I'll try to make this as short as possible. There's this girl I met after coming to college who I really like. I wrote some love poems for her but my roommates found out and told her because she knows us all. And then today I was so excited after finally finding out the tracklist (I was looking forward to this more than Paradise even). And I posted on Fb how happy I was, I just happened to be wearing my Coldplay shirt today and I framed a color print out of the album title and back cover. She was in our room and asked what it was and she knew it was Coldplay without me even saying anything. With me sitting like three feet away, no music in or anything, she whispers to her friend "He likes COlDPLAY...how can he expect me to love or even LIKE him?" And. Now I just don't know what to think or how I should react to this. I feel hearbroekn though. It seems so immature and unfair for her to judge me like that for liking the best band in the world. :'(

oh men, shes clearly not worth it!

 

I mean it.

If she's THAT much of a douche about what kind of music you like, then she must not be worth it.

She's not the right one bro, you'll find someone who likes your music or at least tolerates it without being so stuck up.

 

Usually for an extra fee, hookers will enjoy your favorite music too.

It seems so immature and unfair for her to judge me like that for liking the best band in the world. :'(

You got your answer about that person right there. Don't waste your time on her.

And I agree with what the other guys said.

Just find another woman who respects you as you are! She clearly doesn't worth it! :)

If she's THAT much of a douche about what kind of music you like, then she must not be worth it.

 

yup, agreed.

 

she's not worth your time if she won't even respect what music you like.

What a stuck-up bitch.

 

No, seriously. What everyone is saying is true. If she's really going to judge you based on something stupid like that, then she's not worth any more of your time. You'll find someone much better than her in due time.

might want to make sure if she was joking or not

I hate to be harsh but from the sounds of it there's o' plenty of social barriers you will have to break through before actually having a girlfriend.

 

Well, if something like this annoys you, definitely.

I hate to be harsh but from the sounds of it there's o' plenty of social barriers you will have to break through before actually having a girlfriend.

 

Well, if something like this annoys you, definitely.

 

He'll always have internet porn.

Thanks to all of you for taking time to consider my situation. For your kind words and honesty as well. You're right after all, it's really not worth it. :/ I'll have to move on somehow. Maybe Paradise will give me something to try to keep my mind off it for awhile.

 

might want to make sure if she was joking or not

She wasn't. I looked at her right after she said that and she had that face of :embarrassed: "oops, should've waited to say that when he wasn't around."

 

I hate to be harsh but from the sounds of it there's o' plenty of social barriers you will have to break through before actually having a girlfriend.

Well, if something like this annoys you, definitely.

 

I don't understand sir. What do you mean? Please clarify. And. Wouldn't you feel bad if someone didn't even give you a chance because of the music you listen to? Maybe it's just me. idk. But I know people can be Nazis or gang members or robbers or rapists and they still have relationships. But, you know, I went too far with openly liking Coldplay's music didn't I? That's probably a bit much in retrospect.

 

He'll always have internet porn.

 

Mean! But funny. haha :P

She wasn't. I looked at her right after she said that and she had that face of :embarrassed: "oops, should've waited to say that when he wasn't around."

Wow, that sucks.

 

If she's going to poke fun at you like that, just move on.

Are you kidding?

 

What a bitch! God. That pisses me off.

Wow, that sucks.

 

If she's going to poke fun at you like that, just move on.

 

:| Yeah. How is being a Coldplay fan so bad?? And I mean she listens to like Lil Wayne's music and other rap stuff all the time and I don't dislike her for that even though I don't like her choice in music at all honestly.

 

Are you kidding?

 

What a bitch! God. That pisses me off.

 

No sir. And :| I expected people here at college to be, I don't know. Less petty and judgmental than in hs. Seems like I was very mistaken.

She sounds like a dick. Move on. Just because she isn't interested in you doesn't mean she should embarrass you. Ignore her and she'll feel like a real a-hole.

Wow, that's absurd. This takes personal opinion way out of hand.

 

I'm sorry, man. There's better people out there for you. :)

No sir. And :| I expected people here at college to be, I don't know. Less petty and judgmental than in hs. Seems like I was very mistaken.

 

No. People at college are dichotomous in that respect: Many of them are really mature and others, not so much. :rolleyes:

Hahaha, and yeah, in the rest of your life those immature people keep on popping up, also post-graduates can suffer from this and 50 year olds.

 

I'm sorry this happened to you. I hope that the way this girl behaved will make it easier for you to get over her, because as many said already, she's not worth it.

 

and besides ... Coldplay is fantastic, how the fuck can she not get that :P

I hate to be harsh but from the sounds of it there's o' plenty of social barriers you will have to break through before actually having a girlfriend.

 

Well, if something like this annoys you, definitely.

 

 

Reilly speaks from experience :awesome:

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

jks jks :lips:

 

wow I'm sorry for you :hug:

you deserve someone who likes you for who you are what you like

Like everyone else said, move on! You don't need her in your life if she's that snobby.

I don't understand sir. What do you mean? Please clarify. And. Wouldn't you feel bad if someone didn't even give you a chance because of the music you listen to? Maybe it's just me. idk. But I know people can be Nazis or gang members or robbers or rapists and they still have relationships. But, you know, I went too far with openly liking Coldplay's music didn't I? That's probably a bit much in retrospect.

 

People say stupid shit they don't mean on a whim all the time, and it sounds like she was joking, but you've taken it seriously and got all flappy about it.

 

On the other hand, if she is serious, then you have nothing to worry about- stay away from that total retard. It would be totally unreasonable if she was put off you because you like a band, and I'll guarantee you'd have a bunch of unreasonable shit to deal with if you went out with her.

 

But again, she wasn't serious, and if its worried you so much why haven't you grown a pair and asked her about it?