He lives next door :D

GWYNETH PALTROW - PALTROW SUPPORTS OBAMA IN U.S. ELECTION

 

Actress GWYNETH PALTROW has become the latest Hollywood star to publicly endorse BARACK OBAMA for U.S. President because she's a big fan of his women's rights issues.

The mother-of-two has revealed her choice for the office as the November (08) election heats up, adamant the Democratic candidate shares her passions.

Paltrow tells Glamour magazine, "It is crucial that we elect a president who will make women's health a priority. For his entire career, Barack Obama has stood up for women in this way."

And Paltrow is not a big fan of Obama's opponent, Senator John MCCain.

She adds, "MCCain has voted against requiring insurance to cover birth control, and he's opposed funding for education about emergency contraception (EC). MCCain has voted against what is best for women's health 125 times. This year I'll be voting for a champion of women's health care, and a champion for my daughter's future."

 

and some pics from the madonna concert

GP in London today:

 

 

 

Credit: Just Jared

She looks sad. Maybe the paps are annoying her. Or she's upset for her friend Madonna.

 

P.S. How does she look THAT beautiful without makeup? :bomb: Look at that close up one, flawless! I look like death without makeup. :disappointed:

 

P.P.S. I love her coat :wideeyed:

sorry if this is a repeat

 

 

http://www.mailonsunday.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-1077779/EXCLUSIVE-Gwyneth-Paltrow-spent-months-begging-Madonna-try-save-marriage.html

I love her shoes!!!

P.P.S. I love her coat :wideeyed:

That was my first thought as well!

Nice coat, but the trousers... :\

 

The dress in roche's link is terrible! Shoes are awful and the dress looks like out of the 80's wardrobe... But the picture choice for Madonna isn't better either!

WANT. GWYNETH'S. COAT.

 

i picked out one the other day that's actually pretty similar, though, but it's brown :P

how come in some pictures, there is like a big white pin on her jacket?

<<Betting its an OBAMA pin.

More Gwyn pics from today in London.

 

Little Mo is sooooo cute and looks just like his Daddy :nice:

 

 

Credit: Gossip Girls

 

P.S. Mr Potato Head :cheesy:

I was just gonna say! Love the Mr. Potato Head!!

 

edit: AND Gwyn must've just bought it for him as all the parts are still in the right place!

Gwyneth Paltrow Provided Marriage Counseling to Madonna

BY: Showbiz | Thursday, October 16, 2008

 

Gwyneth Paltrow desperately tried to convince her friend Madonna to save her marriage to Guy Ritchie. The Hollywood , who has been close pals with the pop superstar for a number of years, spent months urging the to try and make the work for the sake of their children.

 

A source said, "Gwyneth will be deeply upset the marriage has ended. She begged Madonna all summer not to be an idiot and let the marriage fall apart. No one tried harder than Gwyneth to convince them to stick together. But Madonna has always been her own woman and in the end made her own decision."

 

Madonna, 50, and Guy, 40, raise three children together, Lourdes, 12--Madonna's daughter by dancer Carlos Leon--Rocco, eight, and adopted David Banda, two.

 

Gwyneth--who mainly lives in London with her British musician husband, Coldplay's Chris Martin, and their four-year-old daughter Apple and son Moses, two--is believed to be worried she will lose contact with the "4 Minutes" singer once the couple's legal separation is finalised.

 

A source added, "They used to have so much in common. They were both married to British men, split their time between the UK and US, raised young children and were incredibly successful in their chosen careers. But when Madonna becomes single again Gwyneth fears that bond will be broken. Overnight, they go from having everything in common to almost nothing. Gwyneth fears they friendship may not survive if Madonna moves back to America."

 

Madonna announced she was splitting from Guy yesterday ending months of speculation the marriage was in trouble. Her spokeswoman Liz Rosenberg said in a statement, "Madonna and Guy Ritchie have agreed to divorce after 7 l/2 years of marriage. They have both requested the media maintain respect for their family at this difficult time. A final settlement has not been agreed upon yet."

 

http://www.actressarchives.com/news.php?id=12717

More Gwyn pics from today in London.

 

Little Mo is sooooo cute and looks just like his Daddy :nice:

 

 

Credit: Gossip Girls

 

P.S. Mr Potato Head :cheesy:

 

 

very nice pics ...

 

thx for sharing mel :D

well it was mich who posted the pics :wink:

New Goop email:

 

This newsletter really needs very little by way of introduction. I am interested in spiritual disciplines within different religions and schools of thought. I thought it would be inspiring to periodically ask a question to a group of thinkers from various traditions on the subjects that often confound me. Below you will find the first question and answers by Deepak Chopra, Michael Berg of the Kabbalah Centre, Episcopal priest Cynthia Bourgeault, Sufi Shaikh Kabir Helminski, and New York psychologist Karen Binder-Brynes.

Question:

 

I have a friend who sees the world in a pessimistic light. This person is highly suspicious of people and situations, and sees, as well as experiences negativity at most turns. Why is this and what does it mean? What can be done to help someone of this nature?

Deepak Chopra replies:

 

A: First, it helps to understand the real nature of the problem. Imagine the self as a huge steamship, fully loaded, set on reaching a destination. When you set eyes on this ship in mid-journey, you don't see it being loaded, leaving port and settling on where it wants to go. By analogy, when you see your friend, you meet her at a given moment, but she is sailing through her life fully loaded with past influences – all of us express our entire lives in this very minute. The minute is fleeting, but the momentum carrying us forward is immense.

Your friend’s pessimism isn’t about what’s here and now. It’s about the fully loaded cargo she’s carrying. Here and now you are tempted to say, “See? There’s no reason to be suspicious or negative. It’s a beautiful day, we all love you. Be happy.” This approach never works. Not because your friend is stubborn but because this beautiful day and your loving feelings are a tiny fraction of her reality, her fully loaded cargo.

If you want to help someone in such a situation, keep the steamship analogy in mind. Her ship isn’t going to change course unless she wants to steer it in a new direction. You can travel with her, showing her a new direction. But don’t take responsibility. This isn’t your journey, it’s hers. A good deal of negativity is ego-based. Beneath the surface, at a subtler level of the self, she is afraid and insecure. She wants your loving support, and sometimes the clouds clear and she sees that you want the best for her. Keep offering that subtle influence of love and support. Don’t confront her head on (her ego will only get more stubborn), and don't be tempted to psychoanalyze her. She and you are both on a journey, and if it happens that you exchange a burst of light on the way, appreciate that and be alert to the next time you can share a moment of clarity.

Love,

Deepak

Deepak Chopra is the President of the Alliance for A New Humanity

www.deepakchopra.com

 

Michael Berg replies:

 

A: What we see is who we are.

When we are in a good place, we see goodness all around us. When we are in a bad place, we see darkness. We might think we’re picking up these flaws in others because we are smarter or better. But the deeper truth is our judgments are merely an indication of where we are at spiritually.

Kabbalah teaches that within everything in this world can be found good and bad aspects. We choose – consciously or unconsciously – which part we wish to see. That choice is a reflection of who we are.

When we meet someone for the first time, we can focus on their positive or negative qualities. The direction we go in is a choice we are making. The same goes for new situations. Obviously there are times we need to discern the pros and cons of people or situations because it affects our well-being. That’s part of life. But most of the time when we judge it is not out of necessity to make a decision, it is simply because our negativity causes us to see negativity in others.

In addition to indicating where we are at, there is an exchange of energy when we judge someone. Kabbalah explains that focusing on someone’s negativity actually brings that energy into our lives! Certainly, no one wants to consciously bring negativity into our lives, which is the whole concept; we are unaware.

This week, the lesson for us is twofold. First, be aware of this concept: what I see is where I am at. Develop within yourself the proactive ability to focus only on the good in people or situations. Second, know that by seeking out the positive in others and in all aspects of life, you are awakening – and strengthening – that goodness inside of you.

– Michael Berg

Michael Berg is Co-Director of the Kabbalah Centre

 

Cynthia Bourgeault replies:

 

A: I am not so sure it’s a question of nature, but of nurture – or lack thereof. We live in a world where fear and cynicism are running sky high, where traditional institutions of faith and culture are breaking down, and where our dislocation from nature and the natural rhythms of life leave our souls a little pent up and crazy. Suspicion and pessimism are pretty good defenses against a world gone mad. But the great spiritual teachings of the ages have suggested a radically counter-intuitive response. When this same question came up in Fyodor Dostoevsky’s great novel The Brothers Karamazov, the wise elder Fr. Zossima said in response, “Go help someone. Reach out to a brother or sister in need. Feed the hungry, heal the sick – (or at least, take on your small share of the task) – and then, only then, will you come to know that the world is trustworthy and God is real.” His point is tough, but true: First the eye of the heart must open, and only then will one see confirmation in the external world. As long as suspicion and pessimism are being projected, suspicion and pessimism are what the cosmos will confirm.

So how to break the vicious cycle? Fr. Zossima’s advice is still as true today as it was in his time: look for a chance to serve. Volunteer in a shelter, a food pantry, a nursing home: it will soften your heart. Spend time in nature, in a playground with young children; sing!; read love poetry; hang out with the "good, the true and the beautiful," however they speak to you. The problem is that we are starving – all of us, really – for the energy of beauty and goodness so long absent from our contemporary cultural experience. But we have to start making these energies ourselves – from within ourselves. That is not only an individual task; it is our collective human task and our planet will thank us for it.

– Cynthia Bourgeault

Cynthia Bourgeault is an Episcopal priest, writer and retreat leader. She is founding director of the Aspen Wisdom School in Colorado and principal visiting teacher for the Contemplative Society in Victoria, BC, Canada.

 

Shaikh Kabir Helminski replies:

 

A: When our experience of the outer world is primarily through the filter of negative thinking, we gradually lose the capacity to experience life with an open heart. The thinking mind, at its best, may be a competent analyst and critic, but a purified heart is needed to perceive beauty and meaning, and the greatest suffering is meaninglessness.

Years of negative mental and emotional habits of perceiving the world corrode the mirror of the heart. The soul can become infected with negativity and lose the capacity to recognize the grace, beauty and generosity of what truly is. The mind then becomes a very tight prison.

Hope lies in two capacities of the soul: One is presence – a wider, meditative state of awareness that encompasses our thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. Presence offers a perspective on our thoughts and negative attitudes. Presence engenders a spaciousness which opens the doors and windows of the mental prison of negativity. Presence develops with meditation, inner silence and stillness, and mindful activity.

The second necessary capacity of the soul that can free us from the prison of the mind is a knowing heart, a faculty that begins to reveal itself in that state of presence. The heart perceives the simple goodness of life, the exquisite beauty of simple being, of relationships, of existence. The thinking mind cannot arrive at this perception alone. The head says, “No,” and “But...” Only the heart responds with an unconditional “Yes!” Only the heart can grasp the goodness of being, discover meaning in life and be grateful.

It’s simple, really, but the thinking mind will stubbornly argue otherwise until it is taught to be quiet and listen to the heart. Ultimately the thinking mind can be informed by the heart and translate the perceptions of the heart into language, communication and wisdom.

If we are habitually negative, suspicious and cynical about life, we are dumping garbage in and around the house of the soul. If we see with a knowing heart, keep a positive vision, encourage ourselves and others, keep the faith, we establish beautiful gardens in the soul.

– Shaikh Kabir Helminski

Kabir Helminski is Shaikh of the Mevlevi Order, Co-director of The Threshold Society (Sufism.org).

 

Dr. Karen Binder-Brynes replies:

 

A: Your friend has developed a protective defense system at seeing the world as a negative and unsafe place. Most humans are not born pessimistic, rather develop these tendencies as a result of early negative interactions, disappointments or trauma within their worlds, most likely in the immediate environment, i.e., family and/or caretakers. As a result, they find it safer to not have faith in things turning out right, or in believing that they will not always be wronged, struggle and suffer. This belief irrationally protects one from being continually disappointed. Unfortunately, these negative beliefs and feelings often attract negative energy from the universe, which in turn tends to reinforce their negative philosophy of life. These pessimistic feelings become so entrenched and familiar that they become like old friends. “Pessimism, when you get used to it, is just as agreeable as optimism.” –Arnold Bennet. Often, pessimists do not realize the impact that their negativity has on others: friends, families, co-workers and on just how much their “glass half-empty” feelings fulfill the very prophecy that “no matter what I do, things will always be bad.” Your friend needs to first realize that they have a pessimistic view of life and then must work hard at re-framing how they look at the world and how they came to have these beliefs. Anything your friend can do to help restore their faith and belief in the goodness of others, including themselves, can be helpful. For example, volunteer work is often a great way to start feeling better about oneself and give one a sense of well-being and meaning in the world. As a friend, injecting humor towards your friend’s pessimism is a relief mechanism for you and might help lighten your comrade’s heavy load, even if just for a moment!

– Karen Binder-Brynes, Ph.D.

Dr. Karen Binder-Brynes is a leading psychologist with a private practice in New York City for the past 15 years.

 

Next Week

 

We'll be enticing you to MAKE some utterly delicious vegan pancakes, quick Asian tuna sandwiches, and a dinner you can prepare in ten minutes.

AWWW. the moses pictures are adorable! i love the sunglasses and the mr. potato head :nice:

 

i still am not getting the GOOP emails :angry:

Her GOOP newsletters make me nauseous:sick:

I must admit I'm not a fan of this one...I don't think you should push your beliefs on others, especially when it is does in quite a manipulatory way.

 

She should just stick with the cooking and clothes :idea2:

I'll just pretend i didn't read that GOOP newsletter............ :uhoh:

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

oh wait!!!! didn't!!!!! :P

 

thank Guy for my selfpreservation instinct, that stopped me from continue reading that at the second line :nice:

haha, it didn't bother me, but to each their own. i thought she did quite a good job by asking various members of very different groups, but that's just me.

 

i much prefer the other ones, though. particularly the clothes ones :wideeyed:

 

:wacky: he's such a rock star!

 

:wacky: he's such a rock star!

 

yeah and i bet he'd eff you up with his Mr. Poato Head if you got too close to his mum:lol:

i have to say that i don't really see chris in moses, but i think apple is ALL chris.

 

but this is SO ADORABLE.

aww so cute pics of Moses :nice: