what does that mean?:huh:

which guy can't be an asshole? ;)

 

however. you're right, his character makes him cute, nice, interesting etc. :) but there probably is a guy type you'd rather look at than at others...

 

haha yes this is true....I don't even know what I'd think about him if I didn't know him....if we consider it that way then I'm the one who likes guys with dark curly hair hehe...:wacky:

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curly hair is nice! :D though i like guys with wavy hair more. but in the long run, this doesn't really matter :nice:

ohhh a picture :)

 

he looks cute and he seems a funny guy :P

ah hihihi.....I thought about this "married couple thingy" again and damn it's actually true...we always go home together....it's understood that we do that....or we ask each other if the other one wants to go home...and last friday we always bought each other drinks...like "Ok now I am the one to take two beer"...although there were like 6 other people with us....:wacky:

 

 

mwha we're cute when I think about all these things that come to my mind now....:blush:

 

 

mwha

I'm too confused....I guess we just like the fact of being together as much as we can...but well don't couples just do the same thing, except that they kiss each other (and do other things..) and we don't?

 

man he even goes to the same latin course like me although he does not have to go there (he failed his exam and has to retry next year...)...

 

we're always so happy to hear to we will go out together at weekends...it's so strange sometimes I think he thinks the same like me (how often have I said this before?)....

 

 

ahhh,,..

arghs arghs arghs...in the last couple of weeks I accepted the fact that I am just in his friends zone and I was even happy with that....we didn't go out that much anymore but this just happened because of time problems and all that stuff....since yesterday I think a lot of him again...

 

last night there was this Germany-Portugal match on TV...we watched it with many people outside in the city...he was sitting next to me on a bank and we were screaming so much when our team scored a goal...and this second goal moment I won't forget...

he jumped off the bank and high fived with some other friends at first...I kept sitting and was screaming and thought " ah damn he doesn't even high five me or hug me or something" but exactly in this moment I felt a pair of hands on my head and somebody kissing me on my head...ahhh it was such a cute moment...I put my hands on his hands on my head hehe...:blush:

 

so after the match we partied on the streets and then we went home...on our way home we talked about our homework we hadn't done (it was 1am and we had to attend uni at 10am)...so he said I should come home with him and we will do those homework together...haha of course we didn't do that...we drank wine and talked and listenend to music....it was soooooooooo nice...

 

argh those things are actually nothing special, but this evening showed me again that he is such a special person and how much I actually like him...:dozey:

Aw, that's adorable. :nice:

Gah, it sucks to be in the friend zone, I know. But at least you have a good friend, right?

Yeah I have....I just have never found someone who I can talk about my music as much as I can with him...and there is still this high opinion thing...awwwww

ahhhh I think I have a crush on somebody (again and again)....not on this guy (he has something like a girlfriend now...well not really...just a sex-girlfriend)...but this time it really is with heart bumping and all that stuff....and I think he likes me too....:uhoh:

 

 

but erm how many times did I think that?Hahahahahah all this sounds so teenager like...:wacky:

men are like...huh.

 

idiots?

 

they really have no idea what they're doing, ever. that's all the advice i have. :P

Well, I think I'll agree with you there....people always say they don't get women...they are complicated and stuff....but I rather don't get men...

i know. :P

 

men. ugh.

 

why can't they just say what they're feeling.

 

cause they have to be all 'macho'.

 

but then why do we need them so much?

 

it's very, very annoying. :P

for me it's just the problem that I don't know how to take compliments (and I got a whole bunch of those last night....)....:huh:

^:laugh3::sneaky::dozey:

aw julia! i just read that footie match "story" you posted and that's just sweeet :nice:

and hey, it's always nice to feel attracted to someone :dance: even if the guy/girl changes every day 10 times :lol:

men like to lead people on if they mean it or if they don't.

 

sometimes, you just have to take that jump when you think they do.

 

ask them out, even if it's just a friendly trip to the movies or to get some food.

 

that's how i got my last boyfriend. :P

haha yeah it was cute indeed....I must admit that since he has his sex-friend our friendship has changed a bit...I'm got a whole bunch more easy going in front of him...which is a quite good thing....I know what he thinks of me and c'est ca!

haha yeah it was cute indeed....I must admit that since he has his sex-friend our friendship has changed a bit...I'm got a whole bunch more easy going in front of him...which is a quite good thing....I know what he thinks of me and c'est ca!

 

that's good to hear! i'm happy to know that things are going fine for you :nice:

Are you on holidays yet?are the big exams over?

men like to lead people on if they mean it or if they don't.

 

sometimes, you just have to take that jump when you think they do.

 

ask them out, even if it's just a friendly trip to the movies or to get some food.

 

that's how i got my last boyfriend. :P

 

hehehe well I don't have to ask him out becuase actually he already did some weeks ago...there'll be a classical concert in some weeks and he asked me if we should go there because we both like it....:nice:

 

but anyways....since this story with the guy who this thread is about I don't know what to think anymore...

 

but well i got 2 quite sweet compliments of him last night-...haha actually something I always wanted a guy I like to say to me: " You'll have a great husband one day I'm sure of that"----it was not even in context becuase we were tlaking about our uni professors before...:wacky:

 

I found it sweet...

 

hahah and when his friends were planning a trip to France with a lot of wine, and cheese, and bread and beautiful women of course....he said "No there are no beautiful women................except Julia!"...that was cute....but well it was probably just a stupid compliment like all the others women get every now and then...

that's good to hear! i'm happy to know that things are going fine for you :nice:

Are you on holidays yet?are the big exams over?

 

Thanks Rolly:D

 

No, I'm not on holidays yet. They'll start on the 25th of July...next week I'll have 3 exams and another one on the 25th...:(

Thanks Rolly:D

 

No, I'm not on holidays yet. They'll start on the 25th of July...next week I'll have 3 exams and another one on the 25th...:(

 

Darn, since i've been on holidays for 5 weeks i always forget what date (or even weekday) it is :wacko:

But hey, i'll start to take classes for my driving license on monday :dance: I'm sooo looking forward to it :dance: smashing a car or two should be fun haha

Darn, since i've been on holidays for 5 weeks i always forget what date (or even weekday) it is :wacko:

But hey, i'll start to take classes for my driving license on monday :dance: I'm sooo looking forward to it :dance: smashing a car or two should be fun haha

 

haha awwww driving lessons?My gosh i sooo can rememeber when I took them...I was sos cared at the beginning...I can remember how I posted about it on here....oh my it feels this has been years ago....now I feel old....:wacky:

:laugh3:Well, we're afraid to say what we're thinking because we're sensitive! (and that just wouldn't look Manly..) Plus, there's a fear of being hurt when you let your guard down.. We're not all the same, but most guys are afraid to show their feeling because of that.

We are what we are - our job is to hunt, make shelters, wrestle wild boars, and build things..(a generality of course, but it's our specialty). - we've got more muscle, less endurance, and our brains are hard-wired differently from women. It's just natural - that's all!

But yea, women are confusing!;) They're all into this socializing stuff, and relationships and everything like that.:P (which I finally understand, actually.) Plus, gals are busy making the nest comfortable, and we're working on the outside of the nest, so it's just the way things are.. Most guys don't play house when they're kids; they're busy building with blocks, or flying airplanes, or making things, etc. Gals have the social scene all figured out, and we're on another wavelength.. so, we're a bit clumsy at socializing in general..

Since humans are so successful that predators are no longer a problem, we're into Plumage :cool: . Men try to look strong, virile, and athletic; smart in constructive ways, and socialize in the contact-sport way. Women try to look umm.. curvy:wink3:, strong, fun, happy, and socialize in more intelligent ways. But these are generalities at best, and perhaps strongly influenced by patterning at an early age.

All I can say is, "it varies"! Probably the truth is that we're really all a lot closer to love birds, than to wild jungle fowl. It's just the wavelengths of thought we're on are sometimes a ways apart, so you need to understand to use a gentle brush when trying to get our attention..