yes, it is actually a bit weird. :thinking:

 

Maybe he is the independent - type? I mean that kind of person who doesn't need the others that much to feel full, that he's able to do most of things on his own.

yes, it is actually a bit weird. :thinking:

 

Maybe he is the independent - type? I mean that kind of person who doesn't need the others that much to feel full, that he's able to do most of things on his own.

 

Yesh, he's kinda that. I don't take the independence from him, he can be independent, but I need to feel loved, and cared. I let him do anything he wants, but I just need to know that he's somewhere outside thinking and caring about me.

I let him do anything he wants, but I just need to know that he's somewhere outside thinking and caring about me.

 

oh, that's so thoughtful of you, really. I know loads of girls who would be "annoying" their boyfriends asking them where they are and what they're doing etc too often. But this means that you do trust him. He should be happy of this!

oh, that's so thoughtful of you, really. I know loads of girls who would be "annoying" their boyfriends asking them where they are and what they're doing etc too often. But this means that you do trust him. He should be happy of this!

 

Well, he thinks that it's also good for me that I'm not limited either. So, we're two free persons. But I'd prefer to be a bit under control! I know it sounds weird, but now, I feel like I have no boyfriend. I just need to know that he's somewhere and controls me :lol:

This probably happens because you don't feel loved enough, that he doesn't care as much about you as he should, otherwise Im sure that you'd appreciate your freedom I wouldnt want to feel under control .

 

but yeah, I get your feeling.

This probably happens because you don't feel loved enough, that he doesn't care as much about you as he should, otherwise Im sure that you'd appreciate your freedom I wouldnt want to feel under control .

 

but yeah, I get your feeling.

 

 

I'm glad someone understands me. :)

You know, friends of mine told me I'm a very brave girl, they would've broken up with him a long time ago...

you're welcome! :nice:

well, actually it's not that difficult to understand you considering what you're going through with your bf recently.

 

To be honest I think you've got to be really brave for splitting up with someone too because it's not an easy thing to do - it's always a loss because all the feelings, sings of affection there were between you, will never be any more.

you're welcome! :nice:

well, actually it's not that difficult to understand you considering what you're going through with your bf recently.

 

To be honest I think you've got to be really brave for splitting up with someone too because it's not an easy thing to do - it's always a loss because all the feelings, sings of affection there were between you, will never be any more.

 

 

That's the problem. I can't imagine I couldn't kiss him or hug him anymore. That would be a punishment for me I think. We'll see how it's gonna end up ;) I'll give it some time. Though, I was thinking that I wouldn't work it out, and just leave it... And he would either do something on his own or our relationship would be less and less strong...

that's what I'd probably do - giving it more time - because it's clear you care about your relationship.

 

And I'm sure you did it, but talk to him about your concerns when you've got the chance (not in a "threatening" way like saying "if you don't change, I'm gonna leave you", just tell him some things that could be improved in your relationship and that would make it better). If this didn't "work"... then I guess I'd think of something else to do.

that's what I'd probably do - giving it more time - because it's clear you care about your relationship.

 

And I'm sure you did it, but talk to him about your concerns when you've got the chance (not in a "threatening" way like saying "if you don't change, I'm gonna leave you", just tell him some things that could be improved in your relationship and that would make it better). If this didn't "work"... then I guess I'd think of something else to do.

 

 

In fact, that was exactly what I was going to tell him. "If you don't change your attitude to me, I'm gonna leave you". :lol:

Anyway, I'm falling asleep. Good night, Iris. Thanks a lot for this dialogue, it helped me. I'm going to tell you when there's some news :) Bye :kiss:

hahaha :lol:

 

well, think about it - what you're going to tell him - (I know that you do).

 

Perhaps what could help you a bit is considering the options you've got, I do this at times, especially when I'm way too confused and have no clue of what to do.

I create a list with the "options" I've got and I write in a sheet of paper the advantages and disadvantages for each of them. Then, I have an overview, try to focus on the issue and I usually end up choosing one option and carrying it out.

 

nighty night Magda! :kiss: I'm glad that I was able to help you a bit.

so yeah, let me know about your news when you've got some!

Hm, there is this cute guy in my school and i have just noticed how cute he is and for some reason i sometimes feel like he's watching me.. don't know if i'm just imagining it all though.

 

And now i've noticed that we pass each other at school maaany times a day and sometimes i see him walking somewhere after/before school too. So now when i'm about to pass him i've started to take an eye contact with him :nice:

Soo.. i'm just gonna keep doing this and if he doesn't look another way then i may actually say something to him later. But i'll keep on doing this for a week or two and we'll see if i have the guts to do something about it :dance:

yayyy.....try it Rolle, try it I think there is nothing to loose...:dance:

I knew Rolly was horny for someone, way to go Rolly! :wacko:

haha we could start another competition:

 

who will be the first to have a bf: Rolle or Julia?

 

:wacky:

Someone make a thread about that! :dance:

well if there will be a thread then neither Rolle nor me are the ones to open it...

ha and I don't want to know how long this competition will take...I guess we would still have this thing going in something like 5 years...:wacky:

yayyy.....try it Rolle, try it I think there is nothing to loose...:dance:

 

 

Yeaah but i'm just so shyyy :\ So i just wish that he gets the point..well, IF he's interested in me haha. i'll just keep on staring at him :wacko: so he should have the guts and come over ME to ask ME out haha

yeah i know..i'm bad :disappointed:

 

I knew Rolly was horny for someone, way to go Rolly! :wacko:

 

 

Raaawr :whip: no one said it's gonna work out though! so i may have to count on my phone and you calling to me till the end of my life bohooo

haha we could start another competition:

 

who will be the first to have a bf: Rolle or Julia?

 

:wacky:

 

 

Heey it's not fair! you already almost have a boyfriend! And another waiting in line if the first one doesn't work out :lol:

 

ha and I don't want to know how long this competition will take...I guess we would still have this thing going in something like 5 years...:wacky:

 

yeah i think that'd be my case :wacko:

ahh Rolle....I guess we are just the same when it comes to guys....I also expect them to come over to me and not the other way round, because I think if they don't they aren't interested in my...I'm just too shy....

Heey it's not fair! you already almost have a boyfriend! And another waiting in line if the first one doesn't work out :lol:

 

 

 

yeah i think that'd be my case :wacko:

 

nah definitely not....I'm still so confused about what he wants and stuff....and well the other guy...I saw him again on wednesday...we did not really talk....I think he realised that we don't really fit together...

bah i hate it when girls wait for me to make the first more, just go for it, the guy will like it more ( he might think you're a ho but still :lol: )

ahh Rolle....I guess we are just the same when it comes to guys....I also expect them to come over to me and not the other way round, because I think if they don't they aren't interested in my...I'm just too shy....

 

Well exactly! I just can't believe that someone would be interested in ME. and if someone is they should show it in some way, right?

And if they don't..well.. then they probably aren't interested in me. Or then they're just shy.

But i always think that i'm just a random person. Nothing special about me. I'm an ordinary looking girlie. And i know that if someone saw me walking on street they wouldn't look twice. I'm just so ordinary.

Well exactly! I just can't believe that someone would be interested in ME. and if someone is they should show it in some way, right?

And if they don't..well.. then they probably aren't interested in me. Or then they're just shy.

But i always think that i'm just a random person. Nothing special about me. I'm an ordinary looking girlie. And i know that if someone saw me walking on street they wouldn't look twice. I'm just so ordinary.

 

Mwha same here....I also think that I'm rather boring and random....but on the other hand I think that I am definitely not!Becuase when I look at all the other girls....there is definitely nothing special about them...and sometimes I feel that they are so different from me....which makes me special...so actually I am not a random person...bah so many people have told me this....but no guy seems to love it.....:bigcry: