Iris! I feel like I was reading about my own relationship! It's almost the same, here! I was talking to a friend of mine, and she told me that she appreciates me, she would have broken up with him, if she was in my shoes. He's been at the mountains for five days now, and he texted me just once. So I decided that I'm going to tell him the two possibillities. One: he'll think about his attitude to me and change it, two: we'll break up.

I don't know, but this relationship just doesn't bring me happiness, but just depression and such.

Oh I see, so is there a before and an after in your relationship? I mean if at first he was more thoughtful of you and more affective and lately he seems to have forgotten a bit of caring your relationship...?

 

By the way, my bf was my first one (and for some reasons I've got the feeling that this is your first one too) and when you've less experience you don't really know what to expect or how to act in such situations.

 

I'd do what your friend told you - the first option -, but as I said, I'd do it when I'm ready and sure of it. ;)

Oh I see, so is there a before and an after in your relationship? I mean if at first he was more thoughtful of you and more affective and lately he seems to have forgotten a bit of caring your relationship...?

 

By the way, my bf was my first one (and for some reasons I've got the feeling that this is your first one too) and when you've less experience you don't really know what to expect or how to act in such situations.

 

I'd do what your friend told you - the first option -, but as I said, I'd do it when I'm ready and sure of it. ;)

 

No, this is not my first boyfriend. But this is the first person that behaves like him. I've never met anyone like him before.

 

Anyways, now I was starting to think about our break up, and guess what? He's just texted me. After four days. And he acts like nothing happened, and everything's alright. But nope, it's not alright. I'm unhappy in this relationship. I need a change. But it depends on him, what kind of change it's gonna be.

oh, so you had other boyfriends who didn't behave as such?

 

Okay, I see you're really sure about it! Well, it also depends on you. Feelings can change and you might fall for someone else. Anyway, you should talk to him about it, it's the only way to solve troubles, precisely speaking about them.

oh, so you had other boyfriends who didn't behave as such?

 

Okay, I see you're really sure about it! Well, it also depends on you. Feelings can change and you might fall for someone else. Anyway, you should talk to him about it, it's the only way to solve troubles, precisely speaking about them.

 

 

My previous boyfriend really cared about me, we were together quite often and stuff. We broke up because both of us felt that it's not that good any more and that we don't need to see each other so often and we don't love each other any more.

 

Anyway, I've talked to my boyfriend about it for a few times, but I think he didn't care. For two days, it was better (I think he tried hard), but now, it's the same as before again. I don't know. I love him, but on the other hand, I can't stand his behaviour sometimes.

Oh so you lost the interest in your previous bf...that's sad considering that he cared so much about you, though it happens at times!

 

Maybe I could say, give to this "issue" time and let's see what happens, if he changes or if you have to do something about it!

Oh so you lost the interest in your previous bf...that's sad considering that he cared so much about you, though it happens at times!

 

Maybe I could say, give to this "issue" time and let's see what happens, if he changes or if you have to do something about it!

 

We cared much about each other, and we both kinda lost the interest...

 

More time? Alright. You know, I hate waiting and stuff. I need to react immediately. But we'll see. You see, everytime I'm angry about him (this happens quite often during the last month), I'm angry when I'm not with him. Then I see him and I forgive him anything. That annoys me.

oh, that's what happened to me too and made me feel angry at myself! Silly me, I used to think.

 

so, at least the time that you spend with him, do you feel loved ?

oh, that's what happened to me too and made me feel angry at myself! Silly me, I used to think.

 

so, at least the time that you spend with him, do you feel loved ?

 

 

Exactly, silly me.

 

I'm not sure, if I feel loved. Sometimes yes, sometimes no. But I felt much more loved two months ago or something. I don't know what happened. You know, I love to hug him and kiss him, and he doesn't seem to enjoy it as much as I do, but when I ask him, if he minds, he says he's glad because of it. I don't know, it's just been weird recently.