ow. i actually thought that 39 in European size is equal to size 9 in US. :shame:

 

now i'm confused. really confused.

 

I have 41 European size and that's 7.5 UK size and 9.5 US womens size.

Hmm did that make you less confused? :wacky: I'm getting this from my converse shoes btw, I think it was a little different on my vans

It might get better Emma! Depends on when you got your period I guess... And also if you use birth control pills... everything's not lost! :tongue:

you've obviously never sat through an hour of loose women :P

I've sat through 5 minutes and that was bad enough!!

So, I have a problem.

 

I am 16 and a half and stuck with 10A/32A/70B boobs. It is horrid.

All the tops and dresses in the stores are designed for people with big boobs or average sized.

It is really hard to get that nice looking top/dress that matches the bosoms.

Bras don't even properly fit me, because the natural ident between the boobs is much more farther in than usual in my chest, so the base strap doesn't actually sit on my chest, and the cups don't fit properly, and bla bla bla.

Also, I have breathing issues with them.

 

Is there anything I can do about this? Push ups? Anything? It makes me very VERY self-conscious. I just want to feel nice and attractive and good about myself. But no. Evil boobs to the... erm... not-so-rescue. I feel horrid about it. And no, they will not grow, I'm pretty sure by 17 if they are still As they are staying As.

 

I suppose it doesn't help I have shitty posture either.

 

Buying bras is a pain. I'd advice you to go to a proper place to get fitted (if you haven't already). I was wearing the wrong bra size for years because most shops don't do my back size. Finding the right bra can make such a big difference! I guess push up bras could be good for you but again I'm sure people in a specialist store will be able to help you.

 

I have to spend like £40- 60 on a bra because nowhere cheap sells bras in my size. I occasionally find bras in places like Debenhams but they don't usually fit very well.

The tops/dresses are designed for average & neither small nor big. I have the opposite problem in terms of size but the same problem with trying to find clothes to fit.

There are so many nice items which look like they'll fit big boobs but are designed wrong. The detailing is too high.

 

True! There's a lot of dresses I can't actually wear because they don't have a zip. I'd have to get them like 3 sizes to big if I wanted to wear them.

Gah... sometimes clothes fit better for girls with smaller boobs.... well smaller than mine.... :disappointed:

I wish I had boobs. :(

Haha, poor Ian, daytime TV indeed. At least it's not that dreadful Jezza Kyle :lol:

 

Hi Emma, I do feel for you, I have the opposite problem but my younger sister was a 30AA ( size 8/10 ) and could only wear "trainer" bras even after having and breastfeeding two 9 pound plus boys.

 

When she was 40 and had had enough of the low self esteem and body issues she had a boob job. I was against it as I was worried for her but she made the surgeon swear not to give her a "Victoria Beckham" and I must admit it does look very natural, she even let me have a feel haha She's about a 34C now which looks right for her frame.

 

Obviously I'm not recommending you go for that drastic solution but as Jen said "chicken fillets" might be the answer or as Anna and .sally said get properly fitted for a padded/gel bra in a more expensive shop, think of it as an investment. :kiss:

^Yeah well, I think Cobalt is quite young for boob surgery :P I think she should just wait for them to grow. If they don't, well then, you might want to make a decision. And I'll just repeat what everyone said, 'chicken fillet' and get bras might be what you're looking for for now.

Pic?

 

 

Just kidding. :lol:

 

I hope you the best Emma. God knows I am unhappy with my lack of development (I'm only 5'4" and probably shrinking). Oh well, at least I've been blessed in..other areas. :wink3:

 

I have very clean hair. :blank:

That's so lovely you are blessed with clean hair. God knows how fast mine gets dirty. :p

 

I might just go somewhere and get fitted. It might be hard because most places now don't have someone who will fit you now... and the Aussie sizes are more retarded than those Europe/US ones, at least those do the actual band measurement in either centimeters or inches, I have no damn idea what we had in our minds but it wasn't very logical.

 

The best you can do is try everything & work out what styles best flatter your shape. and for special occasions why not invest in those 'chicken fillet' things. I have a friend with petite boobs who uses the fillets or tit tape.

 

Fillets... eh... might think about it but not too fond of them.

 

There are measurements for boobs too? I thought it was only something B cup or something D cup.

 

Yeah there are.

 

It might get better Emma! Depends on when you got your period I guess... And also if you use birth control pills... everything's not lost! :tongue:

 

Yes to both ;P they grew a bit late last year so maybe it's not too bad.

That's so lovely you are blessed with clean hair. God knows how fast mine gets dirty. :p

Well I do have to wash it now and then. :rolleyes:

I can't get over that "chicken fillet" comparison.

Never thought about it but after Jen said it... they really look like them!

 

Aaaand who is Jeeza Kyle? :thinking:

I have very small boobs too, but my problem is generally that I need to put on weight as I'm very skinny. I've learned to live with it as I'm sure it comes along as my weight might go up. I'm 18 btw.

When I think I need bras (with an A cup I don't think there's much needing to be lifted) I can usually just buy them in H&M. :shrug: In fact I often find cute tops and dresses in H&M that look nice even though I'm not busty. So I don't agree that all the clothes are for average/big boobs. I don't particularly like buying push-ups with lots of fill in, as I'd feel sort of cheating. :P If you feel like it, go ahead.

Dressing well and wearing clothes that suits your figure is key, in my opinion. In fact wearing patterned shirts with details or wrinkles around the chest area can make it look bigger. Clothes with empire cut too.

 

reading this thread is like watching daytime television!

:lol:

Julie!!! Hi! :wacko:

 

How was Barcelona?

Was the weather nice?

I can't get over that "chicken fillet" comparison.

Never thought about it but after Jen said it... they really look like them!

 

Aaaand who is Jeeza Kyle? :thinking:

 

:lol: Jezza (Jeremy ) Kyle, he's a dreadful daytime host of a " Lets air all our family problems on national TV " type programme with lots of tragic people coming on doing DNA tests and lie detectors and telling all about affairs etc. it usually results in a punch up. My nieces love it!

 

Enjoy!!

 

[ame=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_HQtj2xlJj4]YouTube- Jeremy Kyle - Funniest Lie Detector Ever[/ame]

If you ask me most tops look better on flat-chested girls. If you have big boobs you're just gonna look fat in anything you wear.... it's been my disgrace :sick:

Flaunt what you've got Em. You've got those marvelous legs! Ya can't have it all! :p

I think I've got 2 personalities in one body :uhoh:

I FEEL YOUR PAIN SISTAH.

 

Although to be honest I usually just wear straight T-shirts so it isn't so much of a problem finding stuff that fits per se, mainly because a) my dad hates malls and won't take me to malls, b) I am not going clothes shopping with my like 60-something father and c) um... I don't know, I'm just terrible at shopping, like period. But otherwise I feel your pain, it's like, dude I'm fucking 16 why don't I have any boobs? :blank:

:lol: Jezza (Jeremy ) Kyle, he's a dreadful daytime host of a " Lets air all our family problems on national TV " type programme with lots of tragic people coming on doing DNA tests and lie detectors and telling all about affairs etc. it usually results in a punch up. My nieces love it!

 

Enjoy!!

 

Thank you! :kiss:

We have shows like that here as well, it's a shame.

Everyone wishes they looked different.

Everyone wishes they looked different.

 

Yeah, women especially are super insecure about their boobs, their hair, their height, their ass, everything. People with nice average sized boobs moan about how they're too big and make them look like a whore. People with pretty hair want to dye it a different color. Short people moan about being short. Tall people moan about being tall. Average people moan about being average. People just want to fit in I guess.

I moan about being short :nice:

Yeah, women especially are super insecure about their boobs, their hair, their height, their ass, everything. People with nice average sized boobs moan about how they're too big and make them look like a whore. People with pretty hair want to dye it a different color. Short people moan about being short. Tall people moan about being tall. Average people moan about being average. People just want to fit in I guess.

I am actually pretty comfortable with how I look for the most part. I mean, sure there are things I'd change if I could, but I can't, so I've learned to live with it and make the best of what I got.

 

Like my nose for instance, it's bigger than average person's. So I used to get pissed when getting a short haircut made it seem bigger. Then one day instead of being pissed about it, I changed my hairstyle so it changes the look of my entire face and makes my nose seem smaller. I didn't lie or do anything drastic, just one small change in hair style and I like the results.

 

People need to learn how to make the best of what they got.

 

And not having giant boobs isn't necessarily a bad thing. I think women with huge breasts for the most part aren't all that attractive. They remind me too much of fake breasts. :\