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My relationship with my parents, especially my dad, gets worse everyday, like I seriously hate him most days like today. Basically our communication sucks and I just can't stand being in the same room with him. He thinks and only sees the worst of me and always finds a way to lecture and yell and verbally abuse me.

My mom, we usually get along but we have our days, too.

 

I really can't depend on either of them for anything when it comes to my emotional needs, everything turns into this big dramatic fight of how I can't do anything right and how my atttitude sucks and how ungrateful I am etc, etc.

 

 

 

 

 

So, how do you guys get along with your parents?

We don't.

Ivet, my relationship with them is almost exactly like yours. Except that it's gotten better with my dad. Though there are periods when it's kind of bad.

I only have my mom but my relationship with her is amazing I must say. :nice: I know I can really count on her for anything and we share a lot of things.

 

But don't worry your relationship with your parents is not a lost cause ! Those relationships tend to change a lot so it'll probably get better.

I have the same exact relationship with my mother, Ivet.

 

But the worst part is no one really understands, and no one can understand. If I try to talk to a family member about it they'll say 'She's having a hard time'. My mom got a divorce with my step father far over a year ago and people are still saying it. I understand it effected her more than me because ever since I was 4 years old I'd fucking hated my stepfather. It still doesn't give her a reason to bitch at me. She treats my two little sisters fine, but if she can take a chance to argue me she'll take it.

 

And I don't really get to see my father, only a few times a month.

I get along terrific with my Mom and my Dad.

My Mom is basically my best friend and I can tell her anything, and my Dad is just hilarious. He makes me laugh. But he's the strict one in my house and my Mom is more laid-back.

fantastic

shaped my taste in music (radiohead, portishead, massive attack, flaming lips, beck)

help me out when i need it

same sense of humour as me

there only downside is no drugs policy

I get on with them very well actually, I can't complain.

They're quite laid back too :nice:

It's'all good.

I get along almost too well with my mom. :awesome:

My dad... Let's just not talk about him.

Now really good (as long as I don't live with them :tongue:), but I used to have a really bad relationship with my dad when I was about 12-16. Basically he acted like a douche most of the time when I was at his place (in weekends, with my little brother) and I had to be the grown up. The fact that we both are stubborn as hell didn't help much either. I even got kicked out of the house a fair few times and I strongly considered breaking all ties with him. But eventually he got over himself and now we have a great relationship. In hindsight I'm really happy I held on to our bad relationship even though at the time it was really hard. Luckily I've always had a great relationship with my mom.

 

My relationship with my parents got a lot better when I moved out, by the way. :nice:

My relationship with my dad is fine; we're very alike. But my mom...she just annoys me. She's too controlling, and still tries to treat me like a baby. So it kind of goes like a see-saw. Good bad good bad good bad, etc. But, I would say that most days are good. At least we have similar tastes in men. :P

I'm okay with them for the most part, but sometimes, especially lately my mothers midlife crisis has been annoying

Pretty well, except sometimes my parents really piss me off. But I ignore it and we don't fight or anything.

I get along pretty well with my parents. It seems like my relationship with my dad is a lot better though, because my mom and I are a lot alike and tend to er..."butt heads" with each other. :lol: Sometimes it feels like she's always trying to invade in my personal life, and even though I know it's cuz she cares, it pisses me off. :P

I don't.

Aside from the problems, I feel like my parents are both different teams trying to make us love one better than the other.

But both sides suck.

 

One's a alchy, and another is a freakazoid with metapause.

I like my dad better tho.

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My relationship with my parents, especially my dad, gets worse everyday, like I seriously hate him most days like today. Basically our communication sucks and I just can't stand being in the same room with him. He thinks and only sees the worst of me and always finds a way to lecture and yell and verbally abuse me.

My mom, we usually get along but we have our days, too.

 

I really can't depend on either of them for anything when it comes to my emotional needs, everything turns into this big dramatic fight of how I can't do anything right and how my atttitude sucks and how ungrateful I am etc, etc.

 

 

 

 

 

So, how do you guys get along with your parents?

I assume you did this thread to let your anger out? If you did, then I congratulate you.

 

My parents abandoned me when I was 8, it happened mainly due to intense difficulties within my parents and confrontations with other family members.

I'm kind of grateful for it, but sometimes I do wish I could have had both of my parents together with me until I was older.

I've never fought with either of my parents :freak:

It's both good and bad. There are times where I can just hate them, sometimes where I just love them. :nice:

I assume you did this thread to let your anger out? If you did, then I congratulate you.

 

My parents abandoned me when I was 8, it happened mainly due to intense difficulties within my parents and confrontations with other family members.

I'm kind of grateful for it, but sometimes I do wish I could have had both of my parents together with me until I was older.

 

Man, that's so fucked up. I can't really think how some people would actually call themselves "parents". :veryangry2:

I've never fought with either of my parents :freak:

 

 

 

Because you're graceful.................. :rolleyes:

 

I had to do that. :shame::shame:

 

Please don't get offended. :blank:

 

 

 

 

 

How is it possible? :dizzy:

Man, that's so fucked up. I can't really think how some people would actually call themselves "parents". :veryangry2:

Just because you fuck someone and have a baby with him/her doesn't make you a parent.

I get along pretty well w/ my parents. of course like anybody there are disagreements. but i'd say most of the time we get along really well.

Well, this question depends on which parent we're talking about.

 

My mother is the one person I love more than anyone else in the world. Even in my darkest days, she was there for me and did all she could, putting me before herself. She puts everyone before herself, really. I don't see how she does it. She fully accepts me for who I am, and that means a lot to me.

 

I wish I could say the same for my father, but that's not the case. I'd get more into why, if I didn't feel like I'd get all emotional and start to cry in the process.

Because you're graceful.................. :rolleyes:

 

I had to do that. :shame::shame:

 

Please don't get offended. :blank:

 

 

 

 

 

How is it possible? :dizzy:

 

:laugh3: I don't offend easily!

 

I don't know, I guess that I just hate conflict. And if there is something we disagree on I can see the reason they have that opinion and I can understand it and respect that.

Or I'm just weird :lol:

Not bad :P